I think the college class, and book club may be some of the most accurate and actionable advice ever given here, in regards to making contacts that can be turned into dates.
I like kiwis a lot, that's a very good fruit to be known for. I want to try kiwi berries, I just learned of them a couple weeks ago, and want to give them a try.
I'm not sure anything's famous for growing here, but if any fruit is linked to our identity as a country I'd guess it would be apples. I found it interesting to learn a couple days ago, that cider most places means fermented apple juice. Here it refers to a certain style of apple juice, and fermented cider is referred to as hard cider.
I don't know you at all, so I'm just going to mention a couple things some men figure out sooner than others.
Mind your...showers, fingernails and shoes.
If you're managing those...ask yourself if you're really trying.
Are you asking women out?
Making conversation with strangers?
Really putting yourself out there?
If you're doing that...are you being realistic about who you approach?
Generally if there's really a problem, we're getting in our own way some how. This stuff isn't all that complicated, if it was we'd have already gone extinct.
It's not something that happens to people generally, it's something they do to themselves. Most folks, who give up on others wouldn't spend a week in a relationship with themselves, and therefore aren't interested in other's like them.
That's not to say there's anything wrong with taking a break.
If this isn't fun anymore, it really is ok to stop
Wait awhile, and see if she catches up. It can be hard for people to see each other as they are, and we rarely get there at the same time. Eventually if she didn't get there I'd leave.
RE: need help finding a date
I think the college class, and book club may be some of the most accurate and actionable advice ever given here, in regards to making contacts that can be turned into dates.