I wouldn't be considering marriage with someone I couldn't talk to, and I wouldn't be at all keen on introducing a third party "authority on relationships" into our relationship unless we ran into something we couldn't sort out between us.
I'd give her 30 to 90 days in jail, and 400 hours of community service.
And not video editing/filming using her "skills" white privilege crap, I mean humility training...food shelter cleaning, trash collecting, serving the poor in an orange jumpsuit community service.
AM I the only person noticing a trend of which gender does what polls?
Are we building score cards?
Do I care if men or women on average do this or that more or less than each each other? Yes, if we're going to have a philososhy, or psychology discussion about why or how it came to be, but from a dating perspective? I don't care.
Lets call it what is is.
Are men or women better people?
From a dating perspective...I don't care.
I date women, individual women not the female gender. I don't date women because they're better people than men, and I'm not going to start dating men if we decide they're better people on average than women.
I don't enter into relationships with the collective,
I enter relationships with individuals.
So if we're not dicsussing the why one gender is more this or that.
Why are we discussing it?
Why are we trying to establish who's better?
What's sought to be gained by establishing one gender is superior to the other?
I'd start with finding rational people to look at the issue.
I'd ask people how many immigrants they feel it takes for there to be a crisis, and if they feel there is a number that is too many.
I'd reject the opinions of(or more accurately decline even hearing) those who feel one immigrant is too many(or some similarly silly low figure) and the opinion of people who don't think there is an amount that would be too many.
The first step in dealing with immigration/refugee issues is to silence
the noise of irrational people lobbing emotional hand grenades
Getting rid of the love, denies that this person of exception quality exists, it denies that you found someone you wanted to spend your life with and denies that you had this gift in your life.
RE: Your advice is needed.
To me? It's not.I wouldn't be considering marriage with someone I couldn't talk to, and I wouldn't be at all keen on introducing a third party "authority on relationships" into our relationship unless we ran into something we couldn't sort out between us.