Marty, are you waiting for the women to come to you? We don't usually. We're always told men like to be the hunters so the most you will get is someone peeking at your profile. If she does that a lot, send her a message. Don't wait for her to approach you.
Kenan - we're not a website that reads very long blogs, as a whole. I read yours and and all the very best of luck in Turkey - I did start my life over in another country 17 years ago, it isn't easy. Several of us here have done it, by choice or by necessity, we know what it is like for you.
120 times in the last 3 months, you've put in a lot of effort. Maybe too much effort. Your bad date, if she knew you from class she for sure knew what you looked like, sounds to me like there was a revenge thing going on there, you probably upset a friend of hers and there was some payback.
You are rushing it, and women don't like to feel they're part of a speed-dating process.
That's 3 female points of view. Maybe a couple of guys will come on with some helpful advice. Good luck.
We may yet meet up in Spain? I'm - all going well, of course - going to living an hour or so along the coast within the year and there are a few CS-ers planning trips so a general beach party definitely seems called for at some point
Bloody, you have way more fans than I think you realize. You tell it straight, you're blunt and in-yer-face, so maybe people are scared to say anything - but they watch you!
Good. Because that's the way I see it too. That someone could see it as a way out of an impossible situation and as a once-off, what's the worst that could happen -
Of course as this is a book it's NEVER that simple
I still think R60m sounds a bargain but one can't help but think he should have tried one cautious approach at a time, not a blanket spread of letters.
RE: "RAMBLIN MAN"..("RAMBLE ON")..(105)
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