Perhaps choosing someone requires a step of faith, that covers that gap in our knowledge. I agree, that it is unreasonable to intentionally to choose an unsafe relationship, however, there are people who are driven more by their feelings, than by facts.
God bless, my friend!
Marshmallowgirl
Interesting choice, in choosing who we cannot love.
I am a saint in my standing before God (1 Corinthians 1:2), but practically I am a sinner. However, one day that is going to change. What I am now in position, I will be practically, in heaven.
All Christians are saints, by virtue of their faith, in receiving Jesus Christ as their personal Saviour (John 3:16).
Our feelings are misleading and unreliable in making good and right decisions. However, feelings do have their proper place in a relationship. There is a right way and a wrong way, in using our feelings. I think that is why we need both reason and emotion in developing that balanced perspective, when choosing people.
Cheer up, for I am praying for you! God bless you, friend! Serendipity:
Sometimes things can be so rosy in the beginning, that we ignore alot of red flags along the way. Once you get emotionally attached to someone it can be difficult to let go, even if you know in your mind, that this person is wrong for you. Indeed, it takes courage to do the right thing, especially when are feelings are pulling us in the opposite direction. This is why I believe that it wise to use our head in matters of the heart.
Though I do not believe in karma, I do however, appreciate hearing your perspective. I respect that!
May God richly bless you! Serendipity
Ken
Thanks for stopping by on my blog! God bless!
Calliopesgirl
Thanks. I'm glad you like my blog!
Indeed, a lack of discernment can make one open to unsafe people, as well as repeating past mistakes. I also agree that love for God, others, and self, can help us to look deeper, in pursuing that lasting relationship.
God bless!
Ccincy
Not sure of the context, in which you made your statement, but I appreciate you stopping by. Thanks for commenting.
I understand that you like women who tailor to your felt needs. However, our felt needs will never fully satisfy our real needs, in seeking what our hearts thirst and long for, in a meaningful relationship. The question of "meaning" goes beyond what science can answer, for it is philosophical in nature.
God bless!
NotMissTaken
Hello there. I understand where your coming from. There are certain people who can appeal to what we like, but fail miserably in fulfilling what we truly need, and seek in a relationship. I guess the question will come down to what we value most, in choosing the good guy from the bad guy. For truth can help us to distinguish them both. Stay positive!
My dear sister, my heart feels for you. Please know how very sorry I am, for you. Your such a pleasant lady, and deserve much better. I think your bf should have given you the benefit of the doubt, for why would he trust someone else (your friend) over you, if he sees you as his one true love. This reveals something about him, when it comes to trust. If he doesn't recognize you as trustworthy, then the problem is with him, not you.
As long as I have known you, I can trust you my dear sister. I believe you!
May God comfort you, in his love, and bring you peace, in your time of sadness.
In regards, to different denominations within Christianity, there is doctrinal "unity" on the essentials of the Christian faith, but "diversity" when it comes to nonessentials. It is not difficult to get agreement on the venerable dictum...
In essentials unity; in nonessentials, liberty; and in all things charity.
The essentials are the "basis" of unity within the Christian faith, since they are connected to our salvation and are foundational to what we believe as Christians. For there is no true unity, without unity in the truth.
The secondary issues (nonessentials) is where there is differing of opinion. We can debate rigorously over the nonessentials of the faith, without dividing over it.
We can all be of the same mind (as to the essentials), but different in opinion (as to the nonessentiles).
Weather we agree or disagree, we should do all things in love.
In regards, to people's own ideas and perceptions of how they see God and the Bible, alot can said concerning that, since a person's world view makes a world of difference, in how they view or interpret all of reality.
The Bible makes it clear that human beings are in rebellion against the God who is there, since what may be known about Him is "clear"(Rom 1:18). Man's main problem, is not his perception of the truth, but his rejection of it (1 Cor. 2:14).
For the Holy Spirit can only illuminate people's understanding of spiritual truths, when they are in a personal relationship with God, through Jesus Christ our Lord (1 Cor. 2:2-5).
As to the Bible, being without error...
God cannot Err.
The Bible is the Word of God.
Therefore, the Bible cannot Err.
If the premises are true, then the conclusion is also true. For the Bible clearly declares itself to be the Word of God. It also informs us that God cannot err. If the Bible erred in anything that it affirms, then God would be mistaken. but God cannot make mistakes.
God bless, my friend! Serendipity
mepinayko
Praise the Lord, sister! Thanks for your encouraging words!
I believe that only a descent guy, will appreciate such a lady, with good understanding, concerning her man. I like this blog! Where do I find such a lady like this? Lol.
There is nothing contradictory about being happily married, since it's possible, to be both happy and married at the same time in the same relationship.
The fact, that happily married couples do exist, and can testify to the happiness and success of their marriage, should be an encouragement to those who are seeking a lifetime commitment, till death do they part.
We hold theses truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness -That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed.
Indeed, beholding the beauty and vastness of the night sky, along with it's numerous stars, can cause one to experience a sense of awe, like nothing else, when one stops, and takes the time to appreciate it's beauty and wonder. This awe inspiring experience causes me to feel thankful, because, I believe the One who brought it into being, is personal.
I agree, and share your feelings about that magical effect, when we stop and ponder upon, our vast universe.
Much love and blessings to you, PJ! Have a great day! Serendipity
RE: To whom it may concern...........
You have my support, sister!God bless! Serendipity