We all say that and that's true in a sense...but there also has to be some attraction and the first bit of attraction has to come from the picture because of the venue...the next is the personality but that can't happen until you get to know the person which takes time...now I know for me.....a nice personality is what keeps me interested but...I also have to admit the picture is the first attraction and also how they comment and interact in the forum if they do...to a certain extent!!!!!!!!!![/quote
True but we are back to the fist thing said; The eyes wants something too, but yes if that is all they have it is not enough. I suppose one has to start somewhere and that is indeed the picture.
Those who have been on this forum for even a little while know you better and for sure you are NOT a scammer. So write the comment of this person under your shoe so you can erase her remark fast. Works faster on a cement floor okay?
Yes it is hard to deal with as I just want to be with one person and yes for long term. Not sooo difficult if you just want someone to fool around but that is not my thing, never has been, never will.
Really do not enjoy the searching. I never thought and believed that one day I would be looking again. Believed I would grow old and gray with the one I had. It was a very good mariage.
Have met in the last few years with a few but don't like this constantly having to adjust to someone new. (Love old shoes) Too many emotions involved, such different personallities to deal with.
But no, I will not give up. Of course I have also learned a lot and must keep the positives and dumb the negatives in the garbage.
How about buttons saying single, looking, married, just want to fool around etc.? Must say you are more daring then I am. When at a dance where women are told too chose, I would always ask a "old guy" we talking now 30 years ago, lol.
Please tell how is this working for you? This used to be my idea too let him make the first move but times have changed? Like I would never ask a man to dance, not today either.
Hi sweet sis, like you new picture too. Women ought to be a little mysterious well your succeeding lol Well I don't have as much choice as some of you do. Maybe more quality instead instead of quantity huh?
Yes I was thinking the same, women have had to deal with rejections too. The worsed is for me when a man shows he likes you etc. and then..... nothing. Leaves me wondering if I said, did something they did not like? What is wrong for man or woman to say; sorry but no longer interested? I would much prefer this to silence.
I have met a few very nice men but only after I made the first move. These men have seen my picture read my profile but made no move yet are glad when I do. ???????
Welcome to the forum Shannah. I wonder if the no baggage people had to deal with a lot of this from former gf's? No matter what, it is unrealistic and not sensitive. I avoid this kind really.
Lol the voice of experience............so many men do not know how to kiss..................
That is not nice, not fair!You are teasing us/me, don't forget no one too kiss for me right now.
We are a very curious bunch shucks maybe we learn something can't you look at it from that point?
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