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I'm familiar with parental alienation, but I guess you would call this alienated children......where are we going as a family as a society??

A Judge Sent 3 Kids To Juvenile Detention For Reportedly Skipping Lunch With Their Dad

There is no such thing as “equality” between a man and a woman. We can only be truly happy in a relationship if we understand and accept our imperfections and roles in a relationship.

Men are always the protector, the provider, the tougher and stronger one. Men do harder work that women can’t physically achieve. Men pick up the gun , keep his wife and kids safe in the room before opening the door and face the dangers outside. Men make and take the hard the decisions that women will have hard time deciding. Men can take emotional and physical pain to keep going than most women ever could. Men will man up and do everything to keep his woman, children and family safe. With some exception, men have the balls.

Women are there to support the men who protect them . Women’s emotional, mental, social and spiritual supports keep their men going…motivate them to do better and be better men for women, better father for their children. Women may not be physically as tough as the men but we women have plenty softness and gentleness that could melt our man’s heart and make a better man out of him. Though many women tried to replace a man’s place by wearing a “strap on”…balls will always be for the men.

We shout for “equality”…women go out to work and try to succeed more than other men ever could…resulting in broken family, neglected children, divorces. We can work and provide for our children too but how far will we go to prove that we are “equal” to the men?

This is my personal opinion and does not apply to “men” who aren’t man enough nor “women” who are too tough and strong to be a woman.

Been busy these days, so tired of being strong…I need a man!


Miss the fun banters here...hope you all having a nice day/night there

Now who said long distance relationships does not work? I lost my heart to somebody in another country on the other side of the world and I will still have to wait another six weeks before seeing her. Why is Oz so bloody far from here?

It grieves me to think that she will only be here in SA for 4 weeks before returning to Australia. She is still very attached to her mother and I will have to work on that. I don’t know why she wants to drag her mother along on the trip. Mind you, I would like to see her mother as well… as long as she does not interfere too much when we want to spend time together.

The latest photos from Aussie Land have me pacing up and down in my room and at times, I want to crawl up the wall from pure frustration. All I ever think of is she. Can a man of my age be so in love?

I try to control the feeling and think of other things but time after time I catch myself thinking of her again. It is a good thing photos don’t wear out when you look at them for too long because all I do all day is to stare at her pics.

And the uncertainty is driving me mad. What if she does not like me when she sees me for first time? Will she like me as much as I like her?

I guess only time will tell and I will count the days until I finally can get to meet the new love in my life.


Now have a wonderful day and don’t go falling in love with strangers.

I posted a Love is thread in the Forums, as the thread went on, I made a post that I feel all could benefit from...I have been here off and on since 2009, and have never one time posted a Blog, But I felt Inspired to make this one post over here in the Blogs...

So this post was copied and pasted from the Forums..

Love is avoiding anyone who brings you down, But not someone who uplifts your Spirit..

Right now as this Coronavirus has effects on the Whole World, I cannot think of a better time for us all to be showing Love, and Compassion towards our Fellow Brothers, and Sisters all over the World, Just because You/ We, live in another Country, or Continent, We are Still all Human, We are all Created Equally, we all need Love, and Compassion...whether red, yellow, black or white, we are all Human, We all have a heart and Soul....we all have to eat, drink and sleep....Just Because I live in America, Our Forefathers only moved here from Germany, Spain, Sweden, England and numerous other Countries....Because of a new discovery of America...and most moved to avoid Wars within those Countries...Some way or another, we are all related, we need to become one, NUMEROUS People are Stressed by Numerous Situations. All the fighting, bickering is not accomplishing anything but more stress.. That is NOT Love...Their are Numerous Songs that Describe this situation...

