Hi Catfoot I think it's perfectly normal for men, including you, to be in love with beautiful women. But it would be great when a beautiful woman is in love with you.
Ofcourse I do.. I ain't gonna spend my time, energy, and money without any expectation or purpose. When I meet or have first date with that person in real life, ofcourse I would expect : (1) him to be like as what he said about him online. (2) us both to enjoy our conversation and other moment till the time is up and we say "lets meet again". (3) him to like me too if I like him.
But if nothing does meet any of my expectation, oh well.. C'Est La Vie.
Hmm.. So I am supposed to say that my families and my lover are not my friends then? But I heard so many times some said like "my sister is my best friend." or "my brother is my partner in crime (means best friend)" or "my wife is my best buddy" etc etc.
Anyway, I have never tested my friends (I mean not my family nor my lover). So I don't know how many friends I really have. But when one of the ones I considered my friend came to me for financial help, I was there for her. Because I knew deep in my heart she would do the same for me if I were in need. Once a looooong time ago when she and I studied at the same university, she came all the way to my house (I was ill at that time) only to tell me that there would be an important test in class the next day. I took the test but she didn't. Taking a long walk to my house, she got ill.. worse than I was.
Since then, I always remind my self to be there for her whenever she comes to me for help. And I guess, according to your explanation on this blog, she is the only friend I am 100% sure I have.
And about my acquaintances, do you think I can call them my good or best acquaintances if they're not called friends, Catfoot? But then acquaintance somehow doesnt sound comfy.. so I still would prefer to call them my friends.
I guess it's too late to ask my Mom how she felt when I disapproved of her choices. Wish I read this blog when she was still around. And it's your fault, Biff!
Hi Tule. I am with ItchyW on this one. I used to evict them and destroyed their housing complexes on the weekends. But they kept coming back and built more houses and even hotels! I got tired finally. I can only hope that every single of them will emigrate from my house to yours.
Hi Gypsy.. Nothing is surprising here on CS.. When I heard someone said: "I cry every time there's a tragedy even to the remote places in Africa, or anywhere in the world" and in the next breath that person said how all Muslims must be killed, I simply said: "ÿa ya ya.. whatever.. talk to my hand!"
@Catfoot I have some friends who sometimes did bad things and being rude to some. But that doesn’t make me break our friendships. They did nice things and were polite to some others too, including to me, not just doing the bad things. Whenever they were nice, I would be nice to them too. But whenever they were bad, I would act accordingly. Ofcourse I didn’t like them for the bad things they did but I would appreciate them for the good things they did. Different things deserve different treatment.
To my understanding, that “women beater” guy you mentioned was trying to have a nice chit chat with you on that day. So to me telling him that you didn’t like him wasn’t necessary. But that’s just my opinion.
@AngelP Did I sound preaching? Well… I am only responsible for what I said and not for what you interpreted.
Am I the only one who never took any notice of who is what start sign? I dont know or never remember the star signs of every one who has been in my life. I only remember mine and even that I don't know how it would make me a different person if my star sign was a different one. Hmm..
Hi Biff, Was I jealous? I kept asking myself that question when I knew "my virtual lover" (now an "ex") was online and I didn't like it. Wait, don't get wrong. I didn't mind him hanging around with his cs friends. I just didn't like it when he did it in the middle of our conversation. How I knew he was online if I didn't access cs myself? You may ask. It took him much longer to respond my chat, kept me waiting but then I got curious. So I checked his profile, and there! He's online. I asked him to stop our conversation first and bid each other good night or have a good time or things like that and so I didn't have to wait for his respond.
Now, do you think such don't-like-feeling is a kind of jealousy?
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