Are women losing their trump card?
I was just watching a tv show tonight.....Nancy Grace. She was talking about how a Doctor was extorted by a lady on Ashley Madison dot com. For those of you who do not know what this website is all about, it is for married men to hook up with women discretely. However, as the Grace show covered, there was a lady who worked for the sheriff's department that was also a member of that website. She had this hook-up with a doctor and wanted him to pay off her credit card bill of $7000. The doctor's information was suppose to be hidden, but since she was part of the sheriff's office, she was able to find out his personal information.Nancy had the CEO of the website on the phone. The CEO stated, that the website was a supplement for a marriage. It could be used to help hold marriages together. I do not know how much I agree with that. For sure, it does offer discrete sex to men...whatever that may do for a marriage.
But, to the title of my blog. "Are Women Losing their Trump Card?" It is very widely known that as the length of time a marriage extends, it is very common that sex between the couple decreases. I have also heard, women would give their man sex if they did something "nice" for them. Some women in a marriage would use sex as a manipulation tool to get their man to provide some sort of service to them. In essence, a woman's availability for sex is her trump card.
Now, with this new dating site, have women lost their trump card, or are they in the process of losing it?
Anyway....hitting the hay here.
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No wonder, I always lose at poker. I never get that trump card. lol
Have a good night, and again, it'll be interesting to read what others say on this blog subject.
I missed watching the Nancy Grace Show last night!
Hello Usha,
I like how you describe the relationship as a "game." You are correct...this would not really be a healthy relationship for either of the people involved. If one person is getting involved in a relationship and believes they can conquer the other person, not good.
I wonder if that is what man-haters think or feel?
Thanks Usha.
Sorry KN....forgot to......
Nancy Grace, is my favorite News Reporter.
But! I wish that I were able to watch her show last night!....
Some lady you dated last year is looking for you. She called me asking about your whereabouts. I told her, I didn't know where you were. Never even heard of you. lol
She's trying to get you to go on the Maury Povich show. She's claiming that YOU ARE THE FATHER!
Hello Aisha,
I have heard in some cases where it decreases dramatically. So, do you think that this website is doing a good service to marriages?
That is too bad you missed her last night. You should have seen the glare in her eyes.
Well! I want miss the Maury P. Show. When you be on there. To see if you're that lady baby father...
Nancy G. Do not play! She say what's on her mind. And what need to be asked!
She covered this website story for a half hour. It was really an interesting show. Maybe you can find and watch it somewhere on the internet?
:)
you're ignoring my comment about the Maury Povich show and that lady you dated.
OH NO! That's a sure sign, that you may be the guily one.
Good ideal!...
Your head is more then just a hat rack!...
He is acting like! He doesn't even see you....
Put your hands up!...
Yeah! You can even wear a wig on it too!....
And if she call me! I am going to tell her that!
she can find you on cs. And that other site.
It depends.
You might be right with everything you said there. I appreciate your perspective.
Thanks for your perspective.
You bring up some good points. It very well is possible there some people that are not cut out for monogamy.
Also, one can probably assume that these sites are probably not too cheap to visit. So, maybe they better serve the wealthy?
Thank you very much for your input.
Money definitely is a factor in seeking extramarital affairs...have you heard of sugar babies and daddies?...many young women seek older successful men for financial gain and "mentoring"...many have their collage/university paid for and some seek monthly allowances...and the men get to feel "young" again...lol...
Wasn't sugar babies a type of candy at one time?
There is nothing wrong with feeling young again.....or, to never feeling old in the first place.
They were little, soft bite sized caramel candies.
Remember them when I was a kid (wow, eons ago lol.)
All this talk about sugar daddies, sugar mommies and sugar babies...
Is that what the Archies song Sugar Sugar was about?
I seen a show about guys that met their foreign brides over the internet. I only watched like two episodes so I do not know how it turned out for these men in the end. But, from what I seen, one of the couples seemed like they had a rocky start. The other two looked like it was working out.
If you have to pay for your woman over the internet, in my opinion, a guy would have to be pretty desperate....but, to each their own.
I thought there were those candies called sugar babies. Now, in what context was Jac talking about with them? I am assuming they must be the one that receive the benefits from the sugar daddies and they are called sugar babies because they give the daddies a lot of sugar?
Geez, I think I could almost make a tongue twister out of that.
No comment with the Archies.