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Almost 4am here
Good nite everybody!
Are you doing it?
No....not yet anyway. But, I do not think I could bring myself to it. Now, if she got divorced, I could justify doing something like that.
But....
Like Pepps says, it really is a difficult decision when you are put into a real life scenario.
I would guess for a woman it would not be that difficult to turn down. They have been hit on by men all their lives and well-conditioned to situations similar to this. For a man, well...we do not get hit on by women all of our lives. So, when something like this occurs, it is much more difficult for us to know how to appropriately deal with our feelings and emotions. My thought on it anyway.
not good to ruin other people's marriage...no matter how hot!
The intention would not be to ruin any marriage. Like I mentioned, it would be okay with everyone...including both of the people in the marriage.
Who knows, it could actually improve their marriage.
But...it is nice to see everyone's points of view. Min, I think addresses what you say. It would be possible that deep feelings could arise and possibly break up a marriage, even if that was not the initial intention.
With that said, I do not think I would partake in a situation like this. She would have to be divorced.
That last paragraph...
Thank you for the psychological aspect/natural world perspective on this. With your individual situational breakdowns, it seems that all roads lead to a dead end.....or, to nowhere good....for the most part.
Thanks for sharing that more scientific view. It certainly adds a logical look at this situation.
I'm not interested in NSA, no matter in what form.
Do you actually think that this is a dilemma that most people have?...lol...hard for most to fathom...
Seriously though...I probably would need to work out more often if I said yes to this "indecent" proposal!!...
With your initial response, it begs for a philosophical question. Do you think some man-made laws interfere with the nature of our beings?
Thank you for your thoughts on this topic.
That is an interesting look at this topic. Does physical beauty play a roll in things? Hmmm...something to ponder there.
Thank you for your input.
Thanks Ded.
To my knowledge, I do not think it happens all that often. But, with the way our society is moving today....who knows, it might be on the increase?
But, it sounds like you are not against it. :)
Thank you L.L.
Always be careful of nets you step in, for any possible holes.
Yes....that would be a huge danger. Now, I never said I was going to partake in anything....lol. It was just an innocent hypothetical question that happen to cross my mind after some married woman kept winking at me.
I am for single to mingle....even though, being a beautiful woman...it would be tough....but I would stick to my guns.
:)
Thanks for confirming I got it right with Zar. That is what I thought. Sometimes I am not the quickest out there.
I like your take on this subject....the understanding of how and why a relationship takes that course. With your assessment, it makes me wonder why they would remain married? But, I suppose the reason for that would be unique to each and every marriage. Thank you for the additional information to consider.
Thank you for your thoughts on this matter.
Well, since laws sometimes involve imprisonment, lashings and executions which terminate the 'beings' of someone, I would have to speculate, yes.
I was involved in a discussion one time with somebody about that exact subject....laws inhibiting our natural order.
I will admit, he did make a lot of sense; but, on the flip side, if we are to live as a civilized society, we do need certain laws.
Thank you Ken.