What Are They Hiding From?

I can understand that anybody has the right to hide his profile as he sees fit. After all, CS gives us the option to do so and there is no rule forbidding it. dancing

I’m not condemning it as wrong; it just puzzles me. This is especially so when a blogger hides his profile as it complicates the process of getting to that person’s blog if he has not blogged for a day or two.confused

I can think of a few reasons why a person would hide his profile when not on-line but they all seem to defy the main purpose of having a profile on a dating site.dunno
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Hiding is comforting,. .. .. sometimes! grin
Hi Kal
That is an interesting remark but can you elaborate a bit? It is a reason I did not foresee. How does it comfort you?
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Some people complained or got disappointed if

- we do not reply their messages
- we do not reply their flowers
- we do not respond their comments on our blogs..

They would say we hit and run.. They said we ignored.. etc. etc..

BUT..

When they saw I hide our profile, they would not be intersted to (or even couldnot) send a message or a flower or expect their comment to get responded soon. Thaaat give me some times for myself, doing other things in real life..!
And Catfoot, sometimes it's a better way for STUPID COMMENTs..!
The dictionary says Hide :

To conceal from sight; prevent from being seen or discovered.

I assume if someone hides their profile they either have something to hide or are hiding from someone\something, jmo beer
Hi Queen
Yes, to me it seems like the famous old ostrich foxtrot but there may be some very valid reasons for doing so. I'd like to learn about it.
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i have nothing for hide cheers rolling on the floor laughing tongue
@Catfoot
Have you ever read a blog with so many comments "condemning" other blog that blocked comment?
and i don t care if strangers hide there face rolling on the floor laughing
Yes Catfoot, your so right. If we learn about something and why, we might even get to understand it. I proberbly will not understand why people do it but maybe what makes them do it. I said i try to answer everyone, not true. I do not answer people without a picture. Now I have learned they might want to have there own time so no way i answer. It is a dating site, so it does not add up to me this hiding thing.
Hi Kal
Ok, I hear you. Let's hope we can hear the opinion of some other people who hide their profiles as well.
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Hi Z
It seems that most people hiding their profiles prefer to communicate off the blogs. Most are complaining about bad remarks while off line. I still cannot understand it as it makes so much more sense to block comments while off line.

They won't even comment here as they cannot delete a comment on my blog when it solicits a bad response.confused
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Hi Jarred
I'm sure you have nothing to hide from. But then I don't know if you're hiding your profile some time. I have not noticed.
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Hi Kal
That is another phenomena that I cannot understand. Why put up a blog, especially a controversial blog and the block all comments? That is when the people complain. I'm sure nobody will complain if you block comments while you are off line.
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As you say hiding your profile doesn't affect a blog at all, the blog is still there & if open for comments they can still be made, has to be said not many like commenting on blogs when the OP is hidden, it's a bit like trying to talk to the wall laugh
interesting question Cat,
Not sure what type of response you will get, i assume from some you will be told that it is their choice and right to do whatever they please, and of course they would be correct, only it does not make sense to hide on a dating site, unless of course, they are not looking for a partner, maybe they just wish to blog.

Then you may find some honest enough to give you a "real" answer as to why they hide their profile at times.
confused dunno
I too am interested in reading the responses.
Maybe our friend Zman is on to something with the dictionary definition and his opinion.
Jarred, those who don't show a pic may be more honest than some who do post a pic.
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Hi Cat, I don't view other peoples profiles, unless its a friend. However there's a matured gentleman who views my profile a few times a day. Once I thought to view his profile but its hidden, so I don't know what to think about itrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
catfoot know i stsy here for 4 years never did hidding my face cheers
@Catfoot
Sometimes, I posted a blog addressed to a certain target(s). Kinda like a "special" message for that target ONLY. So no comment was needed..
I've thought of some reasons why someone might want to hide their profile, I'm sure there are others :
They used to play "Knock down Ginger" (ringing on peoples doors & running away) as a child & rather miss it.
They're going away somewhere without net access, a remote island, prison etc & won't be able to respond to mail.
They're a banned member who thinks hiding away will stop the mods spotting them. dunno
And one more thing I learned from here, Catfoot. Some people would complain just about any thing.. I mean ANY THING..!
Catfoot, your so right again thank youor no thanks takes about 10 sec to do if you type with one finger from one hand. I am very interested to know who are all "we" you talk about Kal. It would be just great if all the other "we" could or would leave their opinion. thank you
Catfoot, your so right again thank youor no thanks takes about 10 sec to do if you type with one finger from one hand. I am very interested to know who are all "we" you talk about Kal. It would be just great if all the other "we" could or would leave their opinion. If you are the only one that dare to say anything, I almost bow to you. Thanks for at least trying to enlightning me
(sorry about my spelling)
Z
It makes no sense at all to me to hide a profile to prevent comments as it does not do anything. Like you, I don't generally comment on blogs with hidden profiles as well.
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Hi Simmo
Sure thing. I acknowledged their right to do so in my blog and I'm not condemning anybody for it. I'm just trying to make sense out of it.
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Val, that's odd, normally when the profile is hidden the picture disappears but there are "odd" people in all walks of life & here is no exception uh oh laugh rolling on the floor laughing wine
Hi Val
Well, it can't be me. My profile has never been hidden.
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Hi Jarred
Hmm, I cannot recall ever seeing you without a face. But then Who knows, I would not have recognized you.
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Hi Kal
I can assure you this blog has only one target and that is to satisfy my own curiosity. It is aimed at nobody but myself. And I admire your openness about the question. You are the only one so far who have stated your case in public.thumbs up
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Kalpaturu, do you mean to say people come to you and complain about any thing, so thats why you are hiding? I must be very lucky, nobody complains in my PM
Hi Z
Yes, that could me some of the reasons. I know about at least one banned member right now who hides his profile.doh

Oh, I loved to play that game when I was a child. Sheer fun.
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Hi Kalpa
I'm not sure if I understood your last comment rightly, but this is not a complaint at all. It does not put me at any real disadvantage if somebody hides his/her profile. I'm just trying to fathom the reasons for it.
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Hi Queen
I think the we in both her and my case refer to everybody here. We would all like to know.
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Hi kitten smitten honestly, I really don't know, but then again look at my pic, im a minnon popcorn

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Hope you have an Awesome Day Kitten, and figure this out eventually crazy


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Yes Catfoot, the purpose is to know and maybe then be able to understand. Strange not many want to give their view on why they hide. It is only the hiding people themself that can make us understand or we have to keep guessing
Hi Flutterby
This blog is turning out to be a nightmare. I get more hate mail than comments here.doh
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Queen,
It looks as if we're going to be left in the dark on this.
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Catfoot Bob, I know you're discussing some serious stuff here but this afternoon, my daughter came back with a stray kitten.

She really makes herself at home now. Look, she came near me when I was reading your blog and put a foot near your pic!! How cute!!giggle giggle giggle grin

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Mimi, seems like the kitten is trying to tell you it's name, so are you calling it Bob laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh wine
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