Be yourself, let the real you shine through..this person is already attracted to your personality so let everything else come secondary to that...I'm sure you will do so well! Congrats and be happy!
Just drink tons of water..it fills you up, and ice water increases your metabolism....also going through something extremely stressful can shed pounds wonderously...don't recommend that though. Just increase your activity, eat healthy, and drink tons of water..good luck!
This girl is a very confused person. She is having "buyers remorse" and she feels badly for doing what she did and if she has any kind of heart in her body, she regrets it even though she may have thought it was the thing to do at the time. She is having regrets and by staying in contact with you, this leaves the door open for future contact and thereby alleviating some of her own guilt and personal accountability, perhaps. Without knowing how or who she is, it is extremely difficult to determine what exactly her motivations are and pass on a judgement as to what she hopes to accomplish.
I don't know how long it has been for you since this whole situation occured, but time and space are what you need to give yourself a clear perspective on this situation. You not only lost the woman you obviously still love but are mourning the loss of your child as well. Things like this are a serious emotional blow and reasons surrounding it are sometimes never clear, but you have to learn that what is in the past is just that, past. You have to do what is best for YOU, stop puting her first..this is the only way you can heal from this.
She wants to complain to you about how crappy and one-sided her relationship is with this "new" man. That can be done as both a method of torturing you because you are the last person who wants to hear about the sordid little details of her relationship. She may not even realize but it is very selfish of her to do this to you, if she made a mistake I don't think from reading her email that she has admitted to as much. She has regrets because of what she lost,she will never have closure until she gets the forgiveness she is seeking from you. Prolonging this situation on your part only enables her to hurt you more, and why do that to yourself???
Whatever I can get my hot little hands on..lately it's been rice crispie treats....something I associate with my childhood and security and all that good jazz...plus they are just YUMMY!
He is telling you to ponder this question on your own and reflect on the time of the Spanish Inquisition and use this as a reference to form your opinion. Everyone views this differently, for me as a Christian I know that I do.
To me heaven does exist, do I believe that you get there by good deeds alone...that is something I do ponder on my own. Whose to say?
I believe that every living thing has the "possibility" to contain its own unique soul to speak of, but I can't prove it either way so it does me no good to ponder this.
This question is best answered not by me, but by the powers that be..whereever and whoever they may be.
I'd take care of a lot of grudges thats for sure...MMMMMMWWWWWWAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH...I would travel and do all of those things that just "sounded" good yesterday.
Why is it easy to make some people feel guilty for many reasons and then others have no remorse or guilt for anything they do??? Does that make a person a pushover or weak-willed?
Oh nice poem then..the one I posted is a song by country singer Reba McIntyre..she wrote it way back in 1991 or 92 when her band was killed in a plane crash. I heard it in concert like a year or so later and it just grabbed me...I cried like a baby!
That's why I entitled this one..my OWN thoughts...lol...just to prove my point..B...you are too funny and I agree with you 100% my friend. Thanks much!
Mini that is just a beautiful "song" I am thinking? It's just touching..I have one that also speaks to me about this thought..about never knowing what tomorrow brings..hold on tight to today! Let your friends and family know how much they mean to you..have no regrets!
If I had only known It was the last walk in the rain Id keep you out for hours in the storm I would hold your hand Like a life line to my heart Underneath the thunder we'd be warm If I had only known It was our last walk in the rain
If I had only known Id never hear your voice again Id memorize each thing you ever said And on those lonely nights I could think of them once more Keep your words alive inside my head If I had only known Id never hear your voice again
You were the treasure in my hand You were the one who always stood beside me So unaware I foolishly believed That you would always be there But then there came a day And I turned my head and you slipped away
If I had only known It was my last night by your side Id pray a miracle would stop the dawn And when youd smile at me I would look into your eyes And make sure you know my love For you goes on and on If I had only known If I had only known The love I wouldve shown If I had only known
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RE: Do any of you ladies watch football too........
I LOVE football!!!!!! GO RAMS!!!!!!!!