SusieRR Forum Posts (2,122)

RE: Why do some people build you up just to tear you down?

Everyone thinks they are the givers in a relationship. Rarely do you find someone who admits they are the taker.

I've read though that in every relationship, it is that way, one takes more than the other, the other gives more. It can't possibly be 50/50 equal. Couples need to find a balance that works for them.

RE: Why do some people build you up just to tear you down?

You stopped being the person she thought you were, or wanted you to be, or thought you could or would be.

She decided she doesn't want to be with you anymore because you are not the same person you were when you met, back in the beginning when everything was lovely and new.

RE: How did your childhood/upbringing form who you are today??

wow great question, but I'm too tired to answer now.

RE: I do...I don't...

I love cold weather.

I don't like HOT weather.

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

Counting money over cold Coronas with my {love} in that order for me.

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

Don't let that guy make you feel badly.

In fact, don't let any man (or person) make you feel badly about anything, especially yourself.

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

Northeast Ohio, Cleveland area. Near Lake Erie.

RE: Tell something that bothers you

Thanks cajun

RE: Tell something that bothers you

Thanks photo freek

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

Why because I didn't answer you the instant you asked me, you will just assume your own answer. Case in point. Bring more aggravation into the situation.

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

Which is more important?

Well beer certainly is not on the list at all.

Love? Love of a man?
or
Financially independent and stable (money)

Money, yes. Love of a man is unreliable and unpredictable.

I'm assuming you don't mean love of my kids, I'm assuming you mean a "significant other's" love, in which case, money is more important.

Since I have neither, I believe money would solve many problems where as a man would just bring more problems into my life.

Yes, I mean it.

RE: Looking at profiles-What interests you/Turns you away?

Things like:

"I'm not with my ex anymore because I refuse to be with a liar and cheat"

"I open doors"

"I am a gentleman"

"Looking for a soulmate"

"I am looking for someone who is honest"

"No games"



Yeah, how original....

RE: what is more important love ,money ,or beer

MONEY

RE: Update on leatherman's pregnant daughter!!

CONGRATULATIONS, You are a lucky, lucky grandfather!

RE: Somehow Obligated????

Yes exactly and I take full responsibility for the complete misunderstanding. I should have clarified and clarified again. I was completely embarassed because I have a son here who was 16 at the time. There WAS an extra room for him but it was extremely uncomfortble for me.

This is yet ANOTHER REASON why I have specified within 50 miles of where I live. Again my fault for allowing it to happen. I got carried away in the moments of IM's and phone calls. Duped myself into believing somethign was there when it was not. GRRRRR

RE: Somehow Obligated????

Hi wikkid,
The word "obligation" sends shudders to me.

I have a few examples and questions for anyone from past experiences.

How about when you email, IM, talk on the phone and it all seems very cool, SEEMS TO BE a spark? Then the guy rides his motorcycle two hours to meet you and he has not made prior arrangements as to where he will stay??? The night grows cold and you feel OBLIGATED to allow him to stay in your house. I felt no danger at all or I would not have allowed it, but being put in that position was annoying. AND embarassing to find out he went outside in my back yard early in the morning in his BOXERS to have a SMOKE? Honestly, I was shocked, can't put your pants on to have that cigar? I cooked two meals for him, Easter dinner and huge breakfast the next day.

and what do you supposed happened? AGAIN IT WAS TOO DAMN COLD FOR HIM TO RIDE HIS BIKE HOME for two hours and again I was OBLIGATED to put him up. When he finally did ride home do you think he left me even a pinch of his pot? Nope......... ! Did we go out for one beer, meal or anything except a "ride" in the cold on that bike? Nope....... !

Two words I hate, obligation and committment!

A question, what happens when you email and IM for several days and things seem once again very cool. Then you talk on the phone and he tells you he has emphazema? I am so agains smoking cigs that I was again shocked and now I am having serious second thoughts about meeting. Questions is: Hoe do you tell that person that it is over before it began?

Disclaimer:
Let me just say, I did and do still like these guys as people. They are just not the ones for me.

There are a few other instances but you get the idea.

RE: Things that pi$$ me off

Yeah me too!

RE: Multiple flowers!

I think an email is better.

RE: all men arnt!!

All that beer and cheers are making me really thristy.

RE: sometimes all a woman needs is

Yes it sounds like a fantasy man.

It's hard to find the one you can confide in and a year or so later, they don't take what you told them and turn it around and use it against you.

RE: Food Confessions

I'll try that the very next time I make brownies. Tabasco I hope is ok.

Don't forget the hot pepper jelly, it is SOOOO good!

RE: Food Confessions

Depends on the day, that cherry pie filling sounds delicious right now. I may have to settle for an orange though. Chocolate is a big weakness and earlier I ate almost a whole bag of saltwater taffey and two chocolate covered pretzels. Not to mention the Lo Mein earlier with the one cookie !

Didn't mean for the thread to be so sad either. Thank you all for identifying with me.

You Know You Are Alone When............

You bring home your take out Chinese food and there is only one fortune cookie :(

RE: i need advice

Exactly, well said.

I'm going to Arkansas.

RE: If a Guy

Cute and charming when they are teenagers.
Pathetic as adult men.

RE: Hurt.... ( Seem to be tonights subject)

Then sometimes when you least expect it, someone comes along and washes it all away.

RE: Is Whining Attractive??

The worst first date is to hear someone badmouth and put down his ex. How many times have I been on a coffee date and that happened? I'm sorry to say, a few times. It is most unattractive, and the first date is the last one.

RE: Is Whining Attractive??

Maybe they aren't ready for dates and what they are saying is a defense technique as well as therapy.

RE: If you knew then what you know now, and could change one thing about your life, what would it be?

I would have gotten more education, gone to school when I had the opportunity and the time (and energy).

RE: Creating Endless Threads From E-mails

OMG Did I Offend the white girl?