Hang out in the forums, your personality will come out and you'll get over your shyness. Seems to be a great way to meet people from all over the world and in all age groups. I've made a lot of friends in the few short weeks I've been here, and met a lot of great people. You might meet the right one, you might not, but you'll have fun!
After reading her profile, I would match Spicy with Galactic (nobody chew my head off...I think they'd do well together).
There is no match for me...I'm learning to accept that...and some of you think you're too weird?! Nope...I'm full of dichotomies and paradoxes, and I don't think that there's anyone who can handle them except my friends. If I ever find that guy again, he's definitely special...and also weird.
My late husband was an alcoholic, and yet he was a very good man. It was the cancer that made him mean eventually, never the alcohol. I joined him at the bar right after work.
Now, I drink very rarely, and very little when I do, and I won't date anyone else who drinks a lot. I will date someone who drinks occasionally, but not an alcoholic again...even though it wasn't a bad experience for me. I just don't want to go back to that life.
I have seen the occasional woman coming in angry to drag her drunken man out of a club, but not too many...but that might be because when I go out it's only to private clubs now. Yes, I still go to them and drink pop, mostly because I have friends there that I like to hang out with occasionally.
Oh, you should! It's really fun...but ask for recommendations from others who've had them read. Best suggestion in finding a good reader...go to something like a "Spirit Fair", "Psychic Fair", or "Paranormal Expo". Open up to the possibility and feel who you're drawn to as there will be many readers at events like this. One who does more than one thing during the reading is also good...my favorite reader is a psychic/tarot reader/numerologist. Another good one I had read for me is a psychic/tarot reader/astrologist. Combined readings are cool.
I've never done a distance reading...I feel energy on here, but don't know what the accuracy would be of doing that kind of reading...maybe someone more experienced at that will come on.
No, I haven't made it to Lilydale yet, but I've heard that it's overpriced and basically just a tourist trap now, more than a Spiritual community. Shame they got greedy 'cuz it used to be nice from what I've heard. I know a lot of people who've gone over the years, and I'd still like to go some time just to check it out.
Ditto...and be thankful you've got such a great relationship with all of them. Wish I did with mine...but then, we were barely civil when I was married to the family. (Umm...second ex, father of my children...just to clarify for those who might be starting to count how many I've had. )
Funny thing with me, I'm much more likely to date a man 10 years older than me instead of a man younger than me. I find that with age comes maturity...esp for men. (Not always true, but usually.) However, I wouldn't rule out dating a man because he was younger if everything else clicked.
I actually have a man in my life who loves me dearly, wears it on his sleeve and everyone knows it, but won't date me because he keeps telling me he's too old for me (one of his excuses). When he's being honest, it comes down to being scared to love again because of what his ex-wife did to him. So, instead he acts like a jerk and won't talk to me at all...just stares daggers if I'm talking to another man. His loss, the idiot. (So, it doesn't always bring maturity )
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