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Breaking Out of a Power Struggle With a Loved One
When we're engaged in power struggles with our partners, continuing to react only perpetuates the cycle. If we acknowledge our hurt, and speak honestly, it can diffuse tensions and pave the way for more constructive and respectful communication.
11 Dating Red Flags You Shouldn't Ignore
Dating someone new causes a whirlwind of emotions. It can be confusing trying to decide if you are compatible together, or if you're headed into a train wreck. Here are 11 red flags that help determine early on whether you should run from a new relationship.
6 Things to Do Before You Ask for Commitment
How do you know when it's the right time to take your relationship to the next level? Before you ask the other person for a larger commitment, make sure you're choosing the ideal time. Don't talk to your partner until you've checked these items off your list.
How to Deal With Shyness
Anxiety in social situations is very common. Those who suffer these sorts of fears often miss out on a great deal of fun, happiness and success in life. Social anxiety can affect relationships, undermine friendships and even ruin careers.
Finding Meaning in Life
Many of us live our lives at a hectic pace, sitting in traffic, worrying about our mortgage, taking care of ageing parents or young children. But every so often we all pause to wonder why. Does our life, or life generally, have any meaning or purpose?
Surviving the Breakup: Rules to Live By
Breakups are tricky and painful. They leave people wondering if they made the right decision or if they should fight for the relationship. Most of the time, the only course of action is to move on. Here are some guidelines on how to survive a bad breakup.
Why Long Distance Relationships are Doomed to Fail
Long distance relationships have an unsavory reputation among a lot of people because they tend to require a lot of work and are often doomed to fail right from the start. Here are some reasons why. Perhaps knowing the common pitfalls can help couples who are willing to risk having an LDR despite its apparent drawbacks.
Scams Aimed at Seniors and How to Avoid them
Scamming seniors has become a big business. The advent of the internet was an absolute gift for con artists, who gained a powerful tool with which to part the unsuspecting from their money. But the se
How to Be Happy in 8 Steps
When asked what they most desire, most people will reply 'to be happy'; yet remarkably few actually are. Of course, happiness depends very much on the individuals concerned. Some people live alone in
4 Signs Your Girlfriend Is A Keeper
There are lots of nice girls out there, but being nice isn't enough to make you want a long term relationship with them. As you spend more time with someone, you see who they really are. You notice their insecurities and other flaws that you might not be willing to deal with. Here are some signs that the woman you're dating is a keeper.
Winning Against Your Girlfriend
If you think that there is no way you can win an argument against your girlfriend, then you are in for a surprise. With a few simple tips you can manipulate an argument and get a favorable outcome. Here are a few guidelines on how a man can get the upper hand in a relationship argument.
How to Cure a Broken Heart
Has your lover broken your heart? Here are a number of ways to help cure it and bounce back. You don't have to silently suffer.
Is Your Man Cheating – 7 Signs
Cheating is never an easy topic to deal with, and for good reason. It represents a breach of trust and a grave insult. It is best to make sure that he is checting on you before approaching him about it. These seven signs will help you determine whether or not you need to sit him down and have a serious talk.
How to Text a Man and Keep His Attention
Texting might be a popular form of communication, but not everyone is into it. Men are likely to text a lot less than women. If you want to keep a man's attention and keep him texting, this article outlines 4 ways that you can succeed.
Shallow Attitudes and Men
The term shallow can be used to describe men who only date attractive women. This article discusses men and the biological as well as media influences that shape their views on attractiveness. Not all
Sending Signals: 11 Ways Women Use Their Bodies to Show Romantic Interest
How can you find out if a woman is attracted to you? Women will give away their inner thoughts through their body language. Here are some ways women use their bodies to communicate an interest in romance.
4 Signs That You're Dating A Good Man
It's hard to find a good man these days. That doesn't mean that you should settle for less than you want though. If you want a good man, wait for him. Here are four ways that you will know when you're dating a good man.
How much should you tip?
The etymology of the word "tipping" as it pertains to leaving a gratuity for services received can be traced back to the slang of the medieval era, when, according to Yahoo! Answers, it literally mean
First Date Dos and Don'ts
First dates can be hard for some people. The fear of 'screwing up' can be paralyzing and blow our chances of there being a second date. The good news is that it doesn't have to be that way. Here are s
Kind Ways to Tell Someone You’re Not Interested
We can feel very uncomfortable telling someone that we don't share their romantic feelings. However, many of the ways in which people try to "soften the blow" can end up causing more harm than good. Honesty is usually the best expression of respect for others.
How to Avoid a Miserable Relationship
Many people in long-term relationships admit to being miserable. They admit that if they would have made better decisions in the past, they wouldn't be in a bad relationship. Here are some tips that can help you avoid a miserable relationship.
