If there are a lot of other members local to you, it's probably no too bad.
If there are relatively few active members local to you, then yes in regards to seeking a partner it would be a very inefficient use of time for most people.
If you want to cook for him, then do. The same thing that drives a person want to feed another, will drive them to want to do it well. Keep it simple at first, the risk will be to try and over achieve. You can always add a little something at the plate, but it's harder to take things back out. As something of a neophyte cook myself, I prefer the simple, short ingredient list dishes and adding things to them over successive preparations.
If it's just going to be a chore to you like washing dishes, do it as little as possible.
If watching some one do a thing, is in some small way like doing that thing yourself, maybe members of the more polite/civil cultures have more need to vicariously express aggression.
When there was still a shadow of pushback against the "mainstream" in having a tattoo. It was the early nineties afterall, my shaved head and goatee still raised eyebrows then too.
Ntd212, if you quote the post you're replying to, it's easier for people to know who you're talking to. There's two ways to do that.
The first is to use the quote button, instead of the reply button. It's next to the reply button, and will still let you reply, but will also quote the post you're responding to.
The second way is above the box you type your reply in.
Really, all you're airing is your lack of knowledge.
It's ok, not many here are likely to think much of it.
We're all new at everything we do, when we first start doing it.
This thread comes up every couple weeks.
Most OP's(original posters/thread starters)take the information on board and move on.
The rare few refuse the new information and rant on about what poor characters others have, when most of us know, as has been pointed out here already, for them the issue is much more likely they're either pissed about being rejected and making issue out of the how, or have acute control issues and are trying make people behave how they would like. The latter funnily enough being as much the reason most don't respond as the former, in that they'll just use the responses as as excuses to continue writing in an effort to debate/argue the other person into liking them.
RE: Whyyy??
Just skip the first wife then, and go ahead and start savingfor the trophy second wife.