I was told yesterday i was being condescending, for adding to a post making a remark on a thread where a guy took a long time to do an interesting subject for once!
And "step off" or something with a remark, "whoever i was".
After chuckling i couldn't even be bothered to tell him who i was, that would have only pissed him off more!
Oh and i was more superior apparently!
He must have thought i was looking down on him as i was part of some Empire or something talking to a colonial servant!
Have a look at the "Men who look at goats" thread and you'll see another example of the good old syndrome where people cant even debate or talk about anything without being offended when they want to be.
I do the same, ive explained i can relate to losing a business/being a single parent/experience with grief and all sorts.
Hell i nearly even died on the forums!
I do it because some people feel they are the only one going through what they think is a rough time, and point out if i can survive all the grief then they can too.
More often or not i even offer advise on the quiet too.
Other than that i just joke, because there's enough grief in the real world without coming in here and getting more!
Well some people view information as currency, and they trade gossip and information about others to gain new friends and to make themselves feel accepted (in their own mind).
I've been asked all manner of questions that were none of their business, but to some people that doesn't sink in and they don't even realise it's inappropriate.
Hell ive even been badgered about my own appearance, post a picture, send me a picture etc......when i really don't care what anyone thinks about my appearance.
The frustration is part gets me, and i have to say anyone who wants to know all about my past when i don't even know them i would shall we say wonder why they want to know?
To tell other people....seen that and been told it....not just here, but elsewhere too.
Remember, most of these people you will never meet, have no wish to meet and in some cases would do your best to avoid.
I talk openly in the forums for example to minimise the amount of info that some people can think they can share or gossip about me.
The short version is i don't do games, don't do drama and i have enough of the crap you see on websites.
If you want to gossip about me go ahead is my attitude, i couldn't care less
I'm considering marketing them as tokens to be put inside bags of crisps, confectionery and breakfast cereal.
If he's done sod all for Britain bar drink scotch and raise money for terrorists the least you think he could do is turn it any more dates he agrees not to drive them home.
Dru your right.It's America's attempt to introduce a Class system by the back door.
Money is what will get you in the door, old money is better than new money.
They will accept new money if they consider it enough, or they can find a use for tolerating the new intruders.
It's comical, but it's Americas hidden class system that churns out it's leaders and the other people who attend can feel privy to belonging to a club that will allow them to look down on other people.
A school is for education, but if you want to adopt it to portray a screening process for those who will be accepted into the ruling class then who am i to question it
If he managed to open the door without help i would be surprised.
If he Graduated from anything that required being able to hold a children's book upside down and pretending to read it while sitting in a chair while the Twin Towers fell down and he didn't feel bright enough to immediately say, "Excuse me ladies and gentlemen a matter of national importance has happened and i will have to leave you".
A cabbage is a green unusual veggie that has no brain, no feelings, no humour no nothing...it's just a vegetable.
Now some people in here get upset with others.
Some people mistake having an opinion or trying to discuss something or provoke a discussion as trying to pick a fight.
Some people fixate on things, when they should just let go.
Some people behave completely irrationally.
Some people see hidden coded messages in plain simple language and come up with something completely different that is written on the page.
Some people have their priorities completely wrong.
So if you can think, if you can discuss, if you can not look for a fight, if you can behave in public and if you can type in broken English without spitting the dummy then you are at least one step above " A CABBAGE" on the evolutionary scale.
Who wants to be a cabbage?
If you want to behave like the above you may as well pray to any chosen god and wake up tomorrow as a vegetable, because your life on this planet is a complete waste of time and will be miserable as a result.
Cabbages are also completely green.....now think laterally.
Green/wet behind the ears/gullible/naive.....
There's nothing wrong with any one of these, because they imply honesty, even simplicity which is nice these days.
So if you want to be a bitter nasty abusive maniac who just loves ruining someone elses day then step to one side, and let us "cabbages" who just will sit here and put up with this line up, soak up the sun and grow till were plucked up.
Thus the "Cabbage Fan Club", it's for free minds who stand against trouble on a website.
And remember, you really would have to have a screw loose to want to live as i described above....
What does dying have to do with being awarded a Knighthood?
You have to be alive to be awarded a Knighthood.
Medals can be awarded posthumously.
Leaving your date to die in a car and going home after you crashed off a bridge after going in the wrong direction would normally be a crime right?
There's nothing romantic or heroic for dying for your country, but if you saved others in combat doing it normally your deserving something for it if even the thanks for the guys he/she saved from say being spread all over a wall.
I think leaving a woman to die and avoiding prison because of his family name is enough to disqualify him on those grounds alone, never mind funding terrorists that blew men women and children on the streets of the UK.
Given he openly collected money for NORAID which was a legal arm for fund-raising for the IRA.
Second that he left a young woman to die in a car and left the scene of an accident and didn't report the accident for a further 9 hours.The result the woman suffocated.
This man has done nothing for the UK,actually the opposite, so why on earth do you think the British Government is offering him to be a knight of the realm.
If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.
The restaurant looks great, the food by all accounts nobody could find anything wrong with when they ate it!
The presentation and service is impeccable.
somewhere out the back must be a nasty bug, but the place has a Michelin Star....which in culinary terms is the place has basically in film terms an oscar.
Believe me this place, will be immaculate to the eye.
RE: age
Always remember 40 is not old, and if they look bad at 40, act like their 80 your wasting your time.Find someone with someone life in them, not someone who is half dead
I'm 41 and i'm full of beans...i dare say i will be the same if i make it to 60!