Unfortunately, my extra is rather evenly distributed...and looks equally bad, dear. I was working on that, but having to return to work got in the way. (But then I remembered that God made weekends!)
Yes, you probably think so...and maybe others don't see that inner beauty because they don't like something about your face. Those people are shallow. I have been through enough to know what matters most, and it's not the outside. I've dated guys who may as well have dated mirrors...and danced with ones who did dance with the mirror. I prefer a man who is mature, balanced and enlightened...and doesn't take life too seriously...than one who has good looks and no depth or brain.
One thing I've said before, and I'll say it again...I like the variety of seeing all the faces as I go through a thread, and I have always liked to see the face of someone I'm talking to...even if it's just responding on a thread.
However, you each have your right not to use a photo. Me, I post mine even though they're horrible. (The camera is NOT my friend.)
Sorry...I was going to try to say something funny to this 'cuz it did make me laugh, but somehow ended up getting deep and serious instead. I'll have to work on that.
I agree. There are things I share here in the group 'cuz everyone is sharing that I wouldn't necessarily share in person with someone nearby. And a side of me that comes out here that few people see in person until they really get to know me. Y'all bring out a crazy side of me...and make me laugh a lot more than I get to in "RL", as put above. And yet, what you see on here is the real me...parts of me that I don't get to expose often.
Yes, I think that's why men tend to like them! Owning a set of these that I hate (the breeder's hips, that is), I find it amazing that men find them so attractive. However, since I have them, I guess it's a good thing...they ain't going anywhere 'cuz you can't lose weight off of bone.
I can be friends long distance...but a more serious relationship would be difficult to maintain long distance. It's tough to go on dates that way, or just hang out together. And at this point I can't move...so, distance = friendship only for me.
That said, I'll also add that I've always been known to take a gamble and go against everything I ever thought I would if it feels right. I do trust and follow my heart and my gut...so, "never say never"...
You're welcome, A...and the inside counts much more than the outside to me, too. An intelligent person with the ability to make me laugh is much more important than what his face or body look like.
I do like to tease some of you faceless men about it though...I have a sarcastic sense of humor at times, never mean anything by it.
Yep. Actually, I think that there are a lot of us...and I find that a lot of people turn to online dating because they don't do the bar scene, and so there are few places to meet another adult who feels the same.
Although I am complete alone, it's lonely. I would love to find that true companionship of one to share life with again, day in and day out, the little things and the big things...a friend and lover. And no, I certainly don't want to settle for less than that, either...not for the long term.
Temporary, well, that's different.... Still not someone who makes me miserable though!
Well said...as was Desmond's answer....it's who a person is inside that counts. Color is literally only skin-deep.
But there are some places where this is harder than others, and people like my parents would still frown upon it. However, with the right person, frankly I wouldn't give a damn.
It wasn't meant to be...when it's the right one, it will be the right time...or when it's the right time, the right one will come along. Patience. Anything worth having is worth waiting for...I'm being taught that lesson the hard way
Welcome aboard, and good luck! In the meantime, have some fun on the forums! You'll probably make some good friends, and who knows who you might meet?!
I had a dream for years of a man in a leather jacket...no face that was clear, just the dream. I finally met and married him, and that love was a dream come true...all I could ever have wished for, for the short time we had together. It happens. Best of luck.
RE: Women and correct body type ??!! What I dont understand ...
Thanks, Hugz, for pointing that out...I hadn't noticed all the adds on this one were for weight loss until you mentioned it.