Well it's good that you aren't married to him anymore!
Who DOESN'T like to watch the ocean waves or smell a flower or watch a sunset or see a beautiful rainbow? Any profile you might choose to read will probably state similar likes and dislikes as you.
No one admits to being a couch potato TV watching sandwich monster! We all have our days where we need to sleep on our day off, want to veg out and not think. Maybe your ex had a hard day at work, hard job, I don't know.
You married him so he must have had at least one good quality. You were looking to share those things with him and he didn't want to get up off his butt and share with you. Sad.
People change after marriage. So you meet someone who loves the sunset and ocean and rainbows. Cool. Hope they aren't just putting on their "dating self" and not sharing their "real" self.
I kind of agree with the age thing, but mostly because I'm not having anymore kids, and don't want to raise anyone elses little ones. Those days are over for me. But I like them younger than me.
I like to do constructive things with my time. Some are done out of necessity, some out of pleasure.
Guess I'll go back to bed now, see what's on tv and have a yogurt. After all, I layed a small vinyl floor yesterday, raked leaves for three full hours this morning, and will be going to work in a few hours.
Oh for sure I'd let him AND his wife stay with us, feed them and all that goes with having guests. I might put him to work though, he is a cabinet maker. She has worked with the elderly. I wish the WOULD COME and stay here for a while!
RE: Perplexed...
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