RE: scientology

Santa Clause makes sense, he's a dude.

That Easter Bunny crap's just stupid.

RE: Gold Diggers

NOT a knicker miner. giggle

RE: Gold Diggers

When I volunteer at the free clinic.


No knicker talk, at all.

RE: Gold Diggers

When did the topic change to knickers?

grin

RE: Gold Diggers

This is why we get "Women are rude they ignore emails!" threads every couple weeks.

A lot of women have worked out that the best way to avoid this garbage

is to just not reply if they're not interested.

RE: Gold Diggers

No shovels!

RE: ALL AMERICANS MICROCHIPPED BY 2017 ,, ARE YOU READY ?

I was looking at it from the perspective of how we could get people to accept the practice.
(that's not to imply I think it's a good idea, I'm still thinking on that)

The tech with be corrupted for other uses. At least some of them unwelcome/nefarious, but I don't think people will reject the idea forever. It's just a matter of figuring out the right bait.

The goal being normalization. The trick is getting people to go first.

The early adopters accept them as anti theft devices for therir children. Say 10% do that. Now imgaine someone's kid go's missing, that doesn't have the chip. We have the ensuing media buzz, the dialogues going to be..."If the parent's had been "good" parents the child would have a chip, and we'd just go pick them up.

That's your tipping point...that's when creep will set in. More and more people will adopt the tech. It will sell itself.(with a little media help)

"What if would-be child abductors...just concentrate on abusing their own?"

What if they're also systems monitors. I'm thinking of the trend in wearable health/activity monitors. What if they record and upload stress responses acting a an automatic third party notifier.

Who wouldn't want that for their child?

Now we have complete normalisation.

Because non-participation will become cause for suspicion.


The tech to do that stuff, likely already exists.

If not, it can't be more that ten year's out.


"What if would-be child abductors get wise and kill children quickly..."

That's a very valid concern. I think it would happen, yes.

RE: ALL AMERICANS MICROCHIPPED BY 2017 ,, ARE YOU READY ?

What if it put an end to child abduction?

RE: Being Honest

ADHD, poor executive function, and asociality were offered

as examples of real filter impairments.


Filter impairments I, in the second part of the message

clearly state I don't think you actually have.




What reason are you imagining I would have to back down from you?

I'm genuinely curious.

RE: Being Honest

I actually didn't say, or even imply you had ADHD.

I said the opposite.


I said you likely have a filter, but selectively choose not to use it.

RE: Are men from Mars and women from Venus?

I've never read the book, but I think the ensuing cliche serves a good purpose in reminding us we don't always get where others are coming from. I would prefer it hadn't came wrapped in the binary gender system. 25 years on, I think it may be something of a liability.

I should read it someday.

RE: Are men from Mars and women from Venus?

You're welcome.

RE: Being Honest

Blurting, can be an ADHD thing.

Lack of filter could be poor executive function, or asociality.

The latter seeming unlikely, due to dating site membership.


People who truly have no filter, lead very very hard lives.

I think you might mean you like to shoot your mouth off,

when you feel safe enough to do so.


That's not the same thing.

RE: Are men from Mars and women from Venus?

I'm just gonna leave this here, in case it helps...anyone.


From wikipedia...

"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a book written by an American author and relationship counselor John Gray. It has sold more than 50 million copies and according to CNN it was the "highest ranked work of non-fiction" of the 1990s and spent 121 weeks on the bestseller list. The book and its central metaphor have become a part of popular culture and the foundation for the author's subsequent books, recordings, seminars, theme vacations, one-man Broadway show, TV sitcom, workout videos, podcast, men's and ladies' apparel lines, fragrances, travel guides and his-and-hers salad dressings.

The book states that most of common relationship problems between men and women are a result of fundamental psychological differences between the genders, which the author exemplifies by means of its eponymous metaphor: that men and women are from distinct planets—men from Mars and women from Venus—and that each gender is acclimated to its own planet's society and customs, but not to those of the other. One example is men's complaint that if they offer solutions to problems that women bring up in conversation, the women are not necessarily interested in solving those problems, but want mainly to talk about them. The book asserts that each gender can be understood in terms of distinct ways they respond to stress and stressful situations."

RE: Nobody's perfect

..and a sandwich. laugh

RE: Nobody's perfect

I used to run a self esteem thread.


