I find that anything that starts quickly, tends to finish quickly. Skype contact and a 2 week holiday do not constitute a relationship, no matter how much it eases the feeling of being alone in the world.
People can be in love with the idea of being in love and they just want someone to slot into the little stageplay they've written in their minds. And then they try to mould the other person to fit into the main character's role.
I have a lady friend I am crazy about but she keeps me at a distance because of where she is just now emotionally. It feels closer than a friendship and wonderful when I am with her but does not continue on to the joyous intimacy I would like. She is no less of a friend for that and I consider myself fortunate but often a little confused.
There is no greater burden to put on someone than a great potential!
I admit the behaviour of this guy is cowardly. Taking you off his friends list etc speaks volumes but it would have been better if he had the capacity to be honest and say that this wasn't what he was looking for.
But it is far better to discover this early than to actually lay down the foundations of a relationship only to have him undermine them at a later date.
Move on. He's not worthy of tour tears or any further consideration. I do hope he's reading these posts.
I'd say hydrogen cell will be the way to go once they find a cheap way to go about it. What I'm not sure about is how they will store the electrical energy. Batteries seem to cause as many ecological problems as they cure.
Unless you're out on the street, it's very hard to die of hypothermia. I can't help thinking she fell asleep after a few drinks. Worst case scenario is you go to bed with 3 pairs of socks and wrap the quilt around you!
Ah RDM! Back in the early 80s, I used to drink in a bar just above the Grassmarket in Edinburgh called Nikky Tams and they used to serve stovies at midnight with the beer. Wonderful on a cold night. Happy days!
I think her plastic surgeon should be struck off and jailed for turning her into a freak! As for the husband, I've wiped better from the sole of my shoe.
My father used to talk about his father taking the accumulator (battery)from the wireless to be charged at the local electrical shop once a week! I assume it was a crystal set! Huge changes in one lifetime when you think about it!
Look, I told ya! Pop the kids into the local orphanage and let me sell all their belongings and maybe we may just have a future together. We'll keep the child benefit books for you to remember them by!
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That's twice on this thread to my knowledge!
Left myself wide open there!
RE: No contact
I find that anything that starts quickly, tends to finish quickly. Skype contact and a 2 week holiday do not constitute a relationship, no matter how much it eases the feeling of being alone in the world.People can be in love with the idea of being in love and they just want someone to slot into the little stageplay they've written in their minds. And then they try to mould the other person to fit into the main character's role.
I have a lady friend I am crazy about but she keeps me at a distance because of where she is just now emotionally. It feels closer than a friendship and wonderful when I am with her but does not continue on to the joyous intimacy I would like. She is no less of a friend for that and I consider myself fortunate but often a little confused.
There is no greater burden to put on someone than a great potential!
I admit the behaviour of this guy is cowardly. Taking you off his friends list etc speaks volumes but it would have been better if he had the capacity to be honest and say that this wasn't what he was looking for.
But it is far better to discover this early than to actually lay down the foundations of a relationship only to have him undermine them at a later date.
Move on. He's not worthy of tour tears or any further consideration. I do hope he's reading these posts.