i also believe that most ppl deserve a second chance tho
i wouldnt never communicate with someone ever again because they told me lies, i would simply let them know, that i know its a lie, that i'm not happy with it, and that i won't be lied to again
if someone upset me too much personally, then yes, they are out of my life, but other than that, live and let live
some ppl cant help it, some ppl know exactly what harm they are doing
but i prefer to keep an open mind about them, and be at least a little forgiving to start with
The thing that made me smile today was, my youngest daughter telling me she loved me because i know the alphabet song, and when she needs to know how to spell CAT and HAT and MAT ect, i know , so i must be really clever
i prefer to keep an open mind and have a little hope thats shes alive and well somewhere however big or small that chance is, its what i prefer to cling to
tell them you dont appreciate them lying to you then, if you wish to remain friends with them, you tell them to respect you enough to be honest, or they ship out
A websitemember wants to IM you, and it has a yes or no button
What I'm finding annoying is, that you don't know the persons name unless you accept, and as soon as you make a post , you have all these pop ups wanting to talk to you. And I'm not talking one or two requests here.
I accepted one ..........
convo:
him.......... hi
me: ....hi
him......... so what do you do for fun
me....... (thinking here we go) I like to go out dance, have a drink etc
him........... what are you wearing
END OF CONVO !
Maybe I'm a party pooper, but I really would like an option to turn the thing off
I'm happy enough with the message box and making my own mind up if I want to exchange emails or IM after a while.
the dishwasher the washer/drier/ hairdryer tv computer dvd stereo car food mixer ipod vacuum cleaner microwave fridge freezer electric shower toaster kettle ermmmmmmmmmm am sure I used more gadgets and giszmos, but thats just a starter on what I've used today
So I guess the answer to the question as far as I'm concerned is a big fat YES lol
RE: How do you cope with people who tell lies?
same herei also believe that most ppl deserve a second chance tho
i wouldnt never communicate with someone ever again because they told me lies, i would simply let them know, that i know its a lie, that i'm not happy with it, and that i won't be lied to again
if someone upset me too much personally, then yes, they are out of my life, but other than that, live and let live
some ppl cant help it, some ppl know exactly what harm they are doing
but i prefer to keep an open mind about them, and be at least a little forgiving to start with