Lukeon

Lukeon

Oct 2014

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Conquering fear can and will lead to happiness.

Everyone has fear. Some of success, some of failure. And a thousand lil unimportant fears in between.

Fear of commenting on the blogs.
Fear of someone NOT commenting.
Fear of finding love or NOT finding love.

Conquer your fear and you will find happiness.

Fear has great power in our lives. Thank God it does, keeping us from doing things that could hurt us, like taking unnecessary and dangerous drugs. However, it is a terrible problem if it is keeping you from making your life better, like losing weight and keeping it off, getting a better job, having a good relationship or doing and having any number of things that would make your life happier.
I say screw fear and be happy.

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lindsyjones●unknown, California USA

Oct 3, 2014●383 Blogs●11,670 Comments

How timely is your blog for me Luke. Although those in between are so inane they don't thrive in my oceans of fear.

I am, however, very charged of fear now for mankind's inability to withstand man's callousness and brutalized existence.
The result of this war going on seems cheap and easy but kn reality Luke?

Perhaps we should just conquer our fears and enjoy every moments of our lives.

Grateful to be alive Luke.

Gentlejim●unknown, Wisconsin USA

Oct 3, 2014●705 Blogs●4,176 Comments

Luke,

Excellent blog. How very true what you have said! One of the greatest fears is, "the fear of failing". This has stopped many, many people from being great achievers! JMO

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Hi LJ, I take it in the light of, if no one had a fear of reprisal then we would stand together and tell the guy in charge what we really think of the way he/they are running (ruining) the globe. But fear prohibits us to show our true feelings...

JMO

ajkaorjun●kolkata ( erstwhile calcutta ), West Bengal India

Oct 3, 2014●49 Blogs●856 Comments

darr ke aage jeet hai ( fear precedes victory ).

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LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Hi Jim

, Fear is the real enemy is all aspects. Now I know somewhere during the comments there will be someone that will dissect and define fear to his/her advantage but I will always keep my stance of fear being the true enemy of the person.

Of course, we are more familiar with the fear of failure, the dread of working hard and being denied what we want. Who wants to work hard for nothing? Worse, with every failure in our life, we likely suffered humiliating shame and guilt. Who can stand that?

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

AJ, Quite true but conquer fear in its own right. No mater how huge or tiny the battle is. I am a mere mortal.

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 3, 2014●1,796 Comments

FEAR only stops the flow of LOVE...
When there is LOVE, there is NO Fear!

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Min,,, NOW you’re talking...

ajkaorjun●kolkata ( erstwhile calcutta ), West Bengal India

Oct 3, 2014●49 Blogs●856 Comments

minerva - you forgot about philophobia!

Angelpepper●Glen Ellyn, Illinois USA

Oct 3, 2014●9 Blogs●10,202 Comments

Lukie;
Great blog!. . . . .

Heyyyy! All Yawl.

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 3, 2014●1,796 Comments

Our greatest fear is the "Death of the Ego".

Fear is a vital response to physical and emotional danger and is needed for survival.

Phobias are also fears but usually coming from a past trauma - in this life, or past lives.

However, all the other fears are "unecessary" and must be overcome in order to let love flow and for us to be "happy"

Good that you brought this topic up Lukeon

lindsyjones●unknown, California USA

Oct 3, 2014●383 Blogs●11,670 Comments

At Min my friend, how true that is. The most impending reason for love to glow and flow is fear.

So let's cultivate everything that inspire us to be disconnected from fear.
Nice blog Luke.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Thanks

. Where is catfoot/bob?

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

@ Min, yes you are totally correct. Like the title reads 'Conquering Fear'

No twist to it just to conquer and rule..

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Thanks LJ. I must admit tho that I have a fear of going out on a date tonight with Kittyjoy as she has invited me out to Ceasars Palace. Thats a top class Casino. I might be ruined for the rest of my life...

Just kidding..

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 3, 2014●1,796 Comments

@Ajkaor. "Philophobia"? Yes, the Fear of Love... or of emotional attachments...

I´m afraid many have those fears...?

But, if we fear being emotionally attached to someone, we´ll never have any friends for fear of "losing" them?

In this case, the fear becomes: "Fear of loss".

Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway

Oct 3, 2014●2,822 Comments

So you say I have conquered fear to feel as happy as I do now a days? Hmmm... interesting.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Not sure about my facts but I think there are only 3 or so natural fears one is born with: Height, loud noises and the dark. I stand under correction. All the other phobias/fears are man made

Kittyjoy●somewhere by the sea, Western Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●10 Blogs●572 Comments

@ Luke... Mmm only thing you should fear is losing your money tonight

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Wel,, I have got to know you as one fearless lady.

Keep it that way. I don't mean throw caution to the wind but without unnecessary fear there is happiness.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Kitty, I fear I'm running late.

Will see you in a short while, just want to shower,,

Bubyeeeee

Minerva88●Beach Paradise, Murcia Spain

Oct 3, 2014●1,796 Comments

Sorry Luke, I don´t agree with that one.
The fear of heights "acrophobia",
fear of darkness "nyctophobia",
fear of water "aquaphobia"....
These are not "man made" fears..

They all come from past traumas, either in this life, or in previous past lives.
I happen to deal with people who have these phobias.

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Oct 3, 2014●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

You have to risk something to win something.

I think, if there is something in your life you don't like, change it.

Not always easy, but well worth doing it.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

@ MIn,, I don't think you understood/read my comment properly.

Not sure about my facts but I think there are only 3 or so natural fears one is born with: Height, loud noises and the dark.

These are fears that every baby is born with, IOW natural fears.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

KN, always great to see your happy face. I agree with you, change is not easy for some but essential for a happy life and only you yourself can change it. JMO

Have a great weekend.

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Thats ok Min...

Usha....Thats cos ur not a man..

just for you...

usha123●Colombo, Western Sri Lanka

Oct 3, 2014●41 Blogs●2,277 Comments

Very strange master Luke!!!

You think only men can use

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LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 3, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

You seem to have no fear of being a 'handyman/woman' I am similar, I truly have no fear of drilling. Hope you have a great night but if I dont go right now I'll have a fear instilled in me for sure...

usha123●Colombo, Western Sri Lanka

Oct 3, 2014●41 Blogs●2,277 Comments

Go with Force Master Luke!!!!

Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia

Oct 3, 2014●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments

@ LukeOn - Babies do not fear height.... they did some experiments by placing a clear glass bridge across to tall objects and all the babies old enough to crawl went straight across without any hesitation. That's why babies drown so easily in backyard pools, they just crawl straight in without fear or perception of height.

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Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia

Oct 3, 2014●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments

@ usha - Come on Girl, get with the times, most self-respecting handy people use cordless drills....

... here is a pic of mine:

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usha123●Colombo, Western Sri Lanka

Oct 3, 2014●41 Blogs●2,277 Comments

Mr. Hans, I wouldn't know which goes where why and how!!

just tell me why two???

usha123●Colombo, Western Sri Lanka

Oct 3, 2014●41 Blogs●2,277 Comments

Thanks for the video Luke, took time to load.

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Oct 3, 2014●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Thanks Luke, same to you and Kitty. Enjoy your evening!

Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia

Oct 3, 2014●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments

@ usha - They come in a case as a pair, one is a normal keyless chuck cordless drill and the other one is an impact driver for drilling masonary.... if that means anything to you, Girl....

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Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia

Oct 3, 2014●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments

@ usha - Correction.... Hammer dril, not impact driver...

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usha123●Colombo, Western Sri Lanka

Oct 3, 2014●41 Blogs●2,277 Comments

I know them handy Hans!! I watch all Handyman shows including Handy Manny!!!

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Nidifugous●Yap, Federated States of Micronesia

Oct 3, 2014●197 Comments

There's another kind of fear: That which comes from trauma (physical and/or mental) and that is not so easily conquered, if ever., but I do appreciate the sentiment of your blog :-)

Calypso50●Zurich, Switzerland

Oct 3, 2014●313 Comments

We live with fear, everyday..we just have to learn to push it to the side..and get on with life... The fear of what other people may think of you....having said that..as you get older, fear of certain things, becomes less..we become more confident...

LukeonOP●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Oct 4, 2014●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Hi Nidi, actually this blog was meant for the general mentally stable members of CS. Not for the Profs and Phd's to find fault, but this is my personal opinion. If fear TENDS at times to rules a mentally stable mind then happiness won't be found. I say again, JMO.

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