Ocee102 Forum Posts (1,399)

RE: No pics !

I've never had a single randomer email me about my appearance,

and I sport some pretty "attackable" pics at times.



I'm guessing it must be your newness, and wont go on long.

RE: Talking

You bring up a good point, as I think on it...it's very dependent

on who I'm talking with.

RE: Talking

SHut up and walk away a lot.


I prefer to be accepted as I am, and I strongly prefer

to offer that to the people in my life.

RE: Free

This.

RE: Dear Ladies of CS

Get an early start on the fetal alcohol syndrome?

Solid advice.




He could schedule to take the same cooking classes with both of them. If he arranges to meet them there, he could arrive a couple minutes late and introduce them in class.

I think it's the nearly perfect plan.

They'll both be thinking what a lovely man they have who takes a cooking class with them. It'll be the perfect time for "Surprise I've a wife/girlfriend." The disappointment will be soul crushing.


They should definitely continue attending the class. Ideally it'll be a twelve week course. The pregnant one will get hormonal, the non-pregnant will get to watch and all the while they'll be handling kitchen knives and hot pans.


I should make a movie of this. A rom com suspense thriller hybrid, maybe give the guy an anxiety disorder, or he could be a clueless narcissist completely oblivious to the danger he's in.

I think the anxiety disorder's funnier, or at least has more potential.

RE: It is still possible

I think most of us make adjustments for our partners.

That said...

Generally, demands, ultimatums and expectations of change in our partners are about us not about them, or loving them. The first bit of loving someone is accepting them as they are.

RE: THE SNITCH SOCIETY

You're using a picture of the guy dead in the video as your own.

RE: I'm Colour Blind

Most people like at last some honesty.

Such as being who you claim to be, and not using a dead guys picture.

RE: Bedtime Songs

Why use someone else's picture?

RE: I'm Colour Blind

I'm character blind.

RE: vina

Hi Vina.


Do you like pina coladas?

RE: Word to Live By - Part 3

Never itch your balls with banjo picks.

RE: If you were not single would you ......

Are you implying we may be tapping some mysterious source

of spare energy our singledom gifts us with?

RE: What do you think, how many fake profiles are here ?

We are watching you.


Twirling is acceptable.

Just sayin'


As is sunbathing, and leaving cider and salty snacks on the window ledge.

RE: What do you think, how many fake profiles are here ?

There are four.

Four fake profiles.

That number is down from five last year.

We've the problem under control and trending in the right direction.

It will be completely resolved soon.



From your friends at the ministry of information.

Ocee,

RE: would you smoke a 12 inch cig on a stressful day?

I'm not smoking a 12 inch anything, ever.


Not that there's anything wrong with that.

RE: Dear Ladies of CS

Not of the chloroform.

RE: Dear Ladies of CS

Chloroform is no good for kidnapping.


It takes at least five minutes of inhaling through a chloroform soaked rag

to render the victim unconscious.



I can bore a woman unconscious in less time.

RE: Experience as a black woman in scandinavia

Do you not realize that reading that probably made her a little(or very) sick to her stomach?


Honestly, it's not just her.

You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.

Nice job.

RE: Is he / she interested or not?

It's a little complicated for him, maybe.


It's a tricking thing, being the defacto initiator.

Not a big thing with someone who's not otherwise enmeshed in your life.

But with history, mutual friends and such we're reluctant, more skeptical of the signs. We don't want to be making a nuisance of ourselves every time we think the paradigm might have shifted. Our libido's are artful negotiators, they've lead us far afield many times before we reach maturity, and prudence.



...or he might not that into you.




I'm a helper, it's what I do.

You're welcome, and yes...I do know I'm very good at it.

RE: I want a perfect soul

This is the song Derty was quoting...

RE: is your computer male or female?

...and selectively assists my spelling, ostensibly refusing to recognize

that while a word is a word, it's spelling can make it not the word.



I think it smirks, too.

RE: is your computer male or female?

My computer does exactly what I tell it to.

Including ingesting viruses and deleting things it new I saved.

I think it resents my power.



I'll refrain from assigning it's behaviour a gender identity though.

RE: Car or Motorbike?

A car.


Almost everyone you know over 40 has been in a car accident/incident

that would have killed them had they been on a motorcycle.


Most of us have been in more than one.

RE: what wouldn't you share

...but that's the fun stuff Serene.

RE: Block a Member from Visiting Repeatedly

They are not visiting you.


They are looking at a profile.

They are not stopping by your apartment.



If it's too troublesome.

Turn off your who's viewed me feature.

You stop showing up on other people's list,

and they'll stop showing up on yours.

RE: Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?

What I wouldn't do, is try to apply a policy

to such a thing.

RE: Out of my league

To make the best genetic soup we can.

It's in our nature.



That said, it's a bit base to chase physical beauty alone.


The risk of trying punch too far above our weight in the pursuit of physical beauty is reducing our actual dating pool to those with a poor temperament, or less intelligence.

RE: Experience as a black woman in scandinavia

I didn't say she was looking for anything.


I disputed her claim of being uninteresting to men her age,

and answered her question.

RE: Experience as a black woman in scandinavia

I find it very difficult to believe, men your age are not interested in you.

Are you evil? only shower for pictures?


The average 25 year old man would follow you barefoot

through broken glass based on your looks alone.



Why are some older men also interested in you?

They're old, not dead.