But mainly I am tempted by knowledge of getting caught, tempted by how something makes me feel, tempted because I know I can get away with something..then there's being tempted by other things.
All kinds of things can lead one into temptation...that's why its good to have some self control! LOL
I personally would love to be married again but only if I can find someone worth marrying. Getting married for the sake of being married just sets yourself up for disaster.
I also believe that I can be just as happy with someone without being married. Just kind of feel that if it happens great but if I spend my life with someone happy but never married than that is just as great too!
That's my point and now someone on the other thread in question has stated that it will probably get locked. Fine, but why lock it when nobody has made any threats and there are no members named on that one. I've never been so irritated at another member before, it's just all types of wrong.
Well one could say that you are accurate in your estimation..only to an extent though B...just crusading against trifiling women on here...just think it's very wrong......so I'm taking up the cause so to speak! LOL
I'd tell him I wouldn't think about it. Just tell someone geesh..no biggie..xyzpdq......which translates to x-amine your zipper pretty darn quick!LOL..something I remember from middle school but fitting I believe.
When other CS members get into the high school mentality of he said/she said BS! We are all adults here, albeit, most of us like to think we are and associate with the title. However, it is very malicious to intentionally spread around gossip in the forums, even if it is veiled lightly and nobody uses direct names. If someone writes you an email, it's not supposed to be viewed by the entire forums. If someone is emailing you private things and opinions...don't post it out there as fodder and folly for any and all to read. Keep the personal information private and air your dirty laundry in the sanctity of your PRIVATE emails. It's embarrassing for the member in question, it's in bad taste especially when the member isn't around to launch a post in self-defense. Knowing right from wrong is common sense and if people would think before they act then maybe they would realize that some forms of behavior are unacceptable by someone claiming themselves to be an adult. An adult is not going to bring their own personal issues into a forum where everyone will see it, hope to embarrass someone outright and deliberately doing it to provoke a reaction from another member. This is a public forum and it's free to those members who want to discuss varying topics of any appropriate nature..but last time I checked under the topics drop down menu there wasn't a subject entitled "Ax to Grind". There is a time and a place for everything and there is something to be said for discretion and self-control. That's all I have to say.
I meant just exactly what I said, what part can you not understand. Distance is but a number when you love someone, you can overcome the distance it happens all the time people move, relocate to be with the person they love. I never said that saying I love you didn't mean everything will be OK, did I? Nope sure didn't so please do NOT put words into my mouth. I think if you reread the newest post I just made you will have a better understanding of what you are confused about now. This is my opinion and you have yours..you may not agree and I respect that,
and this portion of your post
but before you start having those fussy felling please thing about the sacrifices that have to be made.
I have no clue as to what you meant there? explain please? Thank you.
Mini, I understand what you mean in your post and for some LDR's don't work. You are right it does take a level of commitment and an unwavering trust between both parties.
As far as the being alone part, anyone can be alone even in a room crowded full of people. I had to learn to occupy my mind and keep myself busy so as not to be bored, for me from boredom springs a sense of lonliness. As far as arguing with the other person, well sometimes even when that person is right there with you "kissing and making up" doesn't always happen readily either.
It does take a lot of hard decisions and for the person who endeavors to be in a LDR, it takes commitment, trust, honesty and total understanding and devotion from both people. But, these things are what is required to make any relationship work.
For some distance doesn't pose an issue, for some it does. But, you know what they say "nothing worthwhile is ever easy", there is some truth to that. What works for some may not be kosher for all.
I always heard it was "don't hate the player, hate the game"...got no time for players or games...except maybe a good round of strip poker! LOL Now there's a really fun game! LOL, think I need to call it a night but probably won't.
That is because when you find someone to love, it shouldn't matter where in the world they happen to be. You can find love right outside your own front door, but if it so happens that the person you care about isn't right there next to you, you can find ways to overcome the distance and obstacles.
"And ever has it been that love knows not its own depths, until the hour of seperation" Kahlil Gibran
sometimes when the only thing that seperates you is miles just becomes a mere number, love is where your heart is...it can be as close as a fingertips distance or as far as the sun, but loving in your heart will bring the two together.
I was reading an article and it made me want to pose this question to all you gals and guys out there..
The article was about "first impressions"..we are all taught at a very early age that first impressions are very important. Whether it be the first day of school, meeting new people or that BIG job interview, we all want to leave the other person with a good, if not excellent, first impression.
Mistakes will happen and we don't always wind up making the best impression we had hoped for.
What are some examples of "bad" first impressions that you have experienced and were you able to turn the situation around, if so, how did you do it? Were you the one making a bad impression? Or, turn the tables and say someone has made a bad impression on you.
I checked one of his threads Dusty and while he is no longer active, his location says he is in Texas, maybe that has something to do with it? Just wondering myself.
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RE: What Temps you ?
What tempts me?? Lots of things..But mainly I am tempted by knowledge of getting caught, tempted by how something makes me feel, tempted because I know I can get away with something..then there's being tempted by other things.
All kinds of things can lead one into temptation...that's why its good to have some self control! LOL