Mystery Man

He walks in and out of my life, this mystery man... what else shall I call him? Tall dark and handsome business man, with a deep Arabic accent...yes, he is from Egypt. So very smart and charming. Treats me like his queen when we're together.....be it alone or in public with friends. He never hides me, rather takes pride in being by my side. Says, "I don't want to leave you alone" ....He's always so full of surprises, thinking up new ways to make me smile. The passion is unforgettable, assertive, inevitable. He never fails to make me laugh with our little inside jokes. He has captured my heart in such a way, I never thought possible. ....I just want him by my side.

But when he's not with me, he remains distant. Days, sometimes weeks go by...no communication, no texts, no calls, nothing. He says it's his work that keeps him busy....and his dedicated workouts at the gym. I have never visited his home....is there someone else?

Other men, possibly wonderful people have taken interest in me, but I've pushed them away, isolated myself. Couldn't stray if I tried. Days go by, I'm left with nothing but a mere memory of our last encounter. Saddened because he has left me alone.... weeks go by...I hear his voice, the butterflies are in my stomach all over again....of course I'm just overjoyed because I can see his sweet face again...but every time he returns, I know, deep down, it's only for a little while....until he's gone again, without a trace. I want to tell him I love him, but for some mysterious reason....I don't think it will ever happen.

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Avias so very true! I'm hoping that time is all he needs to come around. Maybe he just really enjoys being with me but is just not ready yet to understand his own feelings. Some take longer to develop that kind of attachment, I suppose. Also, though, knowing the person that I am, I will only wait so long....patience has never been my strongest trait lol
Seri... Very wise words to live by

Maybe I must wait just a little longer for the "feeding" time? It's not quite dinner yet wave
British, I'm almost afraid to do that....not sure if I want to lose him for good in the process..crazy as it sounds
Lol Pat, Egyptians don't eat pork
Exactly. I doubt they'd eat vegemite either. However, they walk like Egyptians.
He dances quite well, though I've never seen him walk like an Egyptian...that would be a funny sight to see, I'm sure dancing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
All the cops in the donut shop say wayyyyy ohhhhh wayyy ohhh wayyy ohhhh, walk like an Egyptian...
You should really take up singing in your spare time, Pat roll eyes banana
Not easy eh... don't be reckless with your heart, only you can protect it rose
I will do my best, cocheta...thank you hug wave
Looks to be a full learned Casanova.....but as you like it and he get what he need,so all is well so farwave

Rolf
Hi Enigwave
sorry i'v not gotten round to read all this blog yet,so i'm not too sure what it is you want from your mystery man or is it just more reasurrance you're looking for....as in, you are is only one?

My questions aside.....
aren't you grand as you are... every now and then, even if only for awhile, you get to love the one you love.. and isn't that better than never atall.
Sem I can only hope that's not the case....but if so, he's very good at what he does and only time will tell wave
Itch....I think what I probably would like is a little communication lol...and, yes, at times I do wonder if I'm the only one...but, who knows...this is how I feel right now in this moment and life changes every second

Yes, everyone is grand in their own right....and ID rather feel this way in this moment for him than to not love at all....correct cheering wave
all I can say to you is to take care if you are with some one it not nice to go for weeks no text no call it easy to pick up the phone and say I miss you I am thinking about you
Thank you, bee...that's all I ask. Hopefully some time very soon he will realize that wink
I don't blame you for wanting more Enigcomfort
some suggest you call his bluff (or so to speak) i'd suggest live in/for the moment untill you nolonger cannot ...

I do wish you well wine
Thank you, Itch....that's what I've been doing..day to day and whatever will be will be...worse comes to worse, it will serve as a lesson wink
Enigma comfort
Time is Big Healer.hug
Don't worry if it's good for you he will come back.
Either forget him.
You will have a better man then him.
Wish you Good Luck.
peace bouquet
Thank you Timotie... I do hope he returns. ...but alas, if he doesn't I know where I stand thumbs up
I'm always in the same predicament as you are...

My heart tell me one thing but my head tells me another.....sad flower sad flower sad flower
How would you handle it, dream? help confused
rose Enigmarose
rose He will Returngood luck
good luck :but differently: good luck
So keep in mind he will be not the same man. So keep your self in a position that he realize nd say sorry to you for hurting you.
Stay Blessed.
peace hug kiss
Hmmmmm....to be honest, I normally handle it badly, very badly.

Always get hurt in the end but I quickly bounce back grin

'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all'

- Alfred Lord Tennyson
Lol dream, we have that in common...my outcome usually isn't any better

Seems we always ignore those who love us and love those who ignore us
..so is life sad flower
Listen to your gut, deep down...
Ohhh nooo Calliope.... Deep down my gut says to let go of a wonderful man.....I have no patience laugh wave
Interesting! very interesting!! Sab maya hai (Hindi=everything is an illusion)!!! wink
I have been chasing a shadow for years and so I can feel the gravity. But believe me it leads nowhere. sad flower I am afraid you may nurture, just the opposite opinion, tomorrow. dunno
Iaotoo, so you think I'm just chasing an idea of what I wish for perhaps? Still have yet to hear from him so maybe it's true....when I speak my mind and lay the cards out on the table he tells me he feels cornered....but it's how I feel and I'm tired of just being patient and ready for him when he has a moment to spare... I think if and when I do hear from him again I will tell him uninterrupted, what's on my mind and if he feels cornered and scares off, then he's truly not ready for me anyway and it would be his loss....and mine too sad flower
Do you talk with your guy Engi?wave
Hi Enigma,

I would like to say things will work out, but I doubt they will.

He will not commit under any circumstances. The only time he will be with you is when he chooses to be with you...no more. Never more.

You will be waiting all your life for that phone call, that text, that visit, to make it all right again. But it doesn't really.

Whether he has somebody else or not is irrelevant. You don't have him. Not in the way you want.

If you need more, go get more somewhere else. Because you will never get it from him.

sad flower
Ali...it's been one week since I've last heard from him....not so much a call or text message dunno blues
Molly you just may be right .. I do grow tired of waiting....even the memories are fading ...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=728o3osYo3o
Oh dear....not even the YouTube codes are workin for me.... Lol maybe that's just a sign I need coffee or I should just go back to bed and right now I'm preferring the latter rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
.....another text this morning from the mystery man "Good morning, sweetie, how have you been?" blues
Molly,

you talk reality....so it going to bethumbs up

Rolf
Hi Engi wave
Did u hear from him ?
I have, Ali...he's coming to see me tomorrow... For a day or two...then will probably disappear again doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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