What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here! ( Archived) (88)

Feb 13, 2018 4:31 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
annaroach: Mine would be,, don't be over familiar with people,
Be kind to newcomers,, we all like to be welcomed.
Members are innocent until proven guilty.
We are all the same on here, nobody is above the others, even if we are on here for what seems
like 100 years.

Have you any good advice to offer ?


Always remember this is an open forum to the entire univers. What you say on CS is set in Internet stone forever. professor


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Feb 13, 2018 4:32 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I would suggest, Villans who sends a PM telling new comers to stay away from some particular member(s) - they should be the one to stay away from because they must be very sick to do such thing.


I agree.thumbs up wave
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Feb 13, 2018 4:33 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
galrads: Always remember this is an open forum to the entire univers. What you say on CS is set in Internet stone forever.


Oooppss dunno blues
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Feb 13, 2018 4:33 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
galrads: Always remember this is an open forum to the entire univers. What you say on CS is set in Internet stone forever.



Very good advice thumbs up wave
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Feb 13, 2018 4:37 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
_Maya_
_Maya__Maya_Atlanta, Georgia USA8 Posts
One2note: I disagree!
I've talked to some amazing people , I probably wouldn't have spoken to otherwise.
Ok, there are some bad eggs & we've all been sucked in , somewhere along the line, but the majority of bloggers are real & genuine. Maybe you should learn to adapt more to other cultures.
The whole point of the forums is to have fun.


I agree. I also feel much better on blogs. smile The atmosphere is different and many people seem genuine. smile

If I decide to return - it will be for blogs only - no more forums for me. wine

I don't want to adapt to everything. smile

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Feb 13, 2018 4:39 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
galrads: Always remember this is an open forum to the entire univers. What you say on CS is set in Internet stone forever.

Not if the mods do a bit of hoovering
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Feb 13, 2018 4:40 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
_Maya_
_Maya__Maya_Atlanta, Georgia USA8 Posts
galrads: Always remember this is an open forum to the entire univers. What you say on CS is set in Internet stone forever.


That is so true!

I found some old DVD's with old data, passwords, e-mails, etc. and - found my previous nicknames on CS as well - those I used 8 years ago! I searched them in Google and - found my old posts from 2010 on CS! wow laugh
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Feb 13, 2018 4:42 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
_Maya_: I agree. I also feel much better on blogs. The atmosphere is different and many people seem genuine.

If I decide to return - it will be for blogs only - no more forums for me.

I don't want to adapt to everything.


You misunderstand!
Bloggers also means forums.. bloggers is a term we use for posters!
Ps, if you're gonna go to the blogs, can you take snooks with you.cheers
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Feb 13, 2018 4:48 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Miwagi
MiwagiMiwagiFlyover, Kentucky USA47 Threads 2 Polls 1,753 Posts
annaroach: Mine would be,, don't be over familiar with people,
Be kind to newcomers,, we all like to be welcomed.
Members are innocent until proven guilty.
We are all the same on here, nobody is above the others, even if we are on here for what seems
like 100 years.

Have you any good advice to offer ?

Don't come here expecting to get your money's worth.
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Feb 13, 2018 4:50 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Miwagi: Don't come here expecting to get your money's worth.



Money shouldn't exchange hands on here!!professor scold
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Feb 13, 2018 4:52 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Harbal: Hi, rainbow.
Hi.
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Feb 13, 2018 5:13 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
To be mindful....
Oversharing as a trend is in its element; so many people are insisting that everyone must know everything about our wonderful us. Oversharing they believe is so haute couture

High levels of narcissism are rewarded in one’s head. We believe that everyone is so interested in us and our opinions and fake lifestyle. The self-conscious are looking at the beautiful lives that their peers choose to display without filters. This can leave them feeling inadequate and like they don’t quite measure up.

Rather than creating a community of like-minded people it further pits us against one another to be king of the Castle. It is a competition about who has the best opinions, the best ideas, the best values, the most likes or even the best life. However, what is on display is very little genuine insight. Instead it is fanciful thoughts invented by the owner to upset the unsuspecting and measured in views and engagements: to demean the unsuspecting. We are so busy inventing our own fake lives online; an avatar of the person that we wish we were, rather than who we are, in reality, and not having to venture from no further than ours living-rooms to do so. Perhaps, we even start to believe it about ourselves; we are being sucked in unconsciously.