How To Deal With A Bossy Boyfriend
Bossy people are used to getting their way all the time. If they don't get their own way on the first try, they know exactly what to say and do to make it happen. While you can't change someone else, you can change the way you deal with him.
4 Signs The Woman You Like Has Put You In the Friend-Zone
Being interested in a woman will cause you to put yourself out there to show her what a great boyfriend you can be. Unfortunately she may friend-zone you because she either isn't attracted to you as m
How to Make Friends When You Are Over 30
Making friends during your teens and early twenties is relatively easy. At school or college, most people you meet are single, childless, and eager to make new friends, but as you age things change: p
The Ten Worst Presidents
With a new presidency recently inaugurated and a controversial one left behind, many Americans are looking back and evaluating the presidents of the past. Ranking the presidents is not just a futile d
Helicopter Parenting - Are You Crowding Your Child?
With the many dangers in today's society, many parents feel they must take an active part in monitoring and intervening in their children's lives on a minute-by-minute basis. This intense parenting style is often called "helicopter parenting" and it can have a detrimental effect on children's development.
Rejection Can Often Lead to Happiness
Nothing could beat hanging out with a bunch of friends on the beach, right? Well, this story is proof that it's not what you're doing, but who you're with. Perhaps if my blind double-date had featured a different girl – not one with such high standar
4 Texts You Shouldn't Send A Man You Like
Just because texting is convenient doesn't mean you should take it for granted. Just like any other form of communication, especially with someone you like, you have to be careful about what you say and do.
How to Tell if You're Dating an Alcoholic
It's your first or second date with someone you're interested in. You have a drink, you enjoy yourselves, and you keep drinking. You both get really drunk; you laugh, you dance, you act silly, you tell old stories, you feel like you've known one anot
How to Capture and Share a Screen Shot
Have you ever wished you could provide a visual representation of an error message you are seeing? Or that you could show others at work a neat way to accomplish a task? If you have ever wanted to sha
8 Signs Your Relationship Is Doomed
Relationships are full of ups and downs, but there are certain qualities and actions that will simply doom a relationship. If your boyfriend is exhibiting qualities that you don't think would be healthy long term, this article is for you. This article outlines 8 signs that your relationship is doomed.
Take the Stress out of Christmas
Christmas is supposed to be a special celebration of love, so why is it that so many of us just feel completely stressed by Decenter 25? Christmas should be time when you focus on love - the love of G
5 Ways to a Calmer and Happier You
Although many people worry about their emotional and physical well-being, they do not know how to be calm and happy. Here are various ways - from getting organized to learning from your mistakes - to help maximise your chances of finding happiness.
The Telltale Signs of Projection
"Projection" is a term that many psychologists use to describe the manner in which we externalize our inner condition. In other words, when we project, we're blind to something that's going on inside
6 Things About You That Keep You From Being Rich
You would be surprised at what's holding you back from the luxury home of your dreams. Being rich is more than having a good idea or being born into money. It involves facets of your personality and the way you treat money. Being rich is more than ha
4 Red Flags You Need To Look Out For When Online Dating
The online dating scene is filled with success stories, and some horror stories too. Don't let the horror stories scare you out of trying this popular form of dating. It's important to be on the lookout for shady people when you're online dating just like you are in real life.
Chick Flicks for People Who Hate Chick Flicks (hereafter referred to as "men")
For a guy, it's the classic dinner-and-a-movie dilemma. She's buying the wine. She's making the dinner. She's even promised a dessert so decadent and unhealthy it carries its own Surgeon General's war
4 Signs He’s Not Your Soul Mate
While not everyone believes in the concept of soulmates, many people do. If you believe in soulmates, it's important that you look at important things when dating someone. Here are 4 signs that someone is not your soulmate.
10 Tips for Success in Life
Everyone wants to be successful and happy in their personal and professional life. However, there is no shortcut to success. Here is some useful advice on what you can do to boost your chances of all-round success and fulfillment in life.
Four Lines That Should Not be in Your Online Dating Profile
A compelling written summary is one of the most important parts of your online dating profile. Unfortunately, many people make mistakes in their profile that wind up boring potential partners and turn
12 Signs It's Time to End a Friendship
Not all friendships were meant to last forever. In fact, toxic friendships are probably doing you more harm than good. Do you have a friend who treats you badly, uses you or tries to control your life? Consider these 12 signs that it's time to end a friendship.
Dealing with Jealous Friends
When Toni goes out with co-workers or acquaintances, she has to be very careful how she talks about those outings. Her best friend is jealous. Many people deal with friends who aren't comfortable sh