breadcrumb chatillion Blog

Open relationship?

She wanted an open relationship. I agreed, picked up her purse and handed it to her. Opening the front door, I pointed her the way out!

I'll trade ya...

As a kid, I had friends who would trade things. For example, baseball cards, marbles, 45rpm records.

In the 70's, I was in a band with a guitarist who had a faulty guitar and it was affecting our ability to (as a band) to make money. We came off a tour of Canada and I went with him to a music store to buy a Fender Stratocaster. He tried all of the ones in the store before settling on a black one with a rosewood fingerboard. His mom helped him buy a house and the money made from music was barely enough to pay the mortgage. The plan was I'd buy the guitar and he would repay me with a portion of gig money. That didn't happen and I ended up with the guitar.

I'm left-handed and it was a right handed guitar. I know it didn't stop Jimi Hendrix from playing one upside down but another guitarist wanted it and offered to trade a reel-to-reel tape recorder so I accepted.

I'm more inclined to give things away and not trade for something.

I don't follow sports, but I hear in the news all the time about sports players being traded to other teams. Depending on the perspective, I guess it's a good and bad thing.

As part of my job, I do have to negotiate with clients, general contractors, associates and upper management. There is always a give and take to make things work.
Yesterday, I had a meeting with a client and contractor about my cabinets in the bathroom and how the designer wants the walls wrapped in tile. I didn't like the way it was planned. The contractor agreed. I gave-in to include full panels (instead of fillers) where my cabinetry meets the wall. It's more material but an easier installation for both my company and the tile installer. Win-Win.
I wanted a design change in another area of the house and they went along with my request. Fair trade.

So this month, long-time member Harb who is on permanent bad returns. Similar to a cat with 9 lives, but it doesn't take long for administration to find out and pull the plug on his alias... POOF !! he's gone... again.

I always thought he was entertaining with his sarcastic humor. Lots of banter, even if he did cross the line with some members. A ban is a ban with no hope of parole.
Honestly, he does much better for CS than lots of other members. Often, if there's a change to be made, people will sign a petition in hopes of creating a change. Workers to a boss, citizens to a government. Michael Cohen traded some information to get his sentence reduced. Different examples all parts attempting a trade.

Let's suggest a trade to management. I could think of a handful bitter/angry members who could be easily traded for the return of one Harb. Kinda like a prisoner trade to a foreign government.

I'll trade ya... what a great idea !!

laugh
Post Comment

Bag Rock...

These guys are performing in Dayton, Ohio this month and my brother wants to know if I'll fly up to catch their show!
Rock music with Scottish Bagpipes.



Thanks bro, but I'll stay in Florida!


laugh
Post Comment

Ginger Baker's Air Force...

I was heavily influenced by the 'supergroup' Cream. When they disbanded, drummer Ginger Baker teamed up with Traffic singer, guitarist, keyboardist Steve Winwood to form Blind Faith. I played some of their songs but I always felt 'something was missing'.
There must have been 10 of those guys who played 'revolving doors' with recording sessions, touring and short lived band lineups.
I was fading away from music when I heard that Baker started a group called Ginger Baker's Air Force. That was around 1969.
Somewhere I read it was a mixture of jazz and African music. I wasn't interested and all these years later I never took a good listen to his music.

Tonight it popped up on my YouTube list. Okay, I'll take a listen...

Post Comment

Taylor Hawkins dead at 50...

This comes as a total shock. If you know the Foo Fighters, Taylor was their drummer.
Details are sketchy but it's said the band was on tour in South America. They finished a gig at a Festival in Argentina and scheduled to play Friday in Columbia.

I didn't see any updates to their website:

Embedded image from another site
Post Comment

No Foo without you...

Hours before the Foo Fighters band were set to perform at Festival Estéreo in Bogota, Columbia, 50 year old Drummer Taylor Hawkins was found dead in his hotel room. Toxicology report shows he had several prescription and illegal drugs in his body.
As a result of the death of their drummer, Foo Fighters have announced they are cancelling all of their remaining tour dates.

