If my ex were at my door, first off I wouldn't answer..but if he persistred I would open the door long enough to spit in his face and give him a kick to his twig and berries....I don't like him! That's why he's my EX!
I don't know your father so I can't really give you an answer.
However, if your father is upset you stayed out all night long with this man, then I don't forsee him extending your friend a dinner invitation.
I guess it would depend on how long you have been seeing this man?
Since you do live under his financial pursestrings by residing on his property, maybe it's time you seriously thought about getting your own place.
Your profile seems to say that you certainly make enough money in healthcare to support and sustain yourself financially, so maybe it's time to start packing your bags.
If your father has a problem with this man without providing any bonafide reason, then he may not have a problem with just one man, it may be all men in general.
Does your father seem to think that no man is good enough for you?
I am sure that your father feels that he is being protective and doesn't want to see you get hurt. But in the same token while you want to respect his wishes and feelings in this matter, there comes a time when the parental line must be drawn so that your father knows that while you love him and you will always be his daughter, you are also a woman now and entitled to live your own life and make your own mistakes.
As far as dinner maybe down the road if this relationship with your military man develops into something solid and strong, maybe then it would be a better idea to try and get him and your father together and using their love for you as the common ground to meet on. This is my best advice to you, I wish you much luck!
Do you live under his roof? Does he pay your bills?
How old are you again?
I would politely and respectfully tell my own father only things he absolutely needed to know. You are after all a grown woman and what you do with YOUR private time is your business.
As long as you aren't living in his home, he isn't paying your bills or supporting you then it's your life and your choices.
You only have to tell him what you want him to know, any other information that causes you and he to fight is your own fault because you know it upsets him and you just do it to cause friction.
Keep your mouth shut and enjoy your own life for a change, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
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You find what it is YOU are looking for honey! There are plenty of genteel, kind, soft-spirited women out there, for just as many ball-busting-in-your-face women out there. You need to look deeper and don't settle for less than what you really want. Why would you start any relationship with a woman who would degrade you? That's my main question.
Well people like him do two things: 1.) Piss me off! 2.) Scare me!
He's probably living in some trailer somewhere with more satellite and computer equipment than NASA, eating cold spaghettios straight from the can, and a few cars up on blocks out in his front yard....there is nothing scarier to me than someone with a grudge like he has and computer technology! Instead of killing illegal immigrants on sight...someone should pull the plug to his internet connection!
He is just very backward and close minded and when he get's flack for his so-called viewpoint (which I deem as a message of hate and rage...why else speak of killing)...he runs off scampering like a little beaten dog!
He launches an attack and then whines when people attack back! He's like the thief that is NOT sorry he stole..just damn sorry he got caught!
The other side of your family won't talk to you because of "freedom of speech"..come on...they just got sick of hearing your drivel and insanity so they skipped town w/o leaving a forwarding address!
Your ancestry or lineage to be more precise could land you right back on a boat to where hate mongers like you belong, but I'm quite sure if the Welsh or Irish knew you were coming then they'd try their damnest to move the entire country so you couldn't find it. Your daughters are German hey??? Sounds like your family is just as much ethnically mixed as the FIRST people who came to America were! You should study up on the laws at least then you could present a half-way informed, intelligent debate about your opinions and view points.
You failed to answer the question about whether or not you could vote?? Well, bright boy..can you vote??? My guess would be NO!
As for America being "our" country as you so eloquently stated...how unfortunate for me that there are such narrow minded, prejudicial, hateful people like you who I have to share air with..very unfortunate.
Why don't you hop a plane and go be with your KIDS in Germany??? Probably because Germany doesn't want you either.
I know, I know...I know the reason...you live alone and it's your cats talking you into WORLD DOMINATION isn't it???You are beyond a shadow of a doubt a total and complete cretin!
OK, Mr. Druid here is my opinion take it for whatever it's worth.. 1.) Before you complain about immigration learn how to SPELL the word correctly..there is NO excuse for living in America as you do, having access to public, free education an not knowing how to spell properly! 2.) How do you think you got here? You think your ancestors were born and bred in the USA??? Hell no they weren't...this country was founded by immigrants many, many years ago. I'm quite sure you are either Irish, German, English, or your ancestors were of EUROPEAN descent since you are NOT an AMERICAN INDIAN??? Are you??? I think not! 3.) Maybe if you spent time reading up on the subject of immigration you would be better versed and could present a sound, logical debate on the FACTS and not based solely on your narrow opinion. 4.) Learn how to articulate properly and maybe, just maybe someone could lend credence to your opinion as well.
