do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me? ( Archived) (30)

Sep 21, 2018 8:52 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
so i havent seen this girl in a long time & i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes her bf pick up the food for the both of them there.
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Sep 21, 2018 8:58 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
It probably has nothing to do with you....we often think things are about us when they aren't....maybe they just like takeout and its more convenient for him to pick it up.....dunno
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Sep 21, 2018 9:04 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
M4_Mischief: It probably has nothing to do with you....we often think things are about us when they aren't....maybe they just like takeout and its more convenient for him to pick it up.....
I agree M4thumbs up
Maybe the guy is just being a gentleman to get their foodsdunno cheers
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Sep 21, 2018 9:33 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
M4_Mischief: It probably has nothing to do with you....we often think things are about us when they aren't....maybe they just like takeout and its more convenient for him to pick it up.....
yeah true but idk alll of this happend last year so idk why i still think about this lol. but idk this also happend last year when i went out with my friends to the mall. and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf. so i guess she saw me there and was talking about me to her bf because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i guess she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school lol.
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Sep 21, 2018 10:06 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
ysabeljhen: I agree M4
Maybe the guy is just being a gentleman to get their foods
yeah true but idk alll of this happend last year so idk why i still think about this lol. but idk this also happend last year when i went out with my friends to the mall. and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf. so i guess she saw me there and was talking about me to her bf because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i guess she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school lol.
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Sep 21, 2018 10:11 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
If you repeat your stories all the time like that...I don't blame her......giggle
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Sep 21, 2018 10:17 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
I'm guessing you are young so maybe you need to realise sometimes life is cruel, give up thinking about the girl and find someone else or take up a hobby that will help divert your attention.
Unrequited love is the most painful love of all, most people experience it, most people find someone even better.
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Sep 21, 2018 10:24 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
Kaylana04
Kaylana04Kaylana04Kekava, Riga Latvia16 Threads 635 Posts
Good advice, Riz.
High school, for most of us here, was a couple (or more) decades ago. He’s barely tasted what life has to offer.
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Sep 22, 2018 3:28 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
Alexander9876: so i havent seen this girl in a long time & i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes her bf pick up the food for the both of them there.
I think she loves you and the BF knows this and he's stopping her from seeing you , you should follow him .grin
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Sep 22, 2018 3:36 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
epirb: I think she loves you and the BF knows this and he's stopping her from seeing you , you should follow him .
rolling on the floor laughing He doesn't mean it @Alexander9876
.. but he sure is funny.

Take @rizlarad advice
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Sep 22, 2018 3:41 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
rizlared: I'm guessing you are young so maybe you need to realise sometimes life is cruel, give up thinking about the girl and find someone else or take up a hobby that will help divert your attention.
Unrequited love is the most painful love of all, most people experience it, most people find someone even better.
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Sep 22, 2018 4:01 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
rizlared: I'm guessing you are young so maybe you need to realise sometimes life is cruel, give up thinking about the girl and find someone else or take up a hobby that will help divert your attention.
Unrequited love is the most painful love of all, most people experience it, most people find someone even better.


Great advice, and caring too, well done you !

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Sep 22, 2018 4:04 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
annaroach: Great advice, and caring too, well done you !
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Sep 22, 2018 4:07 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Alexander9876: so i havent seen this girl in a long time & i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes her bf pick up the food for the both of them there.
I think you should set your eyes on a girl that is not attached. help
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Sep 22, 2018 4:39 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Alexander9876: so i havent seen this girl in a long time & i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes her bf pick up the food for the both of them there.
Ignorance is bliss my friend. Even if it were true that she is deliberately avoiding you what’s the point of torturing yourself with the truth?

If you ever want to get anywhere with a woman you just understand the value of fiction and blissful ignorance. Factuality is an enemy. You’ve seen how Trump appeals to his fans through charisma and believing what you want to believe, well women work the same way through this process of self-deceit, entertaining and empowering lies that will never be true as such but score you a result just the same.
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Sep 22, 2018 4:42 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
MsContessa: I think you should set your eyes on a girl that is not attached.
More good advice thumbs up
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Sep 22, 2018 5:34 AM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Might not be her boyfriend..If you don't know how would I know?
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Sep 22, 2018 3:05 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,761 Posts
Alexander9876: so i havent seen this girl in a long time & i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her looking over at the front counter when i went out to the lobby and saw her though i stood there looked at her from afar but i looked away and went back to work.but now i keep seeing her boyfriend picking up food for the both of them at the place i work at soo i guess she doesnt wanna see me so she makes her bf pick up the food for the both of them there.


Why are you still staring? Maybe you’re scaring her by doing that
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Sep 22, 2018 4:18 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
Packersbabe1: Why are you still staring? Maybe you’re scaring her by doing that
i guess she doesnt wanna see me anymore so thats why i keep seeing her bf picking up food for the both of them. but idk why i still think about this because all of this happend last year lol. but this also happend last year too when i went out with my friends to the mall and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf so i guess she saw me there and was talking about me to her because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i guess she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school.
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Sep 22, 2018 4:19 PM CST do you guys think she doesnt wanna see me?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Alexander9876: i guess she doesnt wanna see me anymore so thats why i keep seeing her bf picking up food for the both of them. but idk why i still think about this because all of this happend last year lol. but this also happend last year too when i went out with my friends to the mall and i guess she was also there shopping with her bf so i guess she saw me there and was talking about me to her because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then he looked away. i guess she told him theres that guy who kept on staring at me back in high school.
It looks like all the staring is the problem here.
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