What's to become of the band?
My prediction is they will return to the United States, go into hiding for a few months and quietly audition a replacement drummer to get back on the road and possibly return to South America to honor those cancelled tour dates. Although Taylor was an integral part of the band, it's not like Led Zeppelin where the death of John Bonham ended the Zeppelin experience.
Dave Grohl, drummer, guitarist, front man and founder of Foo Fighters has seen death before. He was the drummer for Nirvina that disbanded when Kurt Cobain ended his life from suicide by gunshot.

Admit it, Taylor was a drug addict. Dave almost lost him from an earlier incident and there were no stopgaps in place. He killed the musical careers of the other band members.
Should they disband, Grohl, will survive. I cannot say what would happen to the others without Dave. Would they fade away into obscurity without Dave?

That would be a bad case of no Foo without you...
Post Comment

Remembering...

I'm searching for an old blog this morning and came across a few comments by Bearwoman who left us a few years ago. A friend had her password and came to announce she had died.

She is not forgotten...
Post Comment

People we don't need to hear/read about on a daily basis...

My search engine is usually Yahoo where I can catch a few news stories.
Sometimes I see stories about the same people over and over and... over.
The thing about internet news is clicking the link tells them someone is interested.
More clicks gets more exposure.
Someone is telling them what's newsworthy by the amount of clicks.

In the top right corner they post a 'Trending Now' of who (or what topics) is/are being searched.

I don't need to hear about...
... anything Kardashian
Meghan Markle
Elon Musk... submarine or no submarine
Jamal or George Clooney
Rudy Giuliani
Papa John

At this moment (Google search reveals) people are interested in:
1. Danica Patrick
2. Jamie Lee Curtis
3. Emelia Holden
4. Caitlyn Jenner
5. Subaru Forester
6. CD Rates
7. Alexandre Benalla
8. Ariana Grande
9. Larry Fedora
10. Credit Report

At least Beyoncé isn't at the top of the list!
I spoke too soon... it's rumored she's having her 4th child.
Post Comment

Lighting up a joint...

It's not often I see a profile on CS with someone smoking/lighting up a joint. Today, there was an attractive woman with a clear shot of her lighting up!

A few years ago on POF there was a high percentage of members exhibiting their drug addiction. Usually, it was young guys. My opinion was "It's an advertisement of their lifestyle to attract women who share the same lifestyle." kinda like trouble breeds trouble.

They had a section where the members could review photos of other members and help management (sorry for lack of a better term) 'weed out' photos that weren't proper... or those photos that didn't comply with their rules.

It was a huge site that had thousands of members online at any point in time. That presented a problem for management as they didn't didn't have the ability to go through every photo, so they asked members to volunteer and notify them of photos that needed to be adjusted or removed.

Some of the choices were blurred or faceless photos, single photos of kids, photos of violent activity, weapons, drugs or drug paraphernalia. Probably the biggest reason to get your profile closed was nudity. CS doesn't attract the masses and appears to have fewer problems with non-compliant photos.

I wouldn't mind seeing a 'hot or not' section where members can anonymously vote on photos they like or like to see removed.
Post Comment

Dog Gone... 5 grand reward.

Someone posted a missing dog sign on the back of a stop sign near a supermarket.
Hank the Frenchie and the reward is $5,000 cash.
He must be some really special animal for that kind of price.

Actually, I would think the dog was stolen and a reward like that would entice the thief to come forward to get that reward money... at which point the arraigned meeting would also have detectives nearby to capture the person(s) responsible for the theft of the dog.

Dog Gone... Five grand.

Embedded image from another site
Post Comment

A glitch with a twitch...

Several months ago some programming changes appeared to the blog page allowing comment numbers, comment likes and a simplification of quoting a specific comment.

The glitch appears that when the person who wrote the blog (OP) locks the blog, as some have found a way to bypass the lock and continue making comments after the OP decides 'enough is enough' and from this we have a mild case of pandemonium breaking out.
I see an instant mood change for those who can get in to a locked blog.

Calling all programmers... cleanup on aisle nine!


laugh
Post Comment

He ain't heavy...

He ain't heavy... He's only blubber.
I should have teamed up with Al Yankovic doing parodies.
For years my band mates would intentionally use the wrong lyrics, just for fun!




This video credits Elton John for piano.
I need to research that as I didn't know he was in The Hollies.
I know Graham Nash was in The Hollies, but I believe he joined the group later on.
More music research.
Post Comment

This is a list of chatillion's Blogs. Click here for chatillion's Blog List

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here