This is indeed a nearly intractable problem for The Nes, Nan, due to the relative lack of goddesses on CS.
I've been thinking, in the spirit of scientific study, that perhaps we should devote a thread to a more rigorous research of Nesara's greatness, in order to better understand how other more lowly male-creatures can be more like him (though always falling pitiably short, of course), while at the same time providing much-needed data to those few women who might aspire to cycle with in tandem with his magnificence.
You're capable of riding 200 miles straight up a mountain cliff in less than three hours??!!! My hat (or wig, as the case may be) is off to you, Stef!!
I hope you won't need them, Nan. Perhaps even a barf bag might be useful, just in case of emergency? Oh, that's terrible of me. But you gotta keep your humor up in these situations, I've found. Sometimes that's all that keeps one going!
I'd call it "strong attraction at first sight." I don't see why anyone would label it "love" (which is obviously absurd). A precursor to love, perhaps.
But I am serious about the distance thing. It can be so frustrating sometimes (I've logged in 24000 miles of driving to be with my love). It's finding a way to be together that can be so bloody challenging!
Due to childhood trauma, a terminal disease, various STDs, and the fact that I'm probably a lesbian, I feel, despite your obvious and nearly overwhelming charms and dashing good-looks that it would be a gross travesty of justice and a possibly horrific violation of karma for me to be with you. I wish to holy god this weren't the case.
RE: Is a 37 year old women and a 51 year old man compatable?
Amen, Nan, Amen.