It's late, I meant, most certainly men--retrain and remember take out their brains?...
Not many men use their brains with us anyways. We can be pretty simple to figure out. We want alot of what you want, but we do not come equipped with the same package. Your package takes over your mind and we have to cope with that. Need I go further? If it is really love, that is wonderful. But if it is not, I walk away.There are too many players out there and we have to dodge them like bullets. I'm sure you guys say we are too.
But we all need each other, men and women. I do not think that is going to change. There are just men you know you can depend on and others you can't.
Ok, Nanners, sorry, that is right, forget the belly if he has one. I agree, take me as I am and love me, vice versa. I agree so much about personal growth, ethics, and honor. Also put in my wish list, hugs.
Ambrose, true again, but I do check out my mind all the time. I do understand myself better that way.
I wish men would try to figure themselves out a little and say more what they think instead of keeping it locked up. Maybe they do know and do not want to say, heck if I know. Again, we are not mind readers.
I admit, men say the same with us. So I do try to explain exactly what I am thinking.
I would also like to see men concentrate on big problems and forget about the baby ones, and if there is a real problem talk about it. Getting mad over little things is a big waste of time.
I do not think I look like my Blue Doberman. But that is the breed I like the most, I rescue dobermans in my group. Wile the Coyote is my 3rd Doberman. He is a lap dog and very cuddly.
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If you go to my profile, you will see my other pics. I just changed my picture to Wile today, that's funny.
I have 2 cat's also, Piggy and Chewbacka (brothers). Last 6 Betta's: Angel, Fredericka, Darth Vader, Goldfinger, James Bond, and Johnny Rotten.
A real man might also be studied on what goes on with a woman's mind. A real man who is a weight-lifter would be wonderful, without a beer gut. I agree with you Ambrose.
I garden, clean, walk with my Doberman. It helps. My animals really help. I have a very cuddly Doberman. I can watch tv at night when home and he just fits right next me and we cuddle. I think that is what I miss the most when a man isn't around. I really do believe a Doberman or any dog can be a woman's best friend also, unconditional love. My Dobe waits for me at the door, there is no empty apt to come home to, and one cat sleeps by myside at night. It is a ritual.
I just got dumped also. My pets are helping. My Doberman is great. I am reaching out to people that are my friends and letting them know. I suggest that. Also, I agree with you, it was for the best. If they can't appreciate you, it's time to move it. But that doesn't mean, that there isn't some pain. I agree, time is one of the best cures. Thank goodness for that. It has always worked before.
My uncle always said to me, if I was having boyfriend problems, "Do they make you laugh". I said no, then he said, that is one of the most important things in the world. He was sure right. Life can be hard, you do not need some one who tries to bring you down. I can't think of one instance in the past, where I have broken up or he broken up with me, that I have wanted the person back. It has always been for the right reason, me needing to be happy.
Well us girls, call some men the good old boys. Because the good old boys are to be sticking with each other, being bad like a boy, and getting away with it!
Opps, what a song. I am crying but needed to. Still trying to move on and am. The singer is incredible and the pictures to match. Really tells it like it is. Thanks,
Yes I have when a good friend has IM'd me, but when it pops up, it is blocked and I can accept or not accept. I will check out who just IM'd me from there. Almost never send an IM back.
I find it charming that you asked us. I think you got some great ideas. I am happy the date went well. I think how you handled yourself was great. Good luck, Dobe
I'm a Southern Bell for sure. I love Southern charm.
I don't recall American's being know for brashness.???? I thought that was the French.
I voted for English understatedness, and would add their dry wit.
Also like the Canadians, Americans, Englishmen.
I stay away from Frenchmen. They have quite a rep. I agree with it too. I met one French guy and all I could think of was a cartoon about a skunk named Peppe La Pew. Amore, Amore,..
He would cover his white streak with paint so he would look like a cat and was in love with a pretty female cat.
She would try her best to get away from him because he would not leave her alone. That is what the French guy seemed like to me, a octopus.
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RE: Why men say one thing and do another?
It's late, I meant, most certainly men--retrain and remember take out their brains?...Not many men use their brains with us anyways. We can be pretty simple to figure out. We want alot of what you want, but we do not come equipped with the same package. Your package takes over your mind and we have to cope with that. Need I go further? If it is really love, that is wonderful. But if it is not, I walk away.There are too many players out there and we have to dodge them like bullets. I'm sure you guys say we are too.
But we all need each other, men and women. I do not think that is going to change. There are just men you know you can depend on and others you can't.
The Dobe