Angelana..nobody who has ever been married goes into marriage thinking it's going to end in divorce. I think some people aren't ready for marriage and others don't take the "vows" very seriously. There are those like myself who simply grew apart from their spouse and he turned into someone I didn't even know, he cheated on me, lied to me and hurt me in many ways....so why would I want to stay married to someone like that?
I believe for me that dating someone substantially younger than myself would be akin to a disaster waiting to happen. For me I prefer someone close to my own age or even a bit older, men my own age are just what I am attracted to by and large. I've dated a man who was 25 at one point in time, we got along quite well, but he just didn't understand the dynamics in my life because he had never been married, divorced, had children, etc. He had a very naive grasp of responsibility and very little understanding of what goes on in my life, he had different goals, desires and once we got right down to it........there was really nothing we could talk about on an intelligent level because he was limited in life experiences. Not stupid, just not much to relate to. For some it can work, and it will take work, if you are willing hey then great whatever works for you...find happiness however you can, that's never a bad thing.
She was almost 8 weeks with twins..sorry for your loss. This just breaks my heart for my sister, she has wanted a baby for so long, and to find otu tonight it was actually twins, just for some reasons stings me to my core. We lost not only one but two babies, I say we because what she feels I feel and face with her, she's my best friend. I love her so much and I can't fix this like a big sister should.
I am no authority on what to name a baby as everyone has their own perspective on names..but since you asked for an honest opinion....
None of the names for the boy are anything great..needs more imaginative thought and perspective..lame names..boys need strong virile names..
The girls don't sound much different than they boys..Fatima..HECK NO!!!!!! IF your daughter is overweight (god forbid seriously) Fatima would be too cruel..would you like that name.
My first thoughts would be as to what are your other children named and find a suitable blended name that flows with those names.
I have no time for idle chit chat, nor do I have time for idle gossip..neither means much to me. I am about what is real and has substance in this world, I have no respect for people who cater to so called truths and gossip. I am a strong person and I only allow the truths to affect my perspective.
I am left to ponder why this happened to my sister. I would understand if God took from me, I could then make sense....I cannot grasp why this happened. I have an extremely strong and secure relationship and faith in my God, I understand that this has happened for a "reason"...just at a lost as to understand why....I have absolutely no doubt about my relationship with God. I know the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away...what comfort is there now.................to a person of GREAT FAITH.
Move on....lots more women than just that particular one...what I am wondering is just WHAT kind of message you sent her???? To be blocked only after one????WOW
Yes that is true....this is petty and childish. We can collectively choose to be a party to it..or ignore it. I am going to remind you that yesterday when we set up the cafe, there was one or two stragglers but once ignored they quickly moved on and found better things to do. Push your block button mentally and just ignore them, i know easier said than done, but hell, we all make a conscious choice about what and who we let get to us. You are way to smart to be baited like this B!!!!! Let em post whatever they want and who cares!!! I've been attacked and called names but I don't care..those who would do that...OH well, I've dished it out many times and I can take it, because I don't care. I'm here to enjoy myself, and without you and Ice its going to get boring real fast!
Here's the thread I'm starting just to prove a point. If there are certain members who enjoy trying to goad and bate someone surely they will reveal themselves here..........VSG members welcome.
yes silki you are welcome here...take a seat at the table...and share your opinions with the group...stand and say "my name is silki and I am a vigilante"....we will then perform the vigilante conga line
I guess to sum it all up...I know what I want and I'll never accept anything less than that. Just like everyone here, we've all been through ups and downs...we know when we meet someone whether or not we will click and it doesn't take long if you know what you want and not just what you like.
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perform the vigilante conga line
RE: Why get Divorced?
Angelana..nobody who has ever been married goes into marriage thinking it's going to end in divorce. I think some people aren't ready for marriage and others don't take the "vows" very seriously. There are those like myself who simply grew apart from their spouse and he turned into someone I didn't even know, he cheated on me, lied to me and hurt me in many ways....so why would I want to stay married to someone like that?