WHEN DEATH CALL IS SO CLOSE
A lesson learned. Please make it a point to have yearly exam even if you don't feel pain or sick. Cancer when found out chances are, it is far too advance.This is the main point of my blog why I brave to share it all 100 percent. For us all to learn. When they discovered the first time (1998), I didn't feel no pain and so I questioned the Specialists at first, thinking they just wanted to use my insurance, as I had the best coverage between me and my husband then. No deductible, no co-pay, (my ex was an engineer at the best union of the world, during that time) but after four independent specialists, I was rotten to the core and dying albeit no sign. Just my yearly exam..
They were going to cut me on November 26, after series of intensive and extensive exams, but felt no pain at all so I said: " No, cut me after this last holidays I have left with no pain"
And so it did...
A very different from all of my blogs and I am dedicating this poem I just posted at the PC for all SURVIVORS OF ANY KIND OF BATTLE they have been through.
Today is the second anniversary of my clearance from a very tough cancer (one in a million) kind, where I was declared to live at most of 90 days and with the help of all my specialists (6) and the one I loved then, who went through step by step with me on this journey, I am forever grateful..
To breath every second of your life, knowingly so that, any moment is to come, you will feel the inner strength within you and feel like a winner. Never lose sight of the fact that life is too short and therefore spend it usefully and positively and thankfully.
Thank you all for your comments and contributions and would welcome anyone to share their experience of nearly giving up at one time or another. It is very cathartic to say the least..
Did it ever changed your life? How?
MY STRENGTH
by: lindsyjones
deliverance of my strength
rising up to the melody
of my weakness
confidence and robust trust
with you I am melted
reduced to the submission
of my indomitable will
relentlessly yet yielding
into the claws of your dominance
impaired and restrained
I am swimming
in the wilderness of obscurity
with the intensity of abominable
and injurious apathy
I am, for once, dwindling
in the plight of the wind
dignity and pride escape me
but not losing sight
of the last drop of hope
I will hang unto
and as the seagulls
fly over me one more time
halfway buried
in the arid heat of the sand
as their eyes pierce me
with disdain and contempt
advancing towards my harmed
and languid body
I will not laugh, nor will I cry
but stand on my last ounce of force
shout back...
"is this all you've got?"
and while bleeding halfway to death
I will not give up!!
I will gather back all my strength
and with my fist curled up to the sky
believing one last time-
this is my one and only life..
only me can save me
from my own self destruct
and with the choirs of the angels
I rise up
with my will intact
never to lose this battle
I will fight back
because...
my strength is unbroken
my hope is unyielding
my love is forgiving
and I...am still standing
fighting, with all my strength
until my last breath is charged
there is no other way.
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Comments (53)
Very happy that you survived against the odds...I would have never conversed with you then!!...I wish all patients had your success...perhaps it has something to do with stubbornness then?...haha...good to have you with us!!
"the one I loved then, who went through step by step with me on this journey," who was it? where is he?
Actually I was told twice of the same cancer, one in 1999 where my first operation went through in spite of all the odds. So when it came back 14 years later, I knew it was futile to fight back. But miracles do happen and here I am humbly sharing all my moments with all of you.
This is not for me to earn any sympathy, as I am all pass this, but rather to share you that life is so beautiful, and so grand and so great in spite of all the dark storms we have to yield into..
I have all the documents that support all these and my love then is still active and reading everything on here and on PC, albeit we don't communicate at all anymore..
Time do change all our perspectives in life but there is nothing that can alter more than a very close call of death..
Reasons I will never be able to share with all of you guys. But let us just say, it wasn't meant to be. And so it is..
Thank you as always,..
Not quite but I am sure every moment I am living is filled with hopes and gratefulness and that is all that matters.
Thanks so much Red.
Good to see positivity ruling here.. Way to go Every day is a gift, make the most of every single hour.
Very nice poem my friend!
I am really sorry to hear about your cancer bouts! Thankfully, God saw fit to heal you each time! Praise Him!
I hope you are having a wonderful Memorial Day weekend!
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No amount of high tech research yet has made this malady tamed.
Steve Jobs the billionaire founder of APPLE, can't even buy extension of his life. This I am grateful..
I retired right after dealing with my cousin REd...
And your blog is equally compelling to charge some laughters from me Luke...Thanks so much...
On my first call Jim, I have to thank all my fellow parishioners at my Cathedral whom I was a Lector and Eucharistic Minister for 25 years, they prayed so hard and helped me with all my children and our chores during the one year of recovery time..
A rare community call of unity on my time...
Thanks again Jim...
You look so ready to rock and roll...
Have you ever eaten Smores? They are made of melted Hershey chocolate, marshmallow on a graham cracker. Yummy for the tummy! Try them! Best over a open fire.
Don't tell me I have to make it??
I am blessed just to hear from you let alone your prayers...
So far Ito, I am on the better tip of the scale. It is very inspiring when we share stories of never giving up and thanks so much Ito, and Bless you.
I just sent you mail. Will send another one on the smores.
Love the weather now Jim but flying back on Thursday...Maybe you should come and have a drink of coffee or ask my man, if we can drive to yours.
Your strength is felt in your words which are so beautifully put and an inspiration to us all. Thank you for sharing such a personal challenge of your life as it truly uplifted me as I read it.
Godbless you dear lady for that you are.
When I was diagnosed both times, I could've thought they were joking as no pain coming through but if not detected early, no hope would have saved me.
So because of this I feel empowered to share my fight to the world if only to make it safe for everyone.
Thanks Wallop. Miracles do happen and that is why I BELIEVE....
I am a firm believer in miracles and see them all around me..you are a walking miracle. Godbless Lyndsey for all the good you are doing.
Thank you my friend
I'm glad I'd inspire you to take care.
Thanks again
I love this quote from Hermann Hesse about the stages of life.
His poem always seems to resonate with me ....
"As every flower fades and as all youth
Departs, so life at every stage,
So every virtue, so our grasp of truth,
Blooms in its day and may not last forever.
Since life may summon us at every age
Be ready, heart, for parting, new endeavor,
Be ready bravely and without remorse
To find new light that old ties cannot give.
In all beginnings dwells a magic force
For guarding us and helping us to live."
When someone you love is close to death, what would be the most appropriate words to say?
To hold on and keep hanging on, we are there for you?
Or Not to worry about your family, we'll take very good care of them... ?
...a fine thin line ....
It is great that you are still with us. You have enlightened many around you on here.
Wonderful poem.
Why is my question.. ?
But glad you pulled through.