RE: Internet

I'm getting about 85mbs down tonight and it's about $80 a month.

I think the plan's rated at 75mbs but I usually get 85 to 99.

RE: Why are you here?

This place, after all these years...is like the sofa in my living room.

I'm here...because I"m here. laugh


People come and go, some I grow fond of some others not so much, sometimes we laugh, sometimes I watch quietly, it just is what it is, and it doesn't need to be anything at all.

RE: The most romantic thing

No action comes to mind.


It's the things women say, that let you know they're affected by you

in the way you're affected by them.



One specific thing said does come to mind, but that's ours.

I'm sure you'll understand if I don't share it.

RE: Say Anything...the saga continues.....

It's not a done thing yet, but too have even come this close

is changing my view of the world around me, and not for the better.

RE: Wise saying...

Unless you're drowning, or starving, or being abused, or freezing,

or can't afford your meds, or...

RE: Would Donald Trump make a good President



He advocates killing the families of terrorists as a deterrent and it wasn't just an off the cuff remark, he defended it later in the debates.


In my opinion no, that's not what we need in a president.

RE: Where do you want to travel most?

I'd probably go visit my family in southern California.

I wouldn't take anyone, I'd use the second ticket to go again later.

RE: Say Anything...the saga continues.....

Yea I hope so too.

I often forget we're close enough to get a lot of the same weather.


We're getting predictions in the 60's for the beginning of next week.

RE: IQ

IQ isn't really that important to me in a partner.

Emotional intelligence is though.

With emotional intelligence we gain the understanding that other's are not us, that they have had their own experiences, and that they may process and feel things(and about things) differently than we do. I find relationships with people who lack that understanding untenable.

RE: Say Anything...the saga continues.....

From...http://qz.com/584850/creative-peoples-brains-really-do-work-differently/


"...the study showed that creativity is informed by a whole host of intellectual, emotional, motivational and moral characteristics. The common traits that people across all creative fields seemed to have in common were an openness to one’s inner life; a preference for complexity and ambiguity; an unusually high tolerance for disorder and disarray; the ability to extract order from chaos; independence; unconventionality; and a willingness to take risks.

Describing this hodgepodge of traits, Barron wrote that the creative genius was “both more primitive and more cultured, more destructive and more constructive, occasionally crazier and yet adamantly saner, than the average person.”

This new way of thinking about creative genius gave rise to some fascinating—and perplexing—contradictions. In a subsequent study of creative writers, Barron and Donald MacKinnon found that the average writer was in the top 15% of the general population on all measures of psychopathology. But strangely enough, they also found that creative writers scored extremely high on all measures of psychological health.

Why? Well, it seemed that creative people were more introspective. This led to increased self-awareness, including a greater familiarity with the darker and more uncomfortable parts of themselves. It may be because they engage with the full spectrum of life—both the dark and the light—that writers score high on some of the characteristics that our society tends to associate with mental illness. Conversely, this same propensity can lead them to become more grounded and self-aware. In openly and boldly confronting themselves and the world, creative-minded people seemed to find an unusual synthesis between healthy and “pathological” behaviors.

Such contradictions may be precisely what gives some people an intense inner drive to create. As psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi said after more than 30 years of observing creative people: “If I had to express in one word what makes their personalities different from others, it’s complexity. They show tendencies of thought and action that in most people are segregated. They contain contradictory extremes; instead of being an ‘individual,’ each of them is a ‘multitude.’”

RE: How hard can love be

...laugh

RE: How hard can love be

rolling on the floor laughing


You need to claim to be widowed.

Women love that.




Your scammer game's a little weak, and amusingly transparent.

Do you have any other skills? I'm afraid you might starve at this rate.

Have you tried claiming to be in the military? I hear that's a good one.

RE: Say Anything...the saga continues.....

Compassion: The inexplicable desire to tell the scammer on my "who's viewed me" list

they've chosen an unambiguous male name for their female profile.

RE: Say Anything...the saga continues.....

Of course you were. laugh


...but you'll be ok.

I know cause I'm a psychic, but wait, wait...I'm not just a psychic I'm a psyhic-ismiatryology professor(I am, I am so...and yes it is a word. I mean it, it really really is I know cause I'm a english professor to!?!!)...and I'm not just a psyhic-ismiatryology professor I'm a DOCTOR of Psyhic-ismiatryology and, and, and I'm on a very very important committee that's revolutionaryizing how Psyhic-ismiatryology(and english) is taught.


...and I did it all with a painfully obvious sub 90 brain.


I'd be a genius, except for that not being a genius thing.

RE: Germany suffers the result of Angela Merkel's decision

RE: Germany suffers the result of Angela Merkel's decision

This is really all anyone need know about this woman's capacity for rational thought.

Her position is...."You either hate muslims, or you're a terrorist."


Brick stupid.

RE: Have you a use for all your fingers








Exercises for coordination, finger independence, flexibility and strength.


Over time these will change what you can do, but in the short term they also take a lot of tension out of your hands and forearms which is relaxing and just feels nice.

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 14

RE: Way to go Carolina, Trump keeps on rising

It would be a fine system, if the benevolent overlords offered us up pointless no lose choices, but the overlords are not benevolent and the beast that is only as smart as the our average wont stop trying to bite it's own tail.

RE: Way to go Carolina, Trump keeps on rising

The trouble inherent in democracy is that the dumbest half of the voters

get as much say as the smartest half.

RE: Three Things

Better neighbors, a better education, and a woman that thinks I'm

about the best thing that's ever stood up.




I'm working on the first, and would like to start on the second soon after.

The third's a nice thought, but I'm not really holding my breath.

RE: Songs you're listening to

RE: Songs you're listening to

RE: New Hampshire has spoken

I don't hold other governments responsible for keeping there citizens home.


The US government doesn't own me, and I don't need their permission to leave. That's a bit to police/prison state for my taste.

If I want to leave that's a matter between myself and my destination country.

I don't hold Mexicans to a different standard than I would wish to be held to.

That said, I do understand there are some very predatory things happening to your people during illegal imigration, and would probably want those activities curtailed also, if I were in your position.






I feel what language american companies do business in, in Mexico is between you and them and not really a thing for me to get involved in. I understand were you're coming from, but the other side of that is I wouldn't be comfortable telling a spanish speaking small business here they "have" to hire english speaking people and run their business in english. Although I may require them to interact with government agencies in english.

RE: Womans day

That could drive one to travel.

RE: GF or BF has flu. how far will you go to take care of her/him?

I'll go all the way to pub because they'll need their peace and quiet,

and I'm a giver.

RE: Womans day

Everyday's woman's day in Ocee land.


They don't come a long often enough to not treasure the ones I want to stay.

RE: What is your favorite color?

I vote for you a thousand times my beloved orange,

but alas I'm only allowed one vote.



2% really? You people should be ashamed of yourselves.

RE: This is supposed to be a DATING site

It a social website.

Generally yes, people socialize to prevent or cure loneliness.

RE: New Hampshire has spoken

There isn't going to be any wall, or any real effort to control immigration.

The talk is just political rhetoric.


We'd have some very serious food supply and general economic issues if we really deported all undocumented immigrants ands stop anymore from coming in.

Some of our agricultural southern states have made a little too much noise about deporting folks. The migratory workers went to other states instead and food rotted in the fields for want of labor to harvest it.


We're also not going to stop building factories and manufacturing goods in Mexico. We're not there for just the cheap labor, it's also a way around our evironmental protection laws.

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