But I still stress that real life mate. Most men are half the men they really are when women are around. Desperation gets the better of them it stops them from doing right. Men who should be brothers will fight one another and alienation will conquer. We begin to want our brothers to lose when this is not the way it was supposed to be.
Anyway for a woman the trick is to compliment things they have chosen. Like the way they've done their hair.
Where man is much more grateful for the attention. You've said something about me and it's not about being 5 foot 2. Much more open to feedback, or he should be. He is not entitled to a mate, it's a challenge.
For example society invents "small man syndrome" to persecute the little guy, they say that Napoleon was short when he was not, but the vice of being a fat woman fosters an acceptance movement. The short man is victimised through no fault of his own and this is in stark contrast to the gluttonous life of sin that is protected.
The tendency is for women to be praised for awful things they could change. Where man is more likely to be shot at dawn because of an immutable characteristic.
And it's still a wise idea for two reasons. What a man's profile says matters and as a man the input of another is trusted.
Women are different. They get a medal regardless of what they say and are far more suspicious of everyone. Perhaps because of the medal. Most of everything they hear is a false positive that leaves no room for advice and valid criticism i.e. a true negative.
It's just that those who can better control their spending habits - the savers, the aspiring middle class - just happen to be brainwashed by a system that makes men torture and imprison innocent people.
One concern is that the Chinese people will orchestrate a far more disciplined boycott of anybody who criticises their concentration camps. To say they won't buy from you and refrain from doing so, as well.
Well it's a bit like the old days where voting power and money power were one and the same. The vote of the poor and the nobody love is worth considerably less than it is in democracy's one man, one vote. It represents the enormous power of a wealthy somebody. And it's not in secret so its not really the free choice of an individual, but a fashion of the group.
One way involves a lot of acting and seems a Bowie kind of thing to do, the other to be imagined tall, dark and handsome not even intentionally, or at least they've grew to like you a bit before having to see your face. Looks are not everything.
And then not being insured will eventually lead back to the 1960s. The sons of til death do us part have the nice music and the chance to make the same mistakes all over again, but for now the music is adequate.
And as for posterity there you will find less divorce because there aren't as many marriages. You are dedicated to it or you are not. You cannot afford to be both because there isn't the insurance for failed ventures. One mistake perhaps but not again.
Marriage is more or less done to give youth a future and old age a security. It's a practical arrangement, a compromise where you do what you must because you have to.
All that changed for a bit because all baby boomers behave like a trust fund baby. The independence of unearned income, the easiest that it's ever been to simply stay alive which undermines the union of anybody with anything at all. Lonely at the top silver spoon.
Nobody can multi-task it's just aimless and distracted. But there is a time and place to be aimless and distracted so as to be unaware of the agony that is your aim. If you think about something really hard you might be able to pedal a lot further, and faster. A physical performance boost that comes from never being too aware of what you're doing, sleepwalking is the easiest exercise in the world.
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RE: Do you think profile reviews are useful?
But I still stress that real life mate. Most men are half the men they really are when women are around. Desperation gets the better of them it stops them from doing right. Men who should be brothers will fight one another and alienation will conquer. We begin to want our brothers to lose when this is not the way it was supposed to be.