I didn't phrase my statement well though. Although I agree his negative attitude is a liabilty in his dating efforts, and general happiness, it wasn't my intent to say he was ugly, stupid and negative. I was just offering those as other examples of things that limit partner choice. It was very poor phrasing on my part.
OP: If you're still readin this, I apologize if I hurt your feelings
Your lack of replies where about your unrealistic expectations,
not about your financial status.
Poverty, like ugliness, stupidity, and negativity narrows your dating field, that is true but ultimately your obstruction to finding a partner is how you view(and what you value in) women, those values eliminated the women who may have been interested in you.
At best we'd be talking about extending my life from 40 to 60.
20 to 40 with testosterone, was way better than 20 to 60 without
testosterone would have been.
...and it just gets less and less in favor of no testosterone the later in life that added 20 years comes. 20 to 80 with testosterone versus 20 to 100 without it? That's super easy, no way.
If taking clients shopping was a regular thing, I'd be shocked if there weren't many stories of employees neglecting the client to look at personal items.
She went shopping with a client to get them presumably interview/work wear?
...and lacked the good sense not to brag in the office about what she got herself?
Some places might be ok with it, but no...they weren't wrong to fire her.
That was the clients time, she was being paid to service the client,
When I did quit(in 2009) it was because I'd had a spontaneous pnuemothorax(my right lung collapsed 40%). Quitting was miserable, but not a struggle that time.
Not smoking was barely an annoyance after the first couple months.
By three months I was happier not smoking than I was smoking. Which is to say any withdrawals/cravings were inconsequential compared to the constant mini withdrawal/craving cycles from smoking.
The only smoking urges I get now happen if I inhale too much second hand smoke. They are very mild, but bothersome enough I don't let people smoke in my vehicles with me.
I don't even get the extreme stress related urges anymore from things like physical injuries, romantic break ups and the like. I think those responses stopped around 18 months in, but where pretty easily manageable by about 6 months.
I'm ok in elevators and such, but I struggle working under a car if it's touching my chest, climbing through small openings, working in low crawl spaces....things like that. I'm afraid of being trapped, or crushed.
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RE: Can People Love Too Much?
It's ok to give people some time to catch up,or get their bearings, but after awhile yea.