What good is seeing a lot of pictures of him or anyone going to do? You say there are a lot of weirdo's out there, no kidding, but pictures don't reflect if someone is or not.
Talking on the phone is more helpful, meeting them can be fantastic, but where is the traveler to stay?
I've never been deceived by a photo, nor have I based meeting someone or not on their picture. But it's the emails that will convince me if I should meet or not.
I judge on their their first few emails. I'll not be pushed or questioned or pressured. I'm getting more and more distant when that happens.
Too many questions make me back off, in fact too many question marks annoy me! Yes, I apparently have an issue or two. But when the right guy comes along, it will be ok.
aww that's right, I forgot about that. I know someone who is like that, can't bear to be alone so they don't leave the person they are unhappy with until they find someone else.
Then they are caught between both, and I watched it unfold. He did end up with the second one, but for a while, it wasn't pretty.
You don't want to get involved with someone who is still living with their ex or if they aren't completely and legeally divorced.
How can the truth come out later? How much later? Once you meet them, if they are so secretive that you can't even pick them up at their home, that is a good sign of a bad thing, in my opinion.
Phone calls to their home don't count anymore, with cell phones, lots of people don't even have home phones, or can say they don't.
I've always disliked answering that question when on a job interview. I hope to be in shape physically, healthy, ewe I'll be 60 in ten years EWE.... I hope to be in shape mentally as well.
Hope to be playing in the back yard with grandchildren! Hope to be able to travel places and maybe have someone to travel with!
Also hope to have a job and be physically fit to work. Hope my kids live nearby and have a great relationship with them.
Yes it is quite annoying, pesky married guy circling around a single woman like a vulture. A guy I was talking to the other night, a conversation for about 20 minutes, I saw no ring.
Finally conversation got around to kids, and he started telling me about his son. I asked where he lived and he answered "with me" and I asked who was home with him now and he said "my wife" and then I said, Oh you are married, I didnt' realize.
He actually asked me if that MADE A DIFFERENCE ???? duahhhh yeah
Anyways, he said to me, "IF YOU HAVE AN ITCH I'D BE GLAD TO SCRATCH IT" and I felt like scratching his eyes out. To say men like this are disrespectful is sugar-coating it.
Do they actually believe in their pea-brains that they are doing single women a service? If we have a damn itch, we can find a single guy to scratch it, we don't need some married guy.
I went on to tell him that I want to meet a guy who I can eventually introduce to my kids, someone who I am not ashamed of, someone who can spend quality time with me on important days, and married men CANNOT DO THAT!
So keep your head up and don't even accept compliments from married guys, they are scum, looking around for a piece on the side.
Stay away from married men. You will cause only complications for you, him, his family and your kids too, if he is involved with the school sports. Your mood swings will reflect in how you treat everyone around. It's a dead end and it's not fair to his family either.
The fuse box is what we used to have, you would unscrew the burned out fuse, like a light bulb and put in the new one. Now they are circuit breakers. Usually the one that switched itself off has a bright orange color on the other side of the switch, and you switch it back. They blow out because they get overloaded for some reason, hair dryers and irons are the worst.
The worst was when the pilot light went out in my furnace in the middle of winter and in the middle of the night! I woke up freezing, the whole house was freezing. Fortunately we had small electric space heaters.
My son could not come over until after work the next day, the furnace company wanted $60 to relight the pilot.
My friend in Canada talked me through it, he knew this furnace from before. I don't know why it went out, but I think I can handle it next time.
It is very frustrating to feel useless when that kind of thing happens. Also frustrating is having to lift something heavy and not having the physical strength. Or the car won't start.
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RE: T or A ?
Yes two of our MANY finer areas !!!