feminism
I wanted to post a comment on the most recent feminism blog, but I see the comments had been disabled. Let it be known, I will not attack anyone on their personal opinions and perceptions. I don't see a productive furthering the discussion of a serious topic if we are in a sense intimidating others from contributing.The videos the previous blogger posted have very valid points that were being made and I encourage others on checking out what is being said.
The exact anger and frustrations that men may currently feel are the exact same emotions that drove women to take the extreme stances they have today. I feel there is no constructive and mutually beneficial way in becoming more understanding of each other if we are going to perpetuate these negative behaviors.
But...that is just my thoughts...
Anyway, the comment I wanted to make on his blog was:
Last night, a buddy and I went out. We were both standing by the bar and a woman and her friend came up to the bar next to my buddy. From what I think I know about women, now days, a lot of women need to give you the green light to approach them. (maybe I was informed wrongly). But, my buddy is more the traditional guy. He just went ahead and tried to talk to them. Boy, did he get an ear full. *&%^ off, why you talking to me you #%$#...the lady started screaming at him.
Just today, I seen two younger women broke down with their car. Granted I seen that while I was driving by the parking lot...they seemed to be confused/perhaps stuck on what to do.
I just wonder if they were maybe not waiting for a man to show up to help them?
My thought was...after these relatively two current situations that I personally witnessed....Is it that men are only good to women when they are needed? I hear it a lot, I only want a man around when I want them around....some women say.
Not to mention...I am sure some of you were waiting for my input.
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Ready! I gather from your comments, especially at the end of the last one, the lack of the family structure and the spirituality is a driving force with the way things are today. Not to mention, the high amount of drug usage. I totally agree with all that. It is almost like the whole "glue" structure that held us together is now being removed.
Now I am a bit confused with your statement about women once feeling safe. Are you saying that in the past they felt safe, whereas today they don't? If that is what you are saying, what do you think was the driving force behind them leaving these "safe" places? Would you say the message that media has given them convinced them to leave that area? Are you saying that women can be somewhat persuaded to see things from perhaps a false angle?
You know, the lady in the videos pointed out that a man and woman's brains are different. The women in the crowd she was speaking to did not especially like that statement. But from what I have heard, a man has more of a logical deductive manner when making decisions, where women use more of a emotional structure. I am not saying one way is better than the other, but there seems to be a difference between a man and woman's brain.
Anyway, maybe you could clarify the confusion I am having.
The great " equalizer".
is safe and sensible.I value myself and ideals,anyone else that needs a group,movement has
time for it-I don't.Traditional,family first.yes,I'm single by choice.
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