You can always let it go and see how you like it. Being young, it probably won't "age" you a lot, but it's easy to change your mind and color it if you decide you don't like it.
I keep mine colored, as close to the natural color as I can get, keeping it trimmed and below shoulder length. I don't like the look of grays on me, not yet.
My friend had 12 siblings growing up. Her father died when all the kids were young. Amazingly, her mom found a fantastic guy who married her, raised all the kids as his own.
I don't think you are selfish. I feel the same way. We've already done all of that, with the little ones. There has to be time for ourselves, life isn't long enough!
I love kids a lot. But I find that when I meet someone in their mid 40's, a preferred age rather than 50's and up, a lot of the men have two kids ages 5 through 8.
I've never met any of the kids, in fact only had about two or three dates and there was no spark there.
I LOVE kids that age, but I am finding that the men who get them every other weekend and on Wednesdays, have a huge resentment built up about paying child support and their ex's and their "working relationship" regarding the kids.
My view is, I'd rather have the guy and the kids in a package not the guy and the ex and the every other weekend and resentments just beneath the surface.
So far, that has not happened. In the meantime, I'm looking for someone whose kids are either older like mine or there are HARMONOUS relations between everyone.
I went back to a small community college for some classes and at first I was apprehensive, then I realized that no one cared either way. Then I saw a lot of other people, older than me, my age, etc., all there for many reasons. Learn, update their job skills, pick up a new hobby. Enjoy it.
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Me too!