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Human nature...

It's been through the ages that people need something to complain about. They feel better after doing it. If CS didn't have Jim to obsess on, it would only be... Well, you know.

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If you are looking for Granny...

I see a new profile popped up today for a retired 62 year old woman living in Sheffield, England. Her intentions are clear and so are her topless photos!
She's whorn-knee and comes as a married couple... However she can separate if needed.

Wow, what a deal!

Guys, don't wait. I'm sure this deal won't last long.
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Quest for an elusive soulmate...

A very high percentage of dating site members are seeking a soulmate.
It appears to be the number one request.
You know... that 'one-in-a-million' chance of finding someone.

Forget dating for a few seconds and do some math instead.
Let's play the lottery. Pick 6 that runs twice a week.
Bet 100 cards at a dollar each time.
Ignoring the months that have 5 weeks for now, it's 8 times per month
That's $800 a month or $9,600 a year.
9,600 tries to get a winning number.
I read somewhere that people go into a frenzy when the jackpot exceeds $100 million and they start betting more. The smart thing to do is increase your selections to increase your odds or get into an office pool where groups of people put money together and agree to share the winnings.
What we don't hear is obsessive gambling bringing up winners.

Considering 90% or more of the dating site are scammers, you've got 10% to work with.

Messaging 100 and you might find 10 worth starting a conversation with. Of the 10, you may only find 1 of them worth trying to actually meet.
One in a hundred is pretty low odds just to meet someone who came here to meet their soulmate too!
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Can I do what you do?

Can I post a blog that asks a question and solicits responses from my readers?
Can I break CS rules and write a gossip blog/personal attack about another member, mentioning their profile name?
Can I do a few anti-Biden/liberal/democrat blogs a week?
Can I complain about anyone who posts blogs against Trump?
Can I go from blog to blog of the members I dislike and post disruptive/useless/heckler comments over and over?
Can I post lots of 'off the wall' anti-vax blogs each week?
Can I repeatedly blog about Bill Gates eating babies and reducing the worlds population?

Actually, it's not in me to do those things... I'm not into anyone's click and seeing the most popular (and controversial) blogs are that way, maybe it's time I change my blogging style to up my level in the pecking order here!


I came from a defunct dating site that had blogs, forums, chat room and private chat system. When I arrived on CS there were lots of complaints about the new wave of refugees. Different crowd, same theme.
Since bloggers aren't daters, I always wonder when administration will lock forums and blogs and make them fade into an archive. I won't be shocked.


When I come here via cellphone, I'm pounded with advertisements I don't see on my desktop. It must be revenue when people click those links that keeps this place alive.

Food for a different blog...
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Halloween support group...

It's time. I call to order a meeting of the Halloween support group.
You've been holding out and it's time to open up about your problems.
Have a seat. Coffee and doughnuts are on the table.
Help yourself and get comfortable.
Take your time, we've go the whole night to discuss things.

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Put your money where your mouth is...

Let's say someone was boasting and you didn't believe the story they were telling. You could suggest a wager... bet money against what they say is true. Put your money where your mouth is would be a common saying.

This blog is not about boasting or betting. It's about a trip to the dentist.

Earlier this year, I had some food trapped between 2 crowned teeth and was heading to a client appointment. Within a few hours I had some serious pain coming from the outside just below the gum line. Lucky for me, the dentist was able to see me without much wait. X-rays didn't show anything but the area was red so the doctor prescribed antibiotics and very slowly the pain subsided, but not enough to be considered gone.

The dentist referred me to a specialist who probed around and pulled out what appeared to be a tiny filament lodged deep in the gum line that didn't come out from daily waterpik rinses. I believe it came from the dental floss. I persisted and the pain was nearly gone. If I pressed on the jawbone near the area I could feel pressure.

Unhappy, the next trip was to the primary doctor who referred me to an ENT. From that visit got me a CT scan that showed negative. However, he prescribed Naproxen to reduce swelling. Within a week, I began to feel human again.

Fast forward and eventually, the pain/pressure returned. My trip to see my brother was booked so I saw the primary car who prescribed Naproxen and some antivert in-case I got dizzy from the flight.

Next stop: Dentist.
More inclusive x-rays and a prescription for antibiotic.
While I was there, they wanted to book a cleaning, but I had issues with the hygienist and told them I planned to go elsewhere for a cleaning. Within seconds another person came into the office and sat down. She must have overheard me and asked why. Not wanting to go into too much detail, I said it's wasn't sufficient to be called a cleaning. Introducing herself as a hygienist, she had a cancellation and asked if I wanted to book with her. Now?
Yes...
Okay, this must be my lucky day.
I said hand scaling only... no cavatron.
She said okay.
(this blog is running longer that I thought)

Something I've never seen before is she had a tiny rubber-tipped probe with graduations that is used to measure the gap between teeth and spaces at the gum line. Basically, mapping out the entire mouth and entering this information into my chart.

I rarely fall for gimmicks (like nitrogen filled tires) and was a little skeptical about the service/procedure she suggested. It's a deep cleaning and injecting antiseptic gel between the teeth/gums. It lasts for weeks. Okay, let's do it.

The cleaning was the best I've had in more than 20 years and injecting the gel into the gums was painless. The cost combined with the cleaning was a few hundred, but I'm at the point (despite a few crowns) I still have all my teeth and hope this treatment helps to keep it that way!

Already the antibiotic has started to 'kick in' and the swelling is down.

I think it was a good idea to put my money where my mouth is...
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Rust: Cinematographer down...

