Better To Have Loved And Lost?
I guess a lot of people will differ from me on this but I think it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
Okay, you’re sitting with a broken heart. That is not the end of the world. The human heart is very resilient. It will heal. How fast will only depend on how quickly you will snap out of your misery to get back into circulation; to start living again
The other casualty is your ego. You may feel rejected, unwanted, unworthy and maybe even guilty, but your ego too will restore itself. The heart won’t heal while the ego is hurt.
Think about it this way. The only thing you lost was a lover who may not have been worthy of your love in the first place. But in the process you have loved and you had a lot of fun. And most importantly, you have learned. Every time you will come out a little stronger and a bit wiser. You will cope better next time.
And just for good measure; if the break-up came to you as a surprise, you have been snoozing for there are always telltales. Love with your one eye open
Relax, it is Friday.
Comments (51)
I don't wanna loose, I just wanna win! Win! Win! Loosing does not feel good at all...
Just kidding though, very true being in love and be loved in return is such an awesome feeling..regardless of the bitter memories...the good ones make us smile when we least expect it.
Even the bad ones must have some good memories, otherwise it would not have lasted long enough to go bad.
I suppose it can be put that way.
I mean what is better; to have been deaf all your life. or to have lost your hearing later in life. One could argue that if you don't know what you're missing, you won't miss it but I'm not sure about that.
And I have learnt ,from past experiences to avoid bad situations, (trying to take something good from a bad situation), Live and learn.
that is sad when somebody gets rattled out of living a normal life. Real Sad. I con only hope that the right girl comes around soon enough to make him lame in the knees.
-if you have lost a lover, ok. life goes on, after a bit...
-If you have lost a lover, yore job, youre home, youre kids....
It might not be that simple...
Right, it may not always be that simple, but life still goes on and we must live that life.
Diova
I'm not going to make a spectacle of myself alone. Go and look through that trunk in the attic for something at least 35 years old. Then we can go to paint the town red and see how long before theywant to take us back to the asylum.
laugh rolling on the floor laughing
-I guess for you it would be like "better to get mooving, than getting stuck somwhere"...
I'm the resident psychiatrist there. I have not had the time to talk to you yet, but your file came across my desk yesterday,