I don't understand the cliques thing seriously! New people can just jump in and have a laugh like people who have been here a while.By default they will soon become regulars!
I wonder if it's more to do with not just debating or agreeing what everyone else has to say.
I have seen one lady on here who will go out of her way not to have an opinion, almost like she is reading a pc handbook that is so bland it makes posting pointless.
Whats wrong with having opinions that's different from other people?
Forever, there is only one way to deal with this, and that's let them say what they want in the forums or take it private and deal with any grievances in private!
Some people do like airing their dirty laundry in public, likewise relationship break ups in the forums, and i have been way to open about my situation on the forums and had as a result some people taking an unhealthy interest in my life!
Truth be told i think people like the drama and provoking fights/on running feuds. Sometimes these threads are the most interesting as the "quality" if thats the right word of some threads is shall we say......poor!
Some advice i have seen on not this thread in particular has made me cringe or wince when reading it!
The "will you leave a boyfriend who beats me to a pulp" threads only have one answer....leave.
The "the boyfriend is a cheat and is cheating on me", again....there is one answer .....leave.
The "Do you think i am hot" threads, again one answer.....please have some dignity and develop some self worth or you will never be happy.
Some threads answer their own question in the title, and are a complete waste of fonts! Surely the OP's know this and the people who reply are so bored they reply on the thread as they have waded through the rest of the threads.
This is exactly the type of thing we need to expand on, so people will understand why members reduce their input.
If you don't flesh this out people will just assume you got bored and left? So perhaps without naming names people should say things that have put them off from being quite to prolific.
I think he might even do a religious thread and the religious lot would argue him about gods will.
I bet he would end up saying " you know what, sometimes i wonder why i bother with you lot, i should have just stuck to my veggie patch and grown marrows"
I bet you live near a rail station, i bet the man parked there and walked to the station. It happens all the time if your near a station in the south east, it's so they dont have to pay for car parking!
I have 2 ginger cats, ones huge and has a following on CS (you could almost say he has a fanclub).
I also sponsor a local Zoo for the care of a family of Tapiers!
There absolutely brilliant creatures, very friendly and love attention! The male though isn't as friendly as he was after a baby Tapier came along, and i am hoping another one will arrive this summer!!
I'm fond of their snow leppards as well, and they are so cute!!!!
That depends on the individual of course and i wouldn't recommend you post your situation in here in case you get a nut case fixated on your situation as i got at Xmas.
As for my situation it is very difficult for me at the moment, but add to that legal cases, redundancy, and wishing i weren't even in the UK any longer i have more than enough to distract me.
Priority one is a new job to finance myself whilst retraining then as soon as i qualify i am gone.
Well remember i am always on the lookout for someone with a weak bladder, someone that could explode and i'm looking for someone who may combust and then i have the full set of reactions to my posts.
Lush admitted to farting in surprise, which i will see she never lives down
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I don't understand the cliques thing seriously! New people can just jump in and have a laugh like people who have been here a while.By default they will soon become regulars!I wonder if it's more to do with not just debating or agreeing what everyone else has to say.
I have seen one lady on here who will go out of her way not to have an opinion, almost like she is reading a pc handbook that is so bland it makes posting pointless.
Whats wrong with having opinions that's different from other people?