On October 21st, 2021, actor Alec Baldwin while on set for filming of the movie RUST discharges a gun used as a prop. The gun wasn't loaded with a blank, instead it had a real bullet that struck director of photography, Halyna Hutchins and film's director, Joel Souza who was behind Halyna. Hutchins dies and Souza survives.

Opinions of 180 degrees start flying. Some blame Baldwin for not checking the gun. Some say it's handled by specialized film crew, actor's aren't required to check props. On and on we go.

Investigations start coming through and the finger of blame gets rotated a few times a day.
Currently, we are up a few new stories daily (and several re-hashed) about the events leading up to this tragedy.
Search warrants, investigations, lack of safety protocols, previous misfiring incidents, gun practice, empty shells.Filming has ceased, the crew has gone home.
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Believe what you want to believe...

People believe what they want to believe, no matter how much contrary evidence you show them.
Last week, someone commented on an old blog that Obama wasn't born in America. Yeah, the birther movement, it's still alive... started by (name omitted) and years later, after America became divided and wasted millions of hours in dispute, were unable to prove that statement. (name omitted) admitted it was fabricated. Everyone heard he came from Africa. Apparently only a few heard it wasn't true, or at least don't want to change their belief.

Some people believe the insurrection on January 6th was a peaceful protest.
Believe what you want to believe...
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The smell was awesome...

I'm back from a short trip to Ohio this weekend to see my brother. The trip was initially to take measurements for furniture and an office relocation. But, that wasn't more than a day's task.

We went fishing at 3 places on Friday and only caught a few fish too small to keep.
I ate lots of food including a Cannoi that was the best I've had in years. Much better than the Italian bakery in Miami where I grew up.

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On Saturday, we drove to the outskirts of town to visit an outdoor shooting range.
We stopped at a gun shop on the way so I could purchase a 1-day firearms permit.
Interesting that the gun license was $5 and the 1-day fishing license was $15.

There was lots of testosterone on display at the gun range and I counted more than 20 semi-automatic tactical rifles for the guys in the 100-150 yard section.

My brother and I were in the 5-10-15 yard area as he brought a Smith & Wesson 380 semi-automatic pistol.

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I did some quick research and see it's in the low-end of the scale in price. My brother only goes to the range once or twice a year so he cannot justify something more expensive. He had 2 full boxes and one opened ammo, so I'm guessing we fired off more than 120 rounds.

The place is supervised and an instructor followed us out just to see what we were all about. With a bullseye of 8 inch diameter at 10 yards my brother for got all of the first clip into the inner 3 rings and one into the bullseye. The instructor was a bit surprised as my 74 year old brother with shaky hands did so well. With a smile, I told her he's a retired Army Major. She acknowledged we didn't need supervision.

Every shot I took was in the in the 8x8 stick-on target, but I was disappointed my accuracy wasn't better.

For a few weeks now I've been having earaches since I went to a jobsite where they were removing a tile floor and again when they were core drilling a cement slab (reminder to self ALWAYS carry ear plugs when visiting construction sites) so the ringing in my ears (tinnitus) was at an all-time high. I had construction ear plugs inside the ear muffs and it was a good thing.

I've always been sensitive to smells and having witnessed fireworks over the years, I noticed the fired gunpowder was different than common fireworks. Yeah... the smell was awesome and I wonder if the fascination of people discharging firearms is partly due to the smell.

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Mmmm.... Cannoli
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Has kids: Yes, they are far away

I've read lots of profiles of 35ish women to see stated: her kids are far away.
I usually ask myself: Why and who has her kids? What are the circumstances they would be in a dating site, some divorced and many never married.

It's known many young Philippine women take jobs in other countries for financial support of their families back home while the grandparents raise the children. Personal sacrifice.
On the other end of the spectrum is the question what happens if the mother is unfit and the court awards custody to the father...

Doing the math, lets say having a child at 25, she's now 35 and the child is 10.
Getting into a relationship with a woman who has a distant child (or children) doesn't always sound like the best choice to get started on a relationship.
Red Flags should be going up!

That's my thought on the subject.
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An act or instance of revolting against civil authority or an established government...

To some it's called insurrection. To others it's called a peaceful tour of the White House.
I have my opinion and you have yours.
This is something I predicted. Sorry I was correct. 40 minute long video. I'll watch it again.

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Was it breaking and entering if the door was unlocked?

This story is about Wu, Li and Liang. No... they aren't famous Chinese lawyers. One of them will need a lawyer, but I doubt it will help.
Yvonne Wu was in a relationship with Jenny Li and they dated for two years. They broke up 3 weeks ago.
Jenny found a new lover, Jamie Liang and the two of them were in Jenny's home when Yvonne arrived and entered through the back door that was unlocked.

Some background information:
Yvonne Wu, 31, is a police officer who works at the 72nd Precinct NYPD.

Using a police issued Glock 19, Wu (allegedly) fired multiple shots at the 2 women.
Li was able to call 911.
Liang later died and Li took a bullet through an artery and into a lung. She escaped death.

One story reported Wu found them in bed.

Wu, is a five-year veteran of the force, now charged with murder and attempted murder.
Following her arrest, she admitted wanting to kill herself.

My opinion: Yeah, had she done that Jamie would be alive and Jenny wouldn't be in the hospital recovering.

I saw this story a few days ago when it was first reported and again today when more detail came forth.

I take issue with the news story calling it a love triangle. Technically, the relationship between Yvonne and Jenny had already ended.
Yvonne entered through an unlocked door. It would appear that was considered breaking and entering.
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