As I've stated above before you can actually debate a topic, first get a REAL grasp of the situation and don't post some rhetorical drivel and BS that is purely and obviously not based on research but entirely and solely on YOUR OWN OPINION! Solving the problem of immigration is NOT going to be accomplished by killing anyone that makes the United States no better than a DICTATORSHIP and the United States was founded on the fundamentals of diplomacy to all human beings. SO SHUT IT!
Honey, word of advice..you can't come between a man and a woman..and if he did it to you in time he will do it to her. When two people first meet, remember how hard it is to believe anything "bad" about the other person?? He can be the biggest SOB alive, but if you tried to tell her that she would more then likely think you were: 1.) A nutcase 2.) Jealous 3.) Trying to stir up problems (remember they are experiencing bliss for this short time) 4.) The woman probably would laugh in your face
Let her find out what it took you time to figure out. There will come a time more than likely where she will be anxious to talk to you when he beats her and she needs some answers..you can tell her then, when she's more prepared to listen and be receptive.
I prefer a mix of both..daisies are a sweet, innocent, flower while roses just "speak" an entire language all their own. Seriously, any woman should just be appreciative to get flowers period and the man sending them shouldn't have to go broke saying "I love you"!
I believe for every crime, wrongdoing or injustice there should be some sort of retribution and punishment. It would depend upon the crime but when it actually came down to enforcing the punishment..who am I to say who lives or who dies??? I may think differently if it were personalized, but I don't know.
I believe myself, but that doesn't mean that others do. I think it is very important for me myself to have faith because it sustains me and comforts me in hard times. I can't speak for others, but to me it is the foundation around which I govern my life and live according to the words of my God.
As a woman, I must say that the MOST important thing before you can find someone who will like (and hopefully eventually turns into love) you, is to LOVE yourself and actually like yourself.
No woman will want to be with any man and I don't care how beautiful or gorgeous he happens to be, if that man doesn't exude an air of self-confidence.
Take this time to find out who you are and what you like, be yourself, learn to be happy being you and being alone is your test, if you don't enjoy yourself and your own company..you can't expect a woman to do that either.
Keep your options open, go out and embrace and love life and let the rest fall into place....it does happen, just don't look for it and don't try to hunt it down or it will remain ever-elusive.
The icon next to your mailbox says flowerbox, if someone sends you an email or a flower it will have a red box highlighting it. Click on flowerbox and if you have flowers they will be waiting there.
BuilderBear.....I get your point about "why have the child" you've stated that numerous times. It's redundant to say that because the child is already here and asking "why have a child" over and over again, sorry my friend, solves absolutely nothing.
To the mother of the young boy, you need to realize that every household does things differently and while you have one set of rules and circumstances at your home, this child's father doesn't live with you anymore. I've dealt with this for the past 8 years, stop beating your head against a brick wall and wasting your hard earned money that would be better spent on your child. If you and this boy's father can't get along that $10,000 would be better earmarked for therapy.
My ex and I went through a period of adjustment after we divorced, it's normal. You can't control what goes on in his home and life anymore than he can in yours. What you can control is how your child is influenced in this situation. Sometimes it takes one parent (not the better parent), to stand back and gain a healthy perspective and say enough is enough. Control what you can, love your child and stop letting your ex husband get to you. You control you and that's all you can control. You child isn't going to be developmentally delayed from just having to experience a change in routines, he comes from a broken home so changing a routine while at this age is much easier say at 12 or older...then it's not an easy transition.
Good luck and don't sweat the small stuff, things will get better when you make them better.
You could try calling the sheriff's office and speaking to a desk sergant or perhaps actually physically going to the P.D. would yield better results. I had my ex-bf arrested for driving on a suspended/revoked license because the local sheriff's office knows him, he called me drunk and out of control so I simply called them and gave them the 4-1-1. I the proceeded to see him being pulled over and arrested a short time later...good news travels fast. Just a suggestion...I wish you luck!
Sounds like this POS has limited if any uses except wasting GOOD O2...Honey, you really need to be careful for yourself and your sister should be more protective of her children. Your father needs to take a more proactive stand on keeping this degenerate away from his family at any and all costs. Perhaps you could go check out the possibility of a restraining order at the local courthouse. Whatever you do just remember this idiot is using illegal drugs and drinking so he is probably not going to be in his right mind, if he even has one. Whatever happens be careful and do nothing to endanger yourself!!!!!!!
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RE: knock knock your X is at the door what would you do??
If my ex were at my door, first off I wouldn't answer..but if he persistred I would open the door long enough to spit in his face and give him a kick to his twig and berries....I don't like him! That's why he's my EX!