After going through a divorce I would absolutely be careful about financial responsibilities in a new relationship, perhaps to the point of a prenuptial agreement,
The behaviour issues are just weird.
He sounds very secretive and I would wonder if he is committed financially and or with parental responsibilities to another relationship. At the least it sounds like he is playing "house" in multiple relationships.
I don't blame you in how you feel. I also was wondering the same things about that guy you have expressed here.
playing games, are sincere and true to the person you are seeing, Loyal, Faithful, Respectful, the list can go on.
In general, if you want to be seen as "Relationship/Husband" material you would act through out the dating exclusively portion the way you would expect to if you married the person.
Absolutely. If he can't stay with you when you are in the ER, how will he stay with you later? I'm sorry you went through this. I think, though as hard as it is you are better finding how he is now rather than later. I think there are many honest men on the site, it is just a matter of finding them when they seem so outnumbered it can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. Please don't give up. Hang in there you will find that special guy. :comfort:
BTW I know he says he's 20. BUT his one pic says he's 14. Looks like he's still 14. Only kids brag like that. Eventually he will meet a really nice girl, then be puzzled why she doesn't "DIG" him. :rolleyes:
Sometimes when dealing with someone whom is trying to get me to say more on a subject that has been exhausted, I will say that b/c there is NOTHING more to say on the subject.
This has often happened when someone was looking for me to agree with him when I did not or could not. Other times it was where someone wanted me to say more than I felt qualified to say.
I'm @ the library and they are getting ready to close, there is phone line problems so many of us loose our internet. Please all of you keep sending in your stories. They are helping.
Thank-you. I'm sorry for your loss of your dogs. I do know that sometimes when animals live together like that for years, the other does pine away. It is sad b/c you try to help them and sometimes they just won't let you. I had two rabbits about ten yrs ago. Silkie and SoftieLinig-Ling. Silkie was actually a baby abandoned by a former roommate. He was raised by Luckie. She spent hours with him laying between her paws while she groomed him. When he was about 7yrs old another friend gave me SoftieLing-Ling,(yes it was an asian friend). She was 6 mos old. They were together for 8 yrs. When Silkie died, Ling pined and refused to eat she only lived ~ 3mos past him.
Ah, yes those male cats can get airs. Pj and Zebulun do the same @ my house. Rivkah and Miriam keep those boys in line though. I'm almost positive Miri threatens them with relocation from how she looks when she is pinning their ears back. Lol.
Thank-you, she was one of a kind. I'm sorry yours had colon cancer and kidney fauilure. Two of them with colon cancer, that is odd. Were they the same breed? I'm sorry you had to put any of them down. My Rivkah, a 6 y/o cat had complete kidney failure when she was one. Fortunately, the Vet was able to pull her through and I am grateful to this day.
I'm so sorry Ship. 3 is so young. This is not your Sammy is he? Is it the one you have not feeling well caption on? It is hard to put them down. Faithie was quite active right up to the end. As long as she was able to function, eat and enjoy herself, I put off the euthanasia and I'm glad I did she lived so long and enjoyed almost every minute of it. She was always right there 2@ the door on curled up next to me on the bed with the cats. But I do know how difficult it is to put them down. I'm so sorry you had to put down a 3y/o.
Hi everybody. I was just curious about this topic. My oldest Furbaby, Faith Marie, passed this morning around 2:AM. She would have been 21 yrs old on 14 November. Faithie was the best dog other than her adopted Mom, Luckie AnneMarie, that I ever had. Luckie was 16 when she died. Both were mixed breeds. Faithie was a White German Shepherd/Yellow Lab/Springer Spaniel mix. Luckie was a Belgian Shepherd/Doberman/Malamute and Husky mix.
I was expecting her to be passing. . . and now that it has happened, it still hurts more than I expected. She was not supposed to live much longer when she was 13 her body was riddled with tumors. The vet said to expect her to be gone before by the time she was 15. So I know, I was Blessed to have her way longer than she was supposed to be here.
I want to invite everybody to share their favorite Furbabies here, both the ones who have gone to be Angels in the Great Beyond, and the ones still traveling the Journey with us now.
It will be perfect when I finish school and finally have that Diploma in my grubby little hands after walking across the stage.Then, I want to teach on the University Level. :sig:
I guess I'll be poor all my life. Oh,well gotta do what I love.
try reading some other technical reviews, magazines and stuff like that. Often the higher end companies are let in on new developments or to test possible future releases long before the general public is told what is actually going to happen.
You got that right and they even have all the data for selling patches to correct the 'undetected problems' before manufacture. They knew. They also knew how to patch it before manufacture, but they know we'll take their word that they didn't know and shell out more money for the patch so we can keep up with every body else. Some times it really makes me sick.
If he is right, Then yes. I would have to meet many times first though, and think it through very carefully. We would also have to have many 'What if discussions" to make sure we were on the same page and were completely compatible. Even then, you never really know, So just be careful, Pray, Think before acting.
RE: To my true friends!