It is a symptom of communities offline being unable to challenge the out of control juggernaut that is social media coupled with the remarkable rise in narcissism. If this narcissistic sharing overload is ever done with, perhaps we will all stop needing the constant validation of others.
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Feb 13, 2018 5:17 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MsContessa: To be mindful....
Oversharing as a trend is in its element; so many people are insisting that everyone must know everything about our wonderful us. Oversharing they believe is so haute couture

High levels of narcissism are rewarded in one’s head. We believe that everyone is so interested in us and our opinions and fake lifestyle. The self-conscious are looking at the beautiful lives that their peers choose to display without filters. This can leave them feeling inadequate and like they don’t quite measure up.

Rather than creating a community of like-minded people it further pits us against one another to be king of the Castle. It is a competition about who has the best opinions, the best ideas, the best values, the most likes or even the best life. However, what is on display is very little genuine insight. Instead it is fanciful thoughts invented by the owner to upset the unsuspecting and measured in views and engagements: to demean the unsuspecting. We are so busy inventing our own fake lives online; an avatar of the person that we wish we were, rather than who we are, in reality, and not having to venture from no further than ours living-rooms to do so. Perhaps, we even start to believe it about ourselves; we are being sucked in unconsciously.

It is a symptom of communities offline being unable to challenge the out of control juggernaut that is social media coupled with the remarkable rise in narcissism. If this narcissistic sharing overload is ever done with, perhaps we will all stop needing the constant validation of others.


I blame my parents for 99% of my problems!
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Feb 13, 2018 5:20 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
One2note: I blame my parents for 99% of my problems!


What about the 1%confused
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Feb 13, 2018 5:29 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MsContessa: What about the 1%


Circumstances & stuff !
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Feb 13, 2018 5:35 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
don't forget to use you caps/locklaugh
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Feb 13, 2018 5:37 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
LeeCharming: don't forget to use you caps/lock


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Feb 13, 2018 7:10 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Bearwoman: I agree.
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I am dwelling over thoughts of Christian writer Mary E. DeMuth who said; "Our task shouldn't be punishing the villains in our lives, but enlarging the God who heals us from all wounds." - As much I admire this Noble and Divine healing thought and offten giving people the benefit of the doubt, yet thought I am not a villain, that doesn't make me immune to villainy - when I have no where to run to from villains scorpion sting and I am sorry that I am not that good christian and that when I see determinated, commited snakes in persistence to bite in giving constant venom, I am only a human, which surviving instict say; "Hit snake back in the head by stone" and later think of christian Noble thoughts lol.

Holly Villain or wholly Angel doesn't exist. Nobody is all good or all bad but I believe that determined Villains who wish to give a hell to people who they don't like, those Villains will only stay villains until someone stopped them.....then that moment there's a chance for Villain to rethink and realized that they're so far over the line that they can't remember where it was the line...and that may be the point for Villain to make different choices....to drain venoum in smaller dosage.
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As much I agree with Anna that not every given poison bite deserves to be dignified with respond, I would suggest that standing up to bullies is neccessery and requers brave heart, that not all sensitive people can handle to feel it's worth dealing with it....and as much I am sensitive myself, I think this bullies in a way helps me to be stronger.laugh Cheers.cheers
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Feb 13, 2018 7:26 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I am dwelling over thoughts of Christian writer Mary E. DeMuth who said; "Our task shouldn't be punishing the villains in our lives, but enlarging the God who heals us from all wounds." - As much I admire this Noble and Divine healing thought and offten giving people the benefit of the doubt, yet thought I am not a villain, that doesn't make me immune to villainy - when I have no where to run to from villains scorpion sting and I am sorry that I am not that good christian and that when I see determinated, commited snakes in persistence to bite in giving constant venom, I am only a human, which surviving instict say; "Hit snake back in the head by stone" and later think of christian Noble thoughts lol.

Wholly Villain or wholly Angel doesn't exist. Nobody is all good or all bad but I believe that determined Villains who wish to give a hell to people who they don't like, those Villains will only stay villains until someone stopped them.....then that moment there's a chance for Villain to rethink and realized that they're so far over the line that they can't remember where it was the line...and that may be the point for Villain to make different choices....to drain venoum in smaller dosage.

As much I agree with Anna that not every given poison bite deserves to be dignified with respond, I would suggest that standing up to bullies is neccessery and requers brave heart, that not all sensitive people can handle to feel it's worth dealing with it....and as much I am sensitive myself, I think this bullies in a way helps me to be stronger. Cheers.
Ive corrected 1 word of mistake.uh oh laugh
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Feb 14, 2018 12:40 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Bearwoman: If you should ever get a pm from someone telling you to stay away from any particular member(s) I wouldn't let on that you received that particular message.I would just delete that message.



I've seen this comment on here before


How pathetic that so-called adults resort to this doh
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