It's a known thing among most of us that no reply is an answer, and that the silence is a reasonable response to being flooded with unsuitable suitors, and people who in spite of what must be epic amounts of experience are still not at all good at dealing with rejection.
This isn't about someone collecting the run off from their roof.
It's about massive reservoirs and a large-ish(170 acre) parcel, and whether he's allowed to keep and store the water or if he's supposed to be allowing it to flow to down stream so others can use it too.
Most of those people would likely be acting on their prejudice.
My not caring he didn't get into an event, or even my laughing that it was probably political, are not even half the information one would need to reach that conclusion, rationally.
I would suggest they sort out their issues, and not bother me with them.
I'm not going to apologize for where I was born.
Nor I'm I going to mute myself so as to not aggravate other people's prejudices.
They really are trying Katiko, I know it doesn't seem like it but they are. It's just that they're projecting how they'd like the dance to go onto you, and thinking it's how you'd like the dance to go.
In other words..
They're assuming what's important to them, is also what's important to you.
Something else is wrong or you wouldn't have even remotely considered marriage in a six month long bad relationship, nor would you be this tore up over it's end.
You sound like a teenager making a big deal over a little crush.
A six month relationship with multiple break ups, with a person it "took you some time" to realize was important too you? Some time? You mean a couple weeks? Yea....it should take "some time".
Stop telling yourself this "relationship" was more than it was.
Ocee102 Forum Posts (1,399)
RE: Letting go
It depends on the person.Some I'm well rid of, some I miss terribly.
They were different people, one policy doesn't fit all for me.