Yet another gender blog
I, as well of all of you, have noticed the amount of blogs of late about gender differences/gender-blaming, gender-bashing and even some gender-loving.No, I lie, there is no blog about gender-loving.
Now, it is easy to dismiss the more stringent threads which appear to be anti the other sex, these may look like the work of bitter and twisted individuals of both genders.
However, even if the language used is not conducive to most moderates joining in, the simple existence of blogs about these subjects shows that there is a concern out there from at least the minority of men about women (that is what I am going to focus on for this blog)
The main topics…feminism and menopause.
Yes both exist. We are all in agreement about that.
However, the definitions and experience of people regarding these topics seems to vary considerably, from non-existent to off the wall.
Yes, extremes of everything exists. Extremism exists in religion; politics; cleanliness; animal rights; cultures and yes, feminism and menopause.
But should anything be defined by its extreme elements? Most extremists frighten even the moderates of any belief. Moderate Muslims are in as much danger from ISIS as Christians, possibly more, and moderate feminists are probably hated more by extremists than men are.
As seen on Crazy’s blog, menopause isn’t the end of the world for most women. Indeed many see it as a new beginning. And it passes by others without as much as a wave. An extreme menopause is going to affect the woman terribly, and to a lesser extent the man in her life, but extremes are in the minority.
Most people who believe in equality of the sexes are not man-haters, they just believe in equality.
Personally, I believe that in many aspects of life in the West, women do have equality, but it has still to be fought for in other cultures.
And men’s rights also need to be fought for in terms of access/custody of their children; single father’s rights, etc. That is what equality is about, it has to be equal for all.
We are all in this together, we have to either work together for the greater good, or be divided and conquered
All thoughts welcome.
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I did not want to get involved in any of the antagonistic blogs.
This blog is for anybody who wants to voice their opinions/fears in a moderate way, including those of other blogs
I love men, and love the differences and contrast they bring.
Life would be boring If there were just one gender in the world
Been busy hunting for this cupcake
I got hungry........
Pure bread cat...hmmm
It was so beautiful..
Yes, Molly, he was actually quite a mouthful....
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This blog of yours has inspired my next blog.