I can speak from experience, my ex., was beautiful in body and mind. Within a 20 year marriage, we may have had 4 fights. I believed that it was the perfect union. But then life happens.
Went to see the latest Bond movie tonight. Nodded off twice. It was just another action film. The wit, underlying humour and class of the original Bond movies have vanished.
Would anyone choose a shirt, paint colour for their living room, a car, a pair of eye glasses while blind-folded ? No. Physical attraction always comes first.
There are those who try to convince themselves that, "looks", mean nothing, in an attempt to be spiritually higher and fulfilled. Our genetic structure reaches back millions of years and often conflicts with our present day mores and pop-culture outlook.
Hz', you are definitely coming with me to the operation..in spirit. I await your mail, but in the meantime I will work on a fantasy. Perhaps you and I on a tropical beach, lined with Palm trees, sipping our drink of choice as the sun sets. We gaze and listen to the receding tide and the warm breeze caressing us. I gently take hold of your hand and kiss it....the sweet essence of a woman. (Sorry, got carried away here)
I am having a knee operation next week. The Dr., said I'll need a general anesthetic. I refused. I have a deathly fear of going under unless I'm in bed and falling asleep.
I asked him to freeze the hell out of it and I'll deal with the pain. Anyone else share this phobia ?
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Can we can handle the truth ?
Body type and income are running neck and neck at this moment....