Change has to start somewhere People, It may as well be right here...If you have any Songs that describe Coming together, Please feel free to play them...any comments, or suggestions that bring Love, and Positivity, Please Post... teddybear

Many times when we hear a song, we even sing along, but do we actually ABSORB that song? The Deep Meaning of it, take those words to heart, and Grow from them? Afterall, they are sending a Message... but so few put them into action...bouquet

Please Watch and absorb this Video....(Over 37 Million Views)

Not many pictures as of now to post. Exhausted. Relieved. One down, three more to go.

Three sisters and a friend. The bride and her maids.
Hindu bride in her first saree.


Hair.


Second saree presented by the groom along with a gold necklace called Thali. The red dot on her forehead and the necklace are the symbols of a married woman.


I didn't know what was happening and what anything meant. I just did what I was asked to do. It was a brand new experience with another religion.

I asked my other daughters not to marry a Hindu nor go with any rituals. I can not handle those. One was more than enough.

But never say never. I am a mother. I will do anything for them if that is what they want.


Giving away the bride.

...flew back to he UK on Thursday to see his friends for 2 weeks..and a new GF he met last time we were back.

So I sent him off on his way, worried he will lose his wallet..passport you name it. Its the first time he's flown anywhere on his own. So was worried sick..he landed in the UK at 6:30 am and his mate, a farmer picked him up in his landcover.

So all was good, I have now fumigated his bedroom as it stunk..Now on Thursday night I went out with my GF and her mate Lyn. They both came back to the house and her friend stayed in Louis's room.

In the morning I asked if Lyn slept well, she said not really, there was a woman who slept next to me..WTF..what did she look like...old..blonde hair..Immediatley I thought of my mum..so I showed her a photo..yes thats her...

What should I take from this ?

Funny Children

Just heard a few days ago that Hungary is encouraging young Hungarian families to have more kids (due to population decline) and with that comes some benefits for the mother as well. Benefits include a $36,000 loan which is cancelled after a certain period of time etc. I think after the fourth baby is born the remainder debt is cancelled....
I truly don't know if this is true but would like to find out if anyone on CS might confirm this

many saying said about life that life is not always fair, life is about choice, life is not an easy thing to live. especially when we have to make a choice, make a decision between 2 or 3 important things in life. for our future. whether you will be happy or sad, whether you will be succeed or lose.

making a decision is not as easy as talking... not as easy as give advice or suggestion when friend comes to us with dilemma and have to make a choice. for me this is just about a courage to make a decision. i can say this bcos many times i was in this situation in my job. why a manager get well paid? bcoz they bear a big responsible for any decision they made....

but in daily life, some people keep considering what the best to do between 2 choices if they have to choose only 1. spend a lot of time and put themselves even deeper in confusion. this situation will not good for them, can be affecting their healthy and mood. but some people can make a decision and make a choice pretty fast as they know what they want and they know what the best for them.
So, why people prefer to stay in confusing and still cant make a decision which one they will choose? it can be many reason. in this matter, I cant say about encouragement bcoz it is not about yes or not, right or wrong, but according to me it would be more about what the next will happen if they choose this or that.

when a friend come to me to share and say that they are confuse as they are forced to make a choice.. I maybe will advise them to make a list of plus and minus between 2 choices, so they will know what is the best between 2.

but how if the case about love ? about feeling ? do you think by making "plus and minus list" will be helpful?
for example : if I were one of the choices, if I love him..I might leave him for his happiness. I will not let him make "plus and minus list" as it would not be fair for both of us.

what is your opinion? what do you think?

hope you dont have to make any choice in your life... as you know what the best for you.

The sexiest and hunkiest man for me has turned 52 years old today.

I have so many good wishes for him...good health and happiness among others.

He's in Scotland at the moment, spending his birthday with his very lovely mother . Woke me up with a nice phone call yesterday and sent me lots of beautiful photos. The most special one is a very nice photo of his mother he took when they had lunch earlier. She looks very young for her age, 89 years old...in a year or two he will surely look older than her, unlike him she doesn't have any grey hairs

For my jerk, Love each day!