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I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I actually blame Dr. Phil, too, Nan. I mean, what did he do for me in my minutes of need? And did he warn any of his lady guests about the irrevocable psychological trauma they'd cause and suffer by not pursuing moi?

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I would apologize for my lapse, Kid, but of course I blame you for it.

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Hey, Kang, it's still nighttime here!

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Maybe the night-patrol of the CS Police?

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

'Night. I probably should turn in myself.

Not sure where, though, or what the proper authorities would be...

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Yeah, people's attention spans here aren't overly long, Nan. (Can I call you "Nan"? I didn't think so.)

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Heck, I'm even phobic about those who don't want to commit!

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

And really, what would be the point? It's so satisfying being awash in self-pity and blaming others!

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

You have a good point, Lovely. I've heard Some people have gone as long as six weeks before finding real and eternal love. You'd think I'd feel more sympathy toward them...

Nah. I get too choked up with emotion just thinking about myself.

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

"Probably?" Surely there's no doubt about it!

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I have, and that's why I'm so currently bitter.

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I read Johnny Seagull many decades ago, if that counts...?

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

No Mas! No Mas!

(Just remembering my boxing-fan days.)

Who could be more qualified to appreciate this thread than you, Mastic.

Thank Zeus for your sense of humor. There are few better qualities in a person, in my view.

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Wow, that's great to hear, Sas. Couldn't happen to a nicer and more deserving lady. I hope you two brighten each other's days as much as you brighten things up here.

Was that laying it on too thick? Still true, though.

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

I didn't even know you'd found someone, John. My CS sources must be slipping. Well, here's to you, then!

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Thank you, John. I didn't even get into how bitter I am that the CS guys don't love me. I thought my wigs might win them over, but there's no accounting for tastes...

I'm Nearly 57 and Most CS Women Don't Love or Desire Me. Are They Crazy or...?

Ah, I wondered if it might've been my virtual breath...

RE: IM 54 BUT I CANT FIND LOVE. IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME OUR WHAT

I'm thinking perhaps both you and "our what."

Yes, there's definitely something wrong, attitude-wise, with anyone who starts a thread like this.

Actually, it's a good idea to question yourself, but these threads, of course, aren't about self-questioning; they're not about learning anything, or about self-improvement, but rather are attempts to obtain vindication.

RE: Are you happy?

RE: Are you happy?

Okay, seriously, Love Movies (I assume you loved Avatar?), are you saying that the belief one can be happier in a relationship is a delusion?

RE: Are you happy?

I think you're saying that you're a cat-person?

RE: Are you happy?

True, but surely most if not all people seeking companionship/love believe that they'd be happier in a relationship, no? (Otherwise, what would be the point?)

RE: Are you happy?

I hope so, because I'm miserable most of the time otherwise.

RE: I am still an atheist but good story

This wonderful story only confirms my atheistic belief. If there was a god, he would've had the boy visit Marilyn Monroe or perhaps one of the expired Playboy bunnies. The least he deserved for that ordeal.

RE: I am still an atheist but good story

Three hours is "quickly"? Granny must've directed him to the scenic route.

RE: WTF

Well, he did say some of them were "insightful."

Seriously, Mastic, I've observed for quite awhile here, and you seem to have some good things going for you. You're funny, and appear to be a nice guy.

The main problem people have who complain about the difficulty of finding women is that they don't take a hard look at themselves and their own role in that. Perhaps they fear that if they took that look they'd face the unpleasant truth that they could stand considerable improvement - and that such improvement would require a lot of work. So the question of what you can do to make yourself more appealing is the essential issue to be either embraced or avoided. Most people appear to choose the later. It's a lot easier to blame everyone and everything else.

The good news, in your case, is that you could improve your appeal greatly; the bad news is that that will require a considerable amount of work and dedication. The good news is that what you have to do is fairly simple: reduce your caloric intake and eat more healthfully, exercise regularly (get thee to a gym!) - walk, run, lift weights, swim, etc. - and try some more flattering looks with new clothes, a new hairstyle, perhaps experiment with facial hair, and so on.

While you're doing that, read some stuff on psychology, see a therapist, whatever it takes to accept responsibility for your life and feel better about yourself. The negativity's got to go (try to hold onto your sense of humor, though; don't want to become an Adonis-zombie or anything!

In a year or so of working hard thusly, you will find women who would've ignored you now smiling at you and perhaps approaching you in public places for an autograph (where you half-heartedly deny that you're George Clooney or Brad Pitt )

RE: Got Some Really Sad News Today And Need To know I'm Not Alone

Hope you feel better soon, Morgie!

RE: Reply only women,,pls

I wonder how long his pet goat (grazing just out of the picture) has been standing there?

RE: IS IT TRUE A MAN AT 54 YEARS OLD ITS TO LATE FOR LOVE

Yeah, I've heard they're almost as virile as Norwegians! Now that's impressive!

RE: which of th boys in this photo is more handsome?

This could be painful.

Third from left, imo. Not sure how well that corresponds to your typical lady's. Everyone has different tastes, of course.