Is Fake the true danger?
We have all heard of ‘fake’ people on dating sites. Who are they really?Are they the ones who put up a profile with no pic, who have a bit of fun (either with people or against them) then take down their profile, or be banned, and within days have a new one up, different name but same MO?
Or are they the ones who have a proper profile & a real pic? One of the ‘regulars’.
One who tells you their life story, albeit in dribs and drabs.
They may share personal details, often garnering people’s sympathy. Especially from the opposite gender. Soft people always fall for the sob-story.
They could act quite prissy at times. Looking down on others who may speak openly about matters related to sex. They may openly condemn them and act as the more virtuous person. They may constantly let people believe they are a step above the norm.
Behind the scenes is a different matter. They are intent on getting their claws into a man, a man they deem worthy of them.
They may get chatting to some of the nicer, or more vulnerable people. These are the easiest to manipulate. And boy do they manipulate.
They try to get as much personal information from the person as possible – this will be used at a later stage.
They, contrary to their public image, want to engage in online-sex early in the relationship. They badger the other person to do it, possibly goading them by saying that their genitals aren’t up to standard if they don’t want to comply.
If the other person doesn’t play ball, things quickly turn ugly.
Threats of blackmail soon follow – threats of exposing private details on the public arena. The constant emails, messages and the stalking.
Nobody turns them down! They are the greatest gift mankind has ever received. They do the choosing. They do the rejecting.
The fires of hell are unleashed on anybody who thinks they can take that away from them.
Some may call them narcissists; some egoists; some entertainers or some even call them victims,
I call them dangerous.
So, next time we are thinking fake, maybe we should look beyond the multi-profile messers & scammers, and into the world of the delusional and downright dangerous.
Comments (93)
Unfortunately, these people are amongst us. And their egos and lying personalities are often fed by innocent bystanders.
Unla, some people are better at seeing shoddy goods than others.
How do I know who is genuine?
What if someone here chooses to bring mischief on another because he or she doesn't get what they want?
How would I know who's the imposter? How does the person gets to defend his/herself?
I am thinking there are alot of private emails going around aimed at defaming some amongst us, what if the claims are erroneous or because of the person's action then there came the reaction?
This is why remain neutral, trying not to be quick to judge.
I am a good judge of character.
Red, lucky you
I believe you are, I trust your judgement.
This is not about me, but about my observations, no matter what time of the month it is, cheeky beggar
Their ego feeds off of the vulnerabilities of others.
Grumpy, I hope they're not comic book themed
Men, get a trusted female friend to have a look
Mr women get a trusted male friend.
The same gender can see through BS and lies much quicker than the opposite gender.
No Batman boxers here....
What makes someone write..."I am the best", "most intelligent", "most attractive"...when they are very clearly not...
Are they trying to convince us...or themselves...
But no doubt people send them snippets
Hiya
Yes...the admin of any webportal in which data is saved is 100% accessible by the admin of the website.
Since our mails...blogs...Forum....everything is saved in the db than it is sure that it is accessible and even some free websites do share your personal data with other sites. Some share for research purposes....and some have clone websites......
Enough said
X
I have been on cs since 2011.
I have seen its functionality....only it's server is a cloud based one and that is a huge cost itself.
It is very well mintainance and manually monitored which is again huge cost.
It is highly organically ranked on search engines....WhiCh is very very highly cost investment on very competitive keywords.
They are doing sponsor ads too.....very high cost again.
At the end how do they cover them ....
Assen se is a very small part of the revenue for such portal and infra.
Enough said!
and Hiya!
This is not right, I thought everyone here is 100% genuine
I get where your directions are heading
I might be crazy but far from deluded
All welcome here
So its a master class or purely a car crash...fun reading though...
Send me your bank details by return
Nite nite
I find them dangerous, too - these people who you describe (who feed their egos through making the other one feel bad, dependent and small).
They are dangerous in a bad way. They are bad. They miss good social skills, but developed bad social skills out of no feeling of selfworth. They are small minded, and their mind goes around in circles, only around their ego because no one else ever cared.
My mom said once about such people they are poor small sausages. I understand why she said that, but I wish we could shoot all these poor small sausages all together to another planet right now.
Yes, they lack social skills and everything revolves around them and their ego.
The blog was just a warning to others to be aware of them, and to help others to be aware of them also.
Ryan, I am delighted as always to welcome you to my blog, no matter what form you come in.
I must say your new profile picture is very becoming of you.
Between that and your poetic writing skills, you will have no problems finding the woman of your dreams on here.
Dedo, maybe the hunter was always the hunted, but simply didn't realise it.
Grumpybum, yes I am a blur in reality. I really should walk slower
You get your very own psychopath as a prize
What's her name pray tell... hope its not "Gladys"