I said nice stuff about the posters, and barely charged them anything.

RE: Nobody's perfect

I'm perfect, the voices say so.

RE: business and dating!!! 2 in 1! business partners' dating site

That sounds like a lot of pressure on a new relationship.


It also sounds like a convenient package, for those with control issues

who want completely dependent partners.



I wouldn't go near it with my barge pole.




PS:No offense meant, just some honest feedback.

RE: "Grieving"

I think it probably is present to a degree in all loss, yes.



I'm sorry you're hurting, Dragos.

RE: "Grieving"

All three of my closest school friend's had lost a parent before we graduated. It changed their perception of the world. I think loss of a parent or child is more than just grief, it's adjusting to a different reality.

RE: have you lied before?

Only when I use this emoticon...hole


He's doin' it wrong, you'r not s'pose to climb in.

RE: Happy Birthday

Happy birthday in a couple days Unla.


If you were my neighbor I'd make you some birthday guacamole.

RE: Any witty people on here ??? Dying species as it seems ;-)

I'm not really in the mood to entertain the masses,

but if you show me a little leg, I might decide your mass

is a special matter.

RE: 3:14 AM

I forgot that bit.

If I'm having trouble letting go of something, I listen to this.





It gives me something to focus on, that doesn't keep me up.

I can't sleep in headphones, but I have halfway decent sounding computer speakers near my bed.

RE: 3:14 AM

I would use cannabis before prescription sleeping pills, absolutely.

It was my next step, if the other changes hadn't worked.

RE: 3:14 AM

I've honestly considered it Bodleing2, but I don't mind my routine.

That two hours also allows for a bit of introspection.


I also haven't had the fully functioning routine for very long, so I'm hoping in time I might be able to shorten it a little, but for now I'm glad to be sleeping, at night.

RE: 3:14 AM

I tend to have this problem.

Here's what I have to do to reliabely shut down at a decent time.


No caffeine after breakfast. I drink a cup and a half of coffee when I first get up, and that's it. Caffeine later in the day, will push sleep back for me most days.

Seperate from others an hour or two before I need to sleep. Generally this means a couple hours of netflix. I might post a little here, but i'll tend to avoid emailing, texting answering my phone...things like that.

Reduce light for the two hour slow down before sleep. No room light or other bright lights shingin in my eyes. I can get away with the computer screen or my smart phone. Reading lights need to be outside my peripheral vision.

No physical activities that require focus, reflexes or high dexterity. I clear the last two hours of my day of that stuff, you may be able to get away with playing your guitar in the first hour, but may need to give yourself at least an hour after.

Some things that help in general, but wont reliabley cover for failing to do the above.

Physical activity during the day. Particularly swimming, vigorous work, and or outdoor activities wherein you'll get lots of fresh air.

A hot shower. It's not the shower that does the trick, it the falling body temperature after.


I start to wake up, between 2 and 3 am. I like to be in bed asleep between ten and midnight. If I set my target time later then midnight and have difficulty shutting down it's too easy for me to still be struggling at 2 am and that puts me at risk of beginning to wake back up and not getting to sleep until morning, or having a sleepless day.


My favorite sleep schedule is 9 pm to 5 am. I like being up before most folks, it feels like I have a headstart on everyone, but I rarely get to be early enough. 10 to 6 works just fine. If I'm up before seven, I tend to feel better, eat better and generally be more productive.

RE: I do not understand why everytime i chat to someone they seem to be interested and then when they se

Yup, and that's ok.


Keep striving for good things in your life, it's a wonderful trait,

and try to remember setbacks and failures are just part of trying.

RE: The Unknown Factor

If you say the wrong thing, you might end up alone.

If you say nothing, you will probably end up alone.

If you say the right thing, you may not end up alone.


If you say your thing, someone might like you.



When faced with an opportunity to speak, and the shyness overcomes you. Considering taking a moment to think about what it would be like, for that interaction to go perfectly, for that woman to decide in that moment, you're perfect and there's not another man like you in the world. Imagine her looking at you that way, smile, make eye contact and speak to her.


If she doesn't like you, smile, make eye contact and speak to

the next woman you'd like to look at you that way.

RE: Why do Irish men wear tracksuits all the time?

Cause they're athletes?

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