Would you partake in an open relationship?

I am not sure what I think of this. Let's say you run across this hot guy or woman and he/she is married. He/She expresses that their spouse and them are in an open relationship and there is no doubt about that. Would you partake in a s*xual fling with them?
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Ok Johnny, I'll stop antagonize you....temporarily grin

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Johnny,

Are you doing it?confused
CH,

No....not yet anyway. laugh But, I do not think I could bring myself to it. Now, if she got divorced, I could justify doing something like that.

But....


Like Pepps says, it really is a difficult decision when you are put into a real life scenario.



I would guess for a woman it would not be that difficult to turn down. They have been hit on by men all their lives and well-conditioned to situations similar to this. For a man, well...we do not get hit on by women all of our lives. So, when something like this occurs, it is much more difficult for us to know how to appropriately deal with our feelings and emotions. My thought on it anyway.
Don't even think about it...it's badscold

not good to ruin other people's marriage...no matter how hot!scold grin
CH,

The intention would not be to ruin any marriage. Like I mentioned, it would be okay with everyone...including both of the people in the marriage.

Who knows, it could actually improve their marriage.


But...it is nice to see everyone's points of view. Min, I think addresses what you say. It would be possible that deep feelings could arise and possibly break up a marriage, even if that was not the initial intention.


With that said, I do not think I would partake in a situation like this. She would have to be divorced.
Ken,

That last paragraph...doh sigh
Hello Ken,

Thank you for the psychological aspect/natural world perspective on this. With your individual situational breakdowns, it seems that all roads lead to a dead end.....or, to nowhere good....for the most part.

Thanks for sharing that more scientific view. It certainly adds a logical look at this situation.

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So CH and KN....even if he was smoking hot and his wife even confirmed to you it was okay?

I'm not interested in NSA, no matter in what form. wave
john
Do you actually think that this is a dilemma that most people have?...lol...hard for most to fathom... laugh
Seriously though...I probably would need to work out more often if I said yes to this "indecent" proposal!!...wine
Hello Ken,

With your initial response, it begs for a philosophical question. Do you think some man-made laws interfere with the nature of our beings?
Hello KN,

Thank you for your thoughts on this topic.


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Hello Wen,

That is an interesting look at this topic. Does physical beauty play a roll in things? Hmmm...something to ponder there.

Thank you for your input.


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Ded....thank you for your post. It looks like we got some for and some strongly against. Maybe Ken is on to something with the nature of our upbringing....or, something like that he started his post out with.

Thanks Ded.

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L.L.,

To my knowledge, I do not think it happens all that often. But, with the way our society is moving today....who knows, it might be on the increase? dunno


But, it sounds like you are not against it. :)


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Thank you L.L.
CH....that is the true beauty of life. We get more enlightened/smarter as we move along. thumbs up
Hi Johnny! No, I wouldn't, or at least he should get divorced.. doh laugh
Call, that is where I am siding too. Thank you for your input.

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rolling on the floor laughing Zar.....to funny. Sounds like you could use some Herbal Essence too. lol ....gosh, I hope I understood your post correctly. blushing laugh
Johnny, are you sure you wouldn't (accidentally) get emotionally involved? That can get pretty painful and cause quite a tangle. What if it caused pain to another person, they fell in love with u?

Always be careful of nets you step in, for any possible holes. cheers
That's the only thing Zar wants in her hair. laugh
Calm,

Yes....that would be a huge danger. Now, I never said I was going to partake in anything....lol. It was just an innocent hypothetical question that happen to cross my mind after some married woman kept winking at me.

I am for single to mingle....even though, being a beautiful woman...it would be tough....but I would stick to my guns.


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Thanks for confirming I got it right with Zar. That is what I thought. Sometimes I am not the quickest out there. laugh
I dont think having an open relationship is a concious decision made between couples, many of whom although married live separate lives due work commitments or other reasons thus dictating that an open relationship is beneficial.
Hello Sol,

I like your take on this subject....the understanding of how and why a relationship takes that course. With your assessment, it makes me wonder why they would remain married? But, I suppose the reason for that would be unique to each and every marriage. Thank you for the additional information to consider.


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I've given the subject due consideration & the long version of my answer is no laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh beer
laugh Z....that is your long version of the answer? lol


Thank you for your thoughts on this matter.


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Johnny, "Do you think some man-made laws interfere with the nature of our beings?"

Well, since laws sometimes involve imprisonment, lashings and executions which terminate the 'beings' of someone, I would have to speculate, yes.
Ken,

I was involved in a discussion one time with somebody about that exact subject....laws inhibiting our natural order.


I will admit, he did make a lot of sense; but, on the flip side, if we are to live as a civilized society, we do need certain laws.

Thank you Ken.

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rolling on the floor laughing Ian......good luck with that one. rolling on the floor laughing
Too messy. Simplicity is my greatest joy these days. :)
About the original question, I'd most definitely not engage in a fling or anything else with them.
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