No, it's not a bad idea. Anybody with someone because they have don't have the opportunity to cheat is kind of missing the point of what fidelity means.
It's a actually a good idea(particularly for the Husband to still go out). Him maintaining his social prowess is the equivalent of her maintaing a slender and supple body. If her indoors turns him into a shut-in then his charisma and personality will lapse and this may very well result in her leaving him. Remember, the greatest liability to any relationship is the woman getting bored.
Comfort eating weight gain and weight gain from anti-depressants have the same root cause - the inability to control your own emotion.
But yes, many families and the culture in general are normalising being overweight, so how can people do something about a problem if they don't see it as one themselves.. And god knows how many times they've changed the BMI scale to accommodate the blimping of society, what is normal on today's BMI is not the peak of physical fitness that it should be.
You've got to grasp the nettle with these things..
The emotion that causes this is over-emotion and not enough anti-emotion, imo. It's the inability to control emotions that prevents people from foiling their own worst instincts.
What's the point? This is Russia, the winner's already been decided long before the competition even started. And that winner will be Putin on horseback.
That's what we have now. Laissez faire social attidues with unfettered global capitalism... But where does order enter into any of this?
In the days of civilisation(before the 60's)both sides made arguments for order in civilisation, but now there seems to be no argument for order from either side of politics. Capitalist or Socialist you all want to live in a playground.
Logic is just a tool for staying alive, but it's true that thick people are the most easily satisfied and therefore are generally the most happy because they're blissfully unaware.
Intelligent/logical people have a greater capacity to see ugly reality over blissful fantasy - they trade dumb joy for cold knowledge. However, the capacity to know the truth and the ability to handle the truth are two very different things - intelligence doesn't make you any less of a coward(the reverse, if anything) - and so intelligent people are still apt for being dreamers and what's more their fantasy is even more destructive because they can conjur the most sophisticated of delusions and they'll use apparent logic and rationality in weaving their great lies - This class of clever sillies doesn't allow the truth to spoil their mood and fantasy.
And so, logic and intelligence only lead to sorrow when the individual has the willpower to carry them through to their reality-bound conclusions.
None of these things. Cool at the beginning and with the momentum with me, I want a kiss during the middle to two thirds of the way through the date. Followed by, again, playing it cool.
Pull-Push-Pull. One step forward with two steps back, that's the key to progress. Women get so used to men trying for every inch of physical affection they can get that she'll positively cream herself over the man that doesn't.
You can judge a lot about a person by the company they keep. It's important to know the type(s)he/she knocks about with for reasons other than trust.
It's a good sign when a woman wants to show you off to her harem. As likewise it's a very good sign to her when he parades her around infront of his friends. When a woman who doesn't introduce you to her male colleague/friend at the bar, this is a bad sign.
The reason you may have to be wary is if they deliberately avoid introducing you to their friends. But by no means should you expect to know them all.
I was stood behind a girl(a solid 8)only the other day with a bottle of economy vodka, a bag of brown rice and a packet of Pop Tarts in her shop to which I said "that's a car crash of a shopping basket" which in the end scored me some digits. The only downside is that I'll have to cook.
If you look across history and reality it is the xenophobes that win.
The Conquistadors and the Inca - whom were the xenophobes? The US Colonialists and the Sioux - which was the xenophobic side? The roaring Far East and the sinking Liberal West - which region is the most xenophobic?
No, you're being blinded by cultural bias. Blinded by the fact that xenophobes are not winning in our own pre-collapse culture. But can the winners of a dying civilisation be accurately and honestly described as winners? I'd say no.
1) Settle for a safe option and learn to love him however boring he may be.
2) Invest copious amount amounts of time and money into exercise/fashion/plastic surgery and become a red hot babe. Hot enough to extract commitment from even the most caddish and unlikely of sources.
All women love surprises. All women appreciate the man that can do what she wants in his own way. The two words "Yes, dear" are repulsive to the tingle no matter the age of the woman.
If anything I'd say my gift-buying for older women is even more devastating in its effect. Although, I am prepared to accept that this is probably because she's just more grateful to begin with.
The question for men is how do I be the man that women want to be faithful to? And how do I improve myself so that the world and reality works for me instead of against me? It does no good to view the world as the problem when you are the problem and expecting the whole world to revolve around you and your expectations in the way that a Liberal loser does will only lead to failure in every avenue of life.
Because at least one person has to be funny in the relationship. And as we all know: girls aren't funny.
On a more serious note: women are amused by teasing, cheekiness and insults dressed up as compliments that skirt the borders of social acceptability and so the "funny guy" to a woman has so much in common with the "bad boy".
You follow the same basic rule that applies to all gifts to a woman: make her wait.
When out shopping with the woman and she sees something she likes and wants, he does not buy it for her there and then. He waits a couple of months - to fuel her sense of disappointment and discourage her sense of entitlement - and buys it for her when it is surprising and spontaneous to do so. In this way she will reward his generous nature a thousand-fold.
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RE: Single or Married
No, it's not a bad idea. Anybody with someone because they have don't have the opportunity to cheat is kind of missing the point of what fidelity means.It's a actually a good idea(particularly for the Husband to still go out). Him maintaining his social prowess is the equivalent of her maintaing a slender and supple body. If her indoors turns him into a shut-in then his charisma and personality will lapse and this may very well result in her leaving him. Remember, the greatest liability to any relationship is the woman getting bored.