Apparently You CAN Die Of A Broken Heart.

It is a phenomenon that has long been suspected - and now scientists say it really is possible to die of a broken heart. They die of Sudden Adult Death Syndrome (SADS), a cardiac condition which can be triggered by emotional stress.help

A study has found that the remaining spouse's risk of dying is 66 per cent higher in the three months after their partner's death. Grief is extraordinarily stressful and when you're older and frailer it's harder to cope with.professor

In the U.S., Clifford and Eva Vevea, a Minnesota couple who were 'hopelessly in love' for all 65 years of their marriage, died within hours of each other, it was reported last year. Nurses at the home pushed their beds together so they could be together and Clifford aged 93 and Eva aged 90, passed away exactly the same way on the same day.sad flower

Some experts say the change on lifestyle may be to blame. Maybe they used to go for a walk every night but now they're not doing that anymore. Maybe they're not sleeping well, or maybe not taking their medications. But that does not explain the second spouse following within days, even hours.dunno
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Have a good day.wave

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Hi Bspoken
Hey man, one of my favorite groups with one of my all-time favorite songs. The were magnificent and only Barry Gibb is still alive. Their music will outlive all the music of their time.
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Catfoot, so sweet and sad! hug sad flower
A man was in a cemetery wailing over a grave, "Why did you have to die?......WHY did you have to DIE!!?" Touched by the scene someone approaches him and asks about his relationship to the deceased.
His wife?......"No, no!"
A beloved parent? ......"No, not my Mom or Dad!"
A dear child?......."No, not my child!"
Well, who is it?....."My wife's first husband! ....Why? Oh why did you have to DIE!!?" crying
Hi Calleis
I think it was Shakespeare wo said 'parting is such sweet sorrow'.sad flower
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Miclee giggle giggle giggle
Catfoot You're not 'Bob"??? shock shock shock
Miclee
My 2nd wife ran off with my best friend. Hell, I miss him!
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Hi Mimi
No, I'm not Bob at all. Angel started calling me Bob and now everybody is following her. And the worst of it is she won't tell my why she calls me Bob.doh
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I was very very close to my late maternal grandpa, probably even closer than his own kids. When he died, (I mentioned in one of the blogs here), I went into a denial mode. Until today, I do not know the exact date or even year that he died..

In Chinese custom and beliefs, a deceased would come back to their own house after the 7th day of their passing. I took the kids with me and slept on his bed that night, hoping that he would come to my dreams or even appear in front of me! Mind you, I've always been afraid of ghosts and other paranormal activities! However, I was prepared for my grandpa to appear and I psyched myself not to be afraid.

But alas, no such luck.... I guess he didn't love me enough to appear? sad flower sad flower sad flower
So what now? Do I stop calling you 'Bob' which you are not, never have been but I sort of got accustomed to calling OR would you prefer to be called 'Catfoot' which you have always been known? giggle giggle giggle grin
Mimi
Maybe he was delayed by somebody he had not seen for a long time. You should have waited another few days.
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Catfoot or Cat will do just fine. I don't have a problem with Bob but it is just not me.
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Ok, I think I better back to calling you Catfoot then!

Now, with that settled. I didn't die (obviously roll eyes ) from broken heart after my grandpa's passing but until today, I can't go back to my old house, not even to pass by the street without feeling grief, lots of it.

As I'm writing this....I'm crying so hard now....


After all these years (I think almost 10 years now), I still pine for him, his love and his care so much so that it hurts. Every single thing reminds me of him and the tears would come down automatically.

The kids learned from an early age that not to mention anything about their beloved great-grandpa in front of me lest having me upset and bawled my eyes out...sad flower sad flower sad flower
Bob
Why did Angel call you "Bob"?
Here's a clue - search "bobcat".It's an American critter. Don't tell Angel I let the cat out of the bag!hmmm
Miclee "Meow" cats meow
Mimi Woof dancing dog
Then, we can't be friends snooty snooty snooty
Mimi
Ok, then Catfoot it is. I wanted to explain it to you but you have me blocked. Drop me a PM some time. My box is open.

Anyway, it is way past my bed time. almost 2 am here.
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Miclee But on second thought......

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Mic,
somebody else told me that as well but then why is she so secretive about the origin.
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BTW
Cats and dogs can be friends.

Anyway good night. Must go to Lala Land now.

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Mimi "bah!" sheep
Miclee

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Miclee...
very happy Yes! Bob, stand for " BobCat".... in the usa.bouquet
roll eyes Oh! Howdy Bob......
To me this is 'BobCat' giggle giggle giggle

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laugh Mimi;
We have those bobcats, here too.....rolling on the floor laughing
Angel Same here, especially at those new housing estates! grin
Mimi I have grief still inside for people I have loved. I cannot bear to look at the pictures, I buckle up inside my stomach heaves and I cry still... its not that I am afraid to 'let go ' I cannot deny how my heart feels. hug Crying will do you good... releases alot of the pain. yawn sleep V tired Mimi its 1. 30 here in Ireland, exausted. Night .
Mimi;
scold Will you show me some photos, of those new housing there.
I'm glad you know how I feel....Thanks GG, you have a good night, sleep well hug teddybear hug teddybear
Ok Angel, when I got the chance I'll send them to you via personal email hug teddybear
Mimi;
applause Ok!..............hug
cat
My great aunt and uncle were much like that...he passed away and she was so upset over his death...she died 6 months later...during those 6 months she totally lost the plot so to speak...she truly missed him...and clearly lost the will to live...
Hi Angel
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Hi Loulou
It happens far too often to be coincidence. There must be